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Quote by hertslads
don't u just hate when some members ruin threads?
I've had a search through your posts and can't find any instances of anyone being rude to you. As for threads - it's the nature of the place and people. No threads ruined, just enhanced. Gilding the lily!!
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Quote by hertslads
don't u just hate when some members ruin threads?
It happens when you are having conversations down the pub as well. It isn't unique to the forums :roll:
Are you sure they are being rude? Or have you taken their style of humour or writing to be rude? When you write on a forum, your body language can not be seen, so when you write something that you thought was funny, it can come out as rude or annoying to the other person. You can either be annoyed or just walk away........it is your choice and if you wish to waste your life on what might have been said on an internet site......then that is up to you.
Dave_Notts
Sex God
Quote by hertslads
don't u just hate when some members ruin threads?
Yeah, terrible isn't it - a few ASBOs would sort them out. :roll:
Quote by Jags
don't u just hate when some members ruin threads?
I've had a search through your posts and can't find any instances of anyone being rude to you. As for threads - it's the nature of the place and people. No threads ruined, just enhanced. Gilding the lily!!
:P
not rude to me as such as I don't post that much anyway on here. I only try to post/reply to threads when I have something good to add or something relevant to the thread. But you can find many threads ruined or members being rude generally on this forum. I just hate when members patronise people or post things which are not relevant to the thread.
You know who you all are. :twisted:
ive not really seen much in the way of rudeness, maybe some dry reply's when someone keeps doing stuff that is clearly stated in the guidelines NOT to do. Then there is also some serious discussion threads that can cover some sensitive topics. As in life you would expect strong opposing views to come across less than fluffy with each other. I have seen plenty banter between some members that know each other well, and I have seen, I am glad to say, some short shrift being shown to some new members who come on here and say some pretty awful stuff.
Its difficult to know what you mean without an idea of what type of post and response.
Its difficult to know what you mean without an idea of what type of post and response.
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
hasn't this subject been done b4 many many times?
sorry did i just ruin your thread?
Don't be so rude. :lol:
:rotflmao:
Sex God
It's actually quite rare to see openly rude posts being made. Abusive posts, should the occur, get removed and the member banned (permanently, or for a short while if the grovel well 
). What some newbies (and indeed some regs) do pick up on is the amount of piss taking that goes on throughout threads. This piss taking tends to be in the form of humour when someone for example has posted a right clanger, something really innane, or a completely unrealistics and ill-thought out one-line "shag me" post. It's the same type of piss taking humour that you see amongst friends in all sorts of RL situations, and it is not abusive and usually quite harmless. If the object of the piss taking replies with humour him/herself what you tend to find is that they intergrate very quickly into the forum and people warm to them. Obviously if they reply in a very abusive manner they may be banned.
What some people also pick up on are thread hijaks.... yes, that happens a lot. Usually it is, again, good humoured, and often it occurs when the original topic has run its course. Malicious hijaks are rare and they don't tend to work anyway. Serious or very interesting topics tend to run for pages and pages... there may be minor hijaks throughout, or a series of posts that go off at a tangent to the original topic, but this is exactly what would happen in a RL conversation. If the topic is interesting enough it will be brought back into the conversation time and time again, hijaked or not. It is a matter of getting used to peoples' style of posting and going along with the banter. It really is quite fun once you get used to it! :grin:
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). What some newbies (and indeed some regs) do pick up on is the amount of piss taking that goes on throughout threads. This piss taking tends to be in the form of humour when someone for example has posted a right clanger, something really innane, or a completely unrealistics and ill-thought out one-line "shag me" post. It's the same type of piss taking humour that you see amongst friends in all sorts of RL situations, and it is not abusive and usually quite harmless. If the object of the piss taking replies with humour him/herself what you tend to find is that they intergrate very quickly into the forum and people warm to them. Obviously if they reply in a very abusive manner they may be banned. What some people also pick up on are thread hijaks.... yes, that happens a lot. Usually it is, again, good humoured, and often it occurs when the original topic has run its course. Malicious hijaks are rare and they don't tend to work anyway. Serious or very interesting topics tend to run for pages and pages... there may be minor hijaks throughout, or a series of posts that go off at a tangent to the original topic, but this is exactly what would happen in a RL conversation. If the topic is interesting enough it will be brought back into the conversation time and time again, hijaked or not. It is a matter of getting used to peoples' style of posting and going along with the banter. It really is quite fun once you get used to it! :grin:
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Sod off Dukes
Sorry matye couldnt resist
Ill fetch my coat
OI you!! :kick: how did you get in before me HUH!!
Debs writes notes must get in there before old fish face gets in :notes:
Who you calling fish-face, cod-lips?
(this is a free-for-all, isn't it?)
*Waits for return abuse, partiently*
Quote by Vix
Sod off Dukes
Sorry matye couldnt resist
Ill fetch my coat
OI you!! :kick: how did you get in before me HUH!!
Debs writes notes must get in there before old fish face gets in :notes:
Who you calling fish-face, cod-lips?
(this is a free-for-all, isn't it?)
*Waits for return abuse, partiently*
OI belly wanker!..............
I reckon most of the humour on here is sarcasm which if you are not used to it is not the most straigthforward thing to express or pick up through a computer screen and there fore is easily seen asbeing rude but is probably not meant to be....after all is everyone here for the same thing more or less..
Sex God
So, about the weather then - bloody awful isn't it?
Oh, that wasn't relevant was it, not at all. Mind you, it was a whinge, which must be the general reason for the thread - that's how it started, after all.
Oh, that wasn't relevant was it, not at all. Mind you, it was a whinge, which must be the general reason for the thread - that's how it started, after all.
Sex God
Quote by Vix
Debs called me a belly wanker, which is true. Self confesserd, even.
That's as derogatory as calling Freck' a pedant.
Pedant and proud of it.
Sex God
Quote by The Dukes
I take it all back, come on throw it at me :giveup:
Bev aims carefully and throws a huuuuuge custard pie in Duke's face
Sex God
Quote by postie
I just hate when members patronise people or post things which are not relevant to the thread.
You know who you all are. :twisted:
Nope... out with it.. c'mon!
Silly Postie, it's everyone except hertslads of course
Was that patronising?
Sex God
Quote by hertslads
not rude to me as such as I don't post that much anyway on here. I only try to post/reply to threads when I have something good to add or something relevant to the thread. But you can find many threads ruined or members being rude generally on this forum. I just hate when members patronise people or post things which are not relevant to the thread.
You know who you all are. :twisted:
Yes I know who I am, thanks for pointing that out (gotta say I find that little phrase irritating!). But is that relevant to your thread or have you just hi-jacked it yourself. P'raps I'm being pedantic.
It's true some people sail close to the wind when speaking to new members but generally those that get on and get past it will survive and enjoy themselves - those that take offence ....well that's their problem really.
Sex God
Quote by hertslads
don't u just hate when some members ruin threads?
Nope.........NEXT!!
