So are all single guys timewasters then?

2 Jul 2005

Why do you think it's only single guys who are the timewasters?? I'm pretty sick of hearing this mantra. There are plenty of people who are timewasters or idiots in every sector. And how do you know this bloke WAS single? Cos he told you?? Cos he told you he'd be back in a couple of minutes didn't he?
Think about it!
rolleyes

:roll:

2 Jul 2005

I'm sorry - I know you're pissed off, but to answer your question he certainly didn't waste any time (well his anyway). lol

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

How isn't that genuine? He turned up, obviously played?

2 Jul 2005

To be fair, he did turn up so, by most peoples' standards, that makes him 'genuine' doesn't it?
I'd say you did well, arranging and having a meet so soon after joining this site.

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Yeah, I suppose he was genuine, he did at least turn up, maybe I should give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe it was his first time or he was nervous or something.

Benefit of what doubt? He turned up!!!! He did the deed!!! Then he left - could have said he was going but doesn't make him any less genuine. Sheesh rolleyes

2 Jul 2005

In a word.....NO.
I've met some lovely single guys here. As long as you remember to conduct yourself in cyber as you do in RL the good qualities should eventually shine through.

2 Jul 2005

Most of the members of this site are single guys.
Assuming the personalities ranging from saints to complete bastards are evenly disrtibuted, it therefore stands to reason that most of the time wasters are single guys.
It also stands to reason, the same reason, that most of the genuine people are also single guys. And most of the stupid people and most of the funny people and most of the gorgeous people and most of the mingers and most of the chartered accountants and most of the circus clowns will all be single guys... am I making sense yet?
In my experience, most people on this site are a waste of both time and space regardless of whether they're single, but I don't come in here whingeing and tarring everyone with the same brush. If the complainers spent as much time concentrating on people who are compatible as they do soapboxing about those who are not, they might get to have a little fun. rolleyes

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
Most of the members of this site are single guys.
Assuming the personalities ranging from saints to complete bastards are evenly disrtibuted, it therefore stands to reason that most of the time wasters are single guys.
It also stands to reason, the same reason, that most of the genuine people are also single guys. And most of the stupid people and most of the funny people and most of the gorgeous people and most of the mingers and most of the chartered accountants and most of the circus clowns will all be single guys... am I making sense yet?
In my experience, most people on this site are a waste of both time and space regardless of whether they're single, but I don't come in here whingeing and tarring everyone with the same brush. If the complainers spent as much time concentrating on people who are compatible as they do soapboxing about those who are not, they might get to have a little fun.

There is a difference between soapboxing andhighlighting, I believe anyway wink

Once again, you've about covered it :thumbup:
:shock: Did I just agree with you?
And admit to doing so more than once?

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Libra+Love
If the complainers spent as much time concentrating on people who are compatible as they do soapboxing about those who are not, they might get to have a little fun.

There is a difference between soapboxing andhighlighting, I believe anyway wink

Once again, you've about covered it :thumbup:
When it's been highlighted forty seven tousand times, it begins to arouse more tedium than sympathy. :wink:

:shock: Did I just agree with you?
And admit to doing so more than once?

Fraid so. Annoying isn't it? lol

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
When it's been highlighted forty seven tousand times, it begins to arouse more tedium than sympathy.
:shock: Did I just agree with you?
And admit to doing so more than once?

Fraid so. Annoying isn't it? lol

How many single females on this site you think? :wink:
:giggle:
Okay, Okay I'm gone, taking all female emotions with me.

2 Jul 2005

Jags, Bev, Steph; and Jen worship

:worship: :worship:
I've had a marvellous, incredible day.
Bit of a disappointment this morning, then fate; kismet -call it what you will, dealt me a fantastic afternoon.
I've prepared, cooked and eaten a very enjoyable evening meal. Washed down with my favourite little Italian red.
Then I come here to find this guff ! !
AND - I've just been told that I've missed Madonna on Live8 mad

AND - DOUBLE BOLLOX - I've run out of wine ! ! !

Quote by Ice Pie
If the complainers spent as much time concentrating on people who are compatible as they do soapboxing about those who are not, they might get to have a little fun.

2 Jul 2005

Gooner, it can happen both ways (oo-er!). You might another time invite a guy back to your place, and after a short time you might feel uncomfortable about him - i.e. that the atmosphere is not right - and ask him to leave. Will that make you timewasters? Of course not - everyone concerned has the right to stop everything and leave if they feel uncomfortable for whatever reason, even if the sexual bit seems to be going well.
Better luck next time,
Mike.

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Libra+Love
How many single females on this site you think?
:giggle:

More than enough even for someone as greedy as me. biggrin

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

give it time, the fag counter in the supermarkets has always got a longer queue on saturdays cos of the lottery.

2 Jul 2005

no, he turned up..
therefore in my book not a time waster....

2 Jul 2005

Quote by davej
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

give it time, the fag counter in the supermarkets has always got a longer queue on saturdays cos of the lottery.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Poor fella must have got locked in now!

2 Jul 2005

after being a "single male" and being part of a "couple" i find that there as many timewasting cpls as there are singles, as a "single male" I have allways been genuine and turned up when arranged , and i have also been let down by supposed couples.
Now being part of a couple we also turn up if we arrange to meet and always send "face" pics and fone numbers to confirm we are genuine, but we are finding more and more supposed cpls are timewasters.
Arrange to meet up, phone or just chat to do the same with people and they dissapear...strange, people want pics of "action" or private pics and cant send any back because the pics are too big.....
so dont knock the majority because of the minority, there are timewating cpls as well as singles....
most are genuine and all that we have met are great and would meet again no probs..
so thanks to ALL the genuine people that make this site a success and thanks to all those that help run it, because without these people we would never have met loads of great likeminded folks..!!!!!!

2 Jul 2005

Are all single guys time wasters - NO! If they were then god knows who I have been shagging confused

Are there time wasters - yes
Are there people who change their mind - yes
Are there people who assume what they want from the meet will be OK with you and when they have done what they came to do will feel it is OK to leave- YES mad

Spend a bit more time doing your homework and making sure you know what they want and seeing if it matches what you want. But remember - it is still a lucky dip ... (there are somethings you can only find out once you get down to it)
Are there crap shags out there - Hell Yes!
Is everyone on here great in bed - are they heck-as-like!
Are there plenty of genuine people out there who know what they are doing - Yep, and all the fun is in going out there and finding them. :twisted:

2 Jul 2005

WOW! That guy was good !! I mean ive been practicin sex for years and years and I cant get it down under five minutes even if I try really hard !
Respect

2 Jul 2005

Seems to me that he wasted no time at all :dry: :haha:

2 Jul 2005

Next time make provisions, have an extra packet of fags, tunes, lockets, or jelly babies at hand, oh and lock the door, handcuff him to the bed, burn his clothes and let his tyres down biggrin

Dont meet me you'll end up clock watching and saying "isnt it time you went home now" lol

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

the annoying thing for me about what you wrote is that this is your first time in the forum... so you are complaining about something that happened in another part of the site, the ad's
is that kinda like going into asda to complain about a jumper you bought from M&S
if you get to know the people here we can be a lot different....
thanks for the gross generalisation by the way......
sean xxxxxxx

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

No great lose.....a gentleman would have gone for tissues.

2 Jul 2005

should take it as a compliment...you were so good that he just couldn't hold back and lost it in 30secs.......respect to you !!

2 Jul 2005

Ok, here is a different slant.
We find most single guys are genuine and a higher proportion of couples are timewasters.
In fact I would say that nearly all single guys are genuine, if you take genuine to mean up for it and will meet and do it.

2 Jul 2005

Quote by Goooner1
Exchanged a few emails with a that responded to our ad earlier today, he was desperate to meet, so we arranged it, he got here, came on Debs tits in about 30 seconds, said he had to nip to the shop to get some fags and he'd be back in a couple of minutes.
Of course he never did
I'm sure there must be some genuine guys out there aren't there?
No names mentioned to protect his embarrassment

30 seconds..... heck i could have done it at least 3 times in that space of time.....
might be a man thing....the hubby of my best mate said he was just going down the shop for some fags.... she didn't see him again for 4 yrs.....
and can you believe he forgot the buggers!!!!!

2 Jul 2005

Sorry Gooner, I forgot to say hi!
I'm guessing that you like it up the Arsenal, perhaps he doesnt and hence the hasty retreat!
wink

2 Jul 2005

well my opinion for what its worth is its not just single guys who are time wasters we have been stood up by couples as well, one couple who didn't turn up even have the nerve to tell everyone i was a single guys saying i was the fem half of a couple and it was me who never went to the arranged meet confused

But the real question in hand is not if they turn up but their attitude and i'm sorry to say IN MY EXPERIENCE u will find what happened to u typical of single men, again IN MY EXPERIENCE single men do not care what the woman get out of the meet they are there to cum and go wink

most want a bj and a shag and sod the womans needs, now b4 all u guys jump on me i have not shagged evey man on this site and can only judge by the ones i have played with which i have 2 admit is a fair few redface

also wanted to add i have not found this of all guys i have met just most of them

2 Jul 2005

i didnt do that !!! :shock:

2 Jul 2005

Guess the world is made up of givers, takers and those in between...just a shame you cant tell what someone is just by looking.
It's bad enough on ebay and you're not playing with anyones emotions on ebay. Figure it will always be a downer when you realise you have been asked to give more than you have received.