Sorry! i was rude not to introduce myself (Chocmadam)

2 Aug 2005

Hi everyone!
I did not introduce myself earlier-i realise that was quite rude-sorry sad

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Iam Chocmadam,iam 26 years old and live in S.E London.I work as an assistant manager at a Bluewater clothing store (boring i know!) I have always had a 'thing' about white males however, i have never acted on it.I think when i was younger i was too concerned about what friends/my father would say.
My post a few days ago was not intended to offend anyone.A male friend sent me the link to this site a few weeks ago.I looked through many of the photo ads- a few would say "race unimportant" or "black and asian women welcome".I wasn't sure if ads that did not carry such statements were open to course i realise there must be a certain chemistry between people,regardless of whether they fit your preference or not.
Iam not a swinger :swingingchair: but it is something that appeals to year i met a guy i'd been talking to on for a few was the opposite of everything he'd said -well he was male,and white so i suppose he didn't lie about everything biggrin

.He also smelt badly,of piss and fags-two of the worst smells anyone can smell of (in my opinion) i made a quick ,for the time being i'll be hanging round the forum!
Hope my post hasn't bored you too much.
Chocmadam xx

2 Aug 2005

Welcome to the Site hun........
I can assure you that the majority of the guys do NOT smell of piss and fags.....well, not piss anyway....LoL......at least the ones that I 've met anyway.....
I hope you find whatever you're looking for here......it doesn't matter if you're a swinger or not, a lot of people on here don't actually swing but come here for the friendship and the social life.....

2 Aug 2005

Bienvenido :P

2 Aug 2005

and :welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven biggrin

2 Aug 2005

Quote by chocmadam
Hi everyone!
I did not introduce myself earlier-i realise that was quite rude-sorry .
Iam Chocmadam,iam 26 years old and live in S.E London.

and :welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven.

I looked through many of the photo ads- a few would say "race unimportant" or "black and asian women welcome".I wasn't sure if ads that did not carry such statements were open to all.

I've been thinking about how I might interpret non-specific ads on a predominantly black website, and I've come to the conclusion that if all I knew about it was that it was predominantly black, that wouldn't be enough info. I think if an advertiser has a specific colour preference, they ought to say so, and if they don't mention it, then it's probably not an issue.
So I'm going to stop searching for ads that say "blue-eyed men welcome" lol

Seriously, I think you'll find the reason most people here don't mention skin is because they're a lot more interested in what's under it.
Welcome, and Enjoy. :cheers:

2 Aug 2005

That's what I was thinking,
hmm note to self add chinese, black, hispanic etc women welcome too smile

2 Aug 2005

Welcome to the site.
we are not all nuters, ummmmmmmmmm.....
most of us are sane , well grounded people.
I am not one of them
MikeC

2 Aug 2005

Hi chocmadam, I hope you're well
Welcome to the site

2 Aug 2005

Hi and :welcome: to swinging heaven
Anyone worth meeting will not judge you on your colour
So kick your shoes off and have fun hump

2 Aug 2005

I don't know if you were refering to my post on your thread, I hope not.
My take is that race and ethnicity is not relevant, actually that's not true. I have only ever been intimate with someone of my own colour, also predominantly from a similar culture, creed, ethnicity and race. I have few... (let me think, make that no) people in my social circles that are not white, I haven't had since I left the Black Country. That's not through choice, it's just that I moved to an area of low 'ethnic penetration'.
I have always had an interest in experiencing inter-colour/racial intimacy, but the opportunity never really arose. (If anyone is interested Japanese interests me most), but the concept of colour/race whatever has never seemed really important to me, we all bleed and love the same, so it's never been an issue.
So if I had an ad up then lack of specific colour requirements would mean that I had no predilection for or against any group
Chris
Pink, yellow, green, blue, white, red, purple, grey or multicoloured, colour don't matter. redface

:mrgreen: :borg: :bounce: :haha: :color: :uhoh: worship

:embarrased: :taz: :smug: :angel: loon

2 Aug 2005

welcome to the forums lol

2 Aug 2005

Hi and welcome.
you dont have to be a swinger to be on here.
i used to be a swinger thats why i joined this site but now ive hung up my
swinging shoes and me and partner are consentrating on our relationship.
never in my dreams did i think id find love on a swinging site biggrin

hope you find what your looking for and have lots of fun getting to know the mad people on here lol
Tina xxx

2 Aug 2005

brown sugar is very sweet. i think swingers are a open minded bunch by nature and not in the least bit prejudiced of others. we just see the sexy side of each other and like to celebrate the differences, would be a boring world if we all looked the same,a dozen ken and barbies having an orgy would not be as interesting as a bunch of real people.

2 Aug 2005

oh and hello by the way....... biggrin

2 Aug 2005

Hi chocmadam,
hope you have more luck here.
the only colour thats important is a nice white smile,can't stand misserable people or a mouth like a set of snooker balls.

2 Aug 2005

HI CHOCMADAM
WELCOME AND HOPE YOU HAVE FUN !!!
:welcome: :cheers:

2 Aug 2005

Hi there
Just hang around the forums or even the chatroom and you will be able to get to know people that way......
As you will have realised by now from the responses you are more than welcome to the site!!
x

2 Aug 2005

Quote by MikeC
we are not all nuters

I thought he meant "neuters", then I thought it might be "nutters", then the spell checker thought it might be "natters", so I thought there's a good chance Mike meant all three!
All human life is here, and then some.

2 Aug 2005

Welcome to the mad house, don't be too worried about what you're here for yet just hang around on the forums or my personal haunt the chatroom and you'll soon get to know poeple.
Like has been said not everybody here is a swinger and a lot come for the friendship and open-mindedness they find here.
Again - have fun..
richardm

2 Aug 2005

Hiya Chocmadam
Nothing like the feel of dark skin oh soooo sexy lol

Welcome :rose:
And it will make shopping at Bluewater more interesting :twisted:

2 Aug 2005

Quote by chocmadam
Hi everyone!
I did not introduce myself earlier-i realise that was quite rude-sorry .
Iam Chocmadam,iam 26 years old and live in S.E London.I work as an assistant manager at a Bluewater clothing store (boring i know!) I have always had a 'thing' about white males however, i have never acted on it.I think when i was younger i was too concerned about what friends/my father would say.
My post a few days ago was not intended to offend anyone.A male friend sent me the link to this site a few weeks ago.I looked through many of the photo ads- a few would say "race unimportant" or "black and asian women welcome".I wasn't sure if ads that did not carry such statements were open to course i realise there must be a certain chemistry between people,regardless of whether they fit your preference or not.
Iam not a swinger :swingingchair: but it is something that appeals to year i met a guy i'd been talking to on for a few was the opposite of everything he'd said -well he was male,and white so i suppose he didn't lie about everything .He also smelt badly,of piss and fags-two of the worst smells anyone can smell of (in my opinion) i made a quick ,for the time being i'll be hanging round the forum!
Hope my post hasn't bored you too much.
Chocmadam xx

Hi Chocmadam,
I can assure you that I don't smell of fags and piss, the male you refer to must be a dirty bugger, he should be ashamed of himself and ought to take some lessons in personal hygiene, which my Mother taught me sixty seven years ago, keep trying and you will find a man who is clean and fragrant. wink

:cry:

:P

3 Aug 2005

welcome to the madhouse!! lol

hope you find lots of fun
Ian kiss