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Quote by Lifes2short2007
im a single man love 2 get into swinging but never had right partner any advice and why r single men in particular frowned upon?:
Be patient and polite.
The ones who are frowned upon are those who expect that couples and single females will fall at their feet the instant they offer themselves up for a shag. Then they moan and gripe about how nobody answers their emails/PMs/posts and how everyone is a timewaster/not genuine/tosser.
However, it's not just single men who do that.
Sex God
Quote by Lifes2short2007to be honest ,its not a very good introduction of your self is it,just sounds like a winge,why not try something that will sell yourself instead.
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
to be honest ,its not a very good introduction of your self is it,just sounds like a winge,why not try something that will sell yourself instead.
like this, look & learn
Quote by stupidtraything
cheap at half the price, roll-up, roll-up!
works everytime, just watch
lp
Sex God
Swinging, sometimes referred to as the swinging lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple." The phenomenon (or at least its wider discussion and practice) may be seen as part of the sexual revolution of recent decades, which occurred after the upsurge in sexual activity made possible by the prevalence of safer sex practices during the same period. Swinging has been called wife swapping in the past, but this term is archaic, as it is androcentric and does not accurately describe the full range of sexual activities in which swingers may take part.
Activities
Swinging activities may include (but are not limited to):
Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.
Voyeurism: watching others have sex (perhaps with the above mentioned partner).
Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners.
Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type.
Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. On these occasions, swingers will often refer to sex as play.
I rather like this simpistic but adequate for myself explanation of swinging. Anyone thinking of trying swining must not view it as a cheap shag, a quick way to get a shag, Or a way to get to a shag. It's not a dating agency or a escort service.
If you are thinking about swinging with a couple as a single bloke don't think that just because its a couple it increases your chances to get a shag with the female (or male). Remember that there is going to be another person in the equation if you Think about what you want from it first then give yourself time and space to develope the idea. It really isn't a matter of sign up get laid.
Settle into the site look around and enjoy yourself if its what your up for - happy swinging mate and good luck!
Activities
Swinging activities may include (but are not limited to):
Exhibitionism: having sex with a partner while being watched.
Voyeurism: watching others have sex (perhaps with the above mentioned partner).
Soft Swinging or Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form of a threesome, group sex, or the literal swapping of partners.
Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Although this is the commonly understood definition of swinging, it is not necessarily the most common type.
Group Sex: An all-inclusive term for activities involving multiple partners in the same vicinity.
Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in sexual activity with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. These acts can occur in the same room (often called same room swinging) though different or separate room swinging does occur. On these occasions, swingers will often refer to sex as play.
I rather like this simpistic but adequate for myself explanation of swinging. Anyone thinking of trying swining must not view it as a cheap shag, a quick way to get a shag, Or a way to get to a shag. It's not a dating agency or a escort service.
If you are thinking about swinging with a couple as a single bloke don't think that just because its a couple it increases your chances to get a shag with the female (or male). Remember that there is going to be another person in the equation if you Think about what you want from it first then give yourself time and space to develope the idea. It really isn't a matter of sign up get laid.
Settle into the site look around and enjoy yourself if its what your up for - happy swinging mate and good luck!
Sex God
Anyone thinking of trying swining must not view it as a cheap shag, a quick way to get a shag, Or a way to get to a shag. It's not a dating agency or a escort service.
you know? i agree wholeheartedly!
i tried that swining once, and have to say it was feckin' rubbish! :shock: no, it really needs to be said . . . . it's pants!
they have very hairy fatty backs, and their manners were atrocious!? positively piggish if you ask me. wouldn't touch 'em with a baconey barge-pole!?
neil ((( n.b. gem had some input too! :shock:
))) x x x ;) 
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It's cos we'll try and shag anything with a pulse, except Dawnie of course, i have some standards :giggle: 
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
)
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
) Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
It's cos we'll try and shag anything with a pulse, except Dawnie of course, i have some standards :giggle:
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
Quoted!
Oh Dawnieeeeeeeeeee!
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Quote by Freckledbird
It's cos we'll try and shag anything with a pulse, except Dawnie of course, i have some standards :giggle:
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
Quoted!
Oh Dawnieeeeeeeeeee!
I think you might be in trouble in the morning meaty :lol2:
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Nah, she's only got ickle legs, i can keep just out of her reach if i jog
Plus her boobs might slow her down too :grin:
Plus her boobs might slow her down too :grin:
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
Anyone thinking of trying swining must not view it as a cheap shag, a quick way to get a shag, Or a way to get to a shag. It's not a dating agency or a escort service.
you know? i agree wholeheartedly!
i tried that swining once, and have to say it was feckin' rubbish! :shock: no, it really needs to be said . . . . it's pants!
they have very hairy fatty backs, and their manners were atrocious!? positively piggish if you ask me. wouldn't touch 'em with a baconey barge-pole!?
neil ((( n.b. gem had some input too! :shock:
))) x x x ;)
:lol2: And i so read through it for mistakes too 
:lol: Quote by poshkate
It's cos we'll try and shag anything with a pulse, except Dawnie of course, i have some standards :giggle:
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
Quoted!
Oh Dawnieeeeeeeeeee!
I think you might be in trouble in the morning meaty :lol2:
Thank you ladies :rose: :rose:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Nah, she's only got ickle legs, i can keep just out of her reach if i jog
Plus her boobs might slow her down too :grin:
Hello Mr Meaty
I'm so glad that I don't reach your standards, I would hate to have to turn you down in public
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: 
Orgasminator
Hello Lifes2short2007 and welcome to the forum
Getting back to the original posted topic for a moment, It’s a simple fact that single men outnumber the females and couples on the site by at least 10 to 1 – which means that should they want a single guy they have lots of choice. So the only way you are going to get anywhere is either to look like brad pitt (or whoever is this month’s flavour) or to stand out from the rest by contributing to the forums ( well you’ve made a start here) and to the chatrooms. Word your own ads carefully, and when responding to ads placed by others – read their profile and ALL their ads carefully beforehand and make sure you meet the requirements – or if you don’t then at least say why you think you should be an exception.
There is probably someone out there for you – but you need to stand out from the crowd. – Good luck.
Getting back to the original posted topic for a moment, It’s a simple fact that single men outnumber the females and couples on the site by at least 10 to 1 – which means that should they want a single guy they have lots of choice. So the only way you are going to get anywhere is either to look like brad pitt (or whoever is this month’s flavour) or to stand out from the rest by contributing to the forums ( well you’ve made a start here) and to the chatrooms. Word your own ads carefully, and when responding to ads placed by others – read their profile and ALL their ads carefully beforehand and make sure you meet the requirements – or if you don’t then at least say why you think you should be an exception.
There is probably someone out there for you – but you need to stand out from the crowd. – Good luck.
Quote by Freckledbird
The ones who are frowned upon are those who expect that couples and single females will fall at their feet the instant they offer themselves up for a shag. ......
So that actually doesn't happen? I really was expecting to be inundated with replies... damn! :doh:
Now what am I going to do with that truckload of viagra I just ordered?
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Quote by Dawnie
It's cos we'll try and shag anything with a pulse, except Dawnie of course, i have some standards :giggle:
(Shhhhhh, don't tell her
Quoted!
Oh Dawnieeeeeeeeeee!
I think you might be in trouble in the morning meaty :lol2:
Thank you ladies :rose: :rose:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
Nah, she's only got ickle legs, i can keep just out of her reach if i jog
Plus her boobs might slow her down too :grin:
Hello Mr Meaty
I'm so glad that I don't reach your standards, I would hate to have to turn you down in public
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom::giggle:
although i'd be happy to hold your boobs in place if you need to chase anyone else
:giggle: 
:x:x:x:x:x Sex God
With my tongue? 
Sex God
Big enough to reach the parts that need it :rascal:
