Ok so you have found a person/people that you're interested in meeting, read their profile and they seem to like what you like and you've sent a couple of messages and all seems wonderful.
You send your face pics and ask for theirs. They seem ok but there is just something about them ........
What puts you off? Could it be that they are not attractive enough or maybe too attractive? Too fat, too thin? The guy is bald or the woman wears too much make-up?
What are the things for you that would turn it from lets go to no no??
Some people just give me the creeps.
There is sometimes the thing where all of our niche boxes are ticked and there is just that pit of the tummy feeling there isn't something quite right, something that just doesn't add up, or from the photos it's just not quite clicking.
We'd do social meets first anyway, so I suppose most of the alarm bells can be silenced or ring louder when the people are infront of you.
From responses so far it sounds like we are really picky!!!
We dont tend to do social meets first although we meet people after meeting them at a social ... if that make sense??? We tend to make most decisions very much from message/chat contact and face pics.
We also tend to find that either I will like him but Lee doesnt like her and vica versa. Sometimes we just cant seem to put our finger on what it is and sometimes it is obvious!!
must be clean,, not smelly clothes can talk as much as me.n can buy a round of drinks as we do...the art of talking is a must....love a social n a good laugh.
being serious for once in here
we went down the avenue of a long list of dos and dont and likes and dislikes then realised hardly anyone read it anyway and it does put people off and to be honest trying to find the 'right' play mates is hard enough.. so now we say what we are , we say what people need to do to take things further.. Rose wants to tinker with the profile and make it more in depth again but im not so sure,
what puts me off.. people that cant say hi on cam, smiley faces .. if they are a couple single smiley face if its a girly,
.. and i know this is contentious, tough, dont care its how we do things.
Dont tell me ''we dont have to prove anything on cam etc etc '' of course you dont.. but if you want to play with us you do..simples
staggy
What puts us off (other than bad body odour) is uncicumsized cocks - you never know what might be hiding under those foreskins...
I've just had a message which highlighted another thing that puts me off ....
Yes I may be interested in how well endowed a guy is but I really dont care how well off he is!! Why would I want to know if someone's rich ffs, it aint like I'm asking for money!!
What puts me off?? People who automatically think that just because you're talking to them it means they're getting a shag!! Also rude people, I once had a guy who private messages me on chat telling me to open my mouth so he could piss in it!!! A bit of common courtesy wouldn't go a miss with some people on here!!! X
I know he was obviously never taught that please and thankyou's get you everywhere!!! Lol
LG. x x x
