Erm ... just for scientific purposes ya know.
Any advice on how to not get bruised during a rather enjoyable spanking session.
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Spanking without bruises.
Having a cool compress available afterwards will help along with Arnica Gel ........ helps control bruising, swelling etc. but not for use on broken skin. You can take in pillule form too before the event. Both are available in Boots.
After the event (the BDSMer in me so wants to say scene) just place the compress on the area for a short while, it'll help constrict the blood vessels.
A good vitamin supplement (plenty of vit c) will also assist.
Cx
After the event (the BDSMer in me so wants to say scene) just place the compress on the area for a short while, it'll help constrict the blood vessels.
A good vitamin supplement (plenty of vit c) will also assist.
Cx
Quote by Shireen_Mids
You can get Arnica in tablet form as well CalistaNot sure if it would help to prevent bruising though
Sorry Abilene, I dont like spanking so I am absolutely no use what so ever :lol2:
LOL Shireen the pillules are the tablets ~ I trained for a while in Homeopathy, but chose the Massage/Aromatherapy route.
How does it work?
Arnica works by stimulating the activity of white blood cells which process congested blood, and by dispersing trapped fluids from joints and muscles and bumped and bruised tissue. It also has anti-inflammatory and anti-bacterial qualities and it is these that help to reduce pain and swelling as well as improving wound healing.
I quoted ivillage as it's one of the best explanations out there.
Cx
Abi, if this could be regular then I would recommend taking the pillules for about 12 hours before and using the compress after, and then using the gel.
You could get some gel now but as the bruising has already come out, it will heal more than prevent. If you're showering/bathing don't have the water too hot either.
I've often advised people having physical fun to add arnica to their "toybox" :twisted:
Cx
You could get some gel now but as the bruising has already come out, it will heal more than prevent. If you're showering/bathing don't have the water too hot either.
I've often advised people having physical fun to add arnica to their "toybox" :twisted:
Cx
which is why I can never wear short skirts .... gotta love spontaneity ;) :twisted: Slightly off topic, but helpful anyway!
I recently knew two peeps who had v. similar surgical incisions within days of each other.
One of them was into alternative therapies and had been taking Arnica pills. Her scar healed incredibly quickly & neatly- unlike the other which was a raised red raw mess.
I know there could be lots of other factors- but it convinced me!
I recently knew two peeps who had v. similar surgical incisions within days of each other.
One of them was into alternative therapies and had been taking Arnica pills. Her scar healed incredibly quickly & neatly- unlike the other which was a raised red raw mess.
I know there could be lots of other factors- but it convinced me!
Also slightly off topic ( but it's my thread so fuck it ) .... how oh how have I gone 34 years without knowing I liked pain to the degree that I experienced???? I mean I always knew I like a little bit of pain but hold cow ... I can't even go into detail. Not sure I would want it everytime though as surely the enjoyment would wear thin.
Sex God
how did you discover you liked pain???
im guessing kitty has got longer claws now, you can pop the cheque in the post.....
im guessing kitty has got longer claws now, you can pop the cheque in the post.....
Quote by Abilene
Any advice on how to not get bruised during a rather enjoyable spanking session.
Not sure
, but I know I've never bruised anyone yet from spanking them!Nice red marks that last for a while but no bruises so far....maybe I'm not doing it right :shock: or maybe you have sensitive skin :rascal:
Fee
XX
Sex God
The joys of this site. 
8-)
Would never have thought of Arnica as a toy bag essential but can remember taking it after badly bruising my back in a work accident and it doing a good job.
Thank you Callista, a new thought for every day xx
Roger. 8-)
8-) Would never have thought of Arnica as a toy bag essential but can remember taking it after badly bruising my back in a work accident and it doing a good job.
Thank you Callista, a new thought for every day xx
Roger. 8-)
Sex God
some people bruise much easier than others, its not necesarily the way you have been slapped, it may just be the way you are, i suggest you are slapped in places people cant see lol
or wear a shell suit to work!! i can see you now
staggy
oh god shelll suits remember them
or wear a shell suit to work!! i can see you now
staggy
oh god shelll suits remember them
Sex God
Abilene
To me it all sounds a bit harsh........however I hope they fade quickly for you
To me it all sounds a bit harsh........however I hope they fade quickly for you
Abilene
To me it all sounds a bit harsh........however I hope they fade quickly for you
There, I think is your answer Abilene, not to be so brutally spanked :shock: , there really is no need, if you enjoy pain,
, then it may be an idea :idea: to consider increasing the quantity of strokes not the severity.
To me it all sounds a bit harsh........however I hope they fade quickly for you
There, I think is your answer Abilene, not to be so brutally spanked :shock: , there really is no need, if you enjoy pain,
, then it may be an idea :idea: to consider increasing the quantity of strokes not the severity. Sex God
Quote by Kiss
I think a lot depends on your biological makeup too. I only have to breath on my girlfriend and she bruises. Where as I can be well and truely flogged and have no marks the next day.
i only have to breath on someone elses girlfriend and rose bruises me! :P
staggy
Sex God
rose has the right idea then :lol:
:lol: Quote by wild rose and the stag
I think a lot depends on your biological makeup too. I only have to breath on my girlfriend and she bruises. Where as I can be well and truely flogged and have no marks the next day.
i only have to breath on someone elses girlfriend and rose bruises me! :P
staggy
:giggle:
I get slapped, but there just isn't a mark left!
Quote by Abilene
Thanks for the advice.
Right now my ass and upper legs ( at the back ) look like an army have been marching over them.
:shock: : : :jeeeeeesus. gif:
Forgive my naiveity here, but I thought that if 'done properly' (ie: there's a certain 'technique' to spanking / using crops/ paddles etc) there shouldnt be any bruising???
nor should it hurt (in the sense of there being 'good' pain and 'bad' pain
(i know what i mean even if you dont!
) I'll openly admit to you that I dont know much about this at all, really not my cup of tea, thanks...... but.......I'm thinking specifically of a couple of people who have attempted to 'talk me into' pain play specifically with the statement that 'it wont mark you' ....'no, honest, the welts will be gone by morning'...yadda yadda...... but after a fairly nasty experience many moons ago, no-one's coming near me with owt like that anyway! :kissmyarse: - nor could I inflict it on anyone else (well, ok, yeah I could :twisted: - just not in a 'play' situation :lol
So, having had a crop used to the point of drawing blood.....and since then being told that 'they' simply wern't 'doing it right' and blood/ bruising/ angry welts for 2 weeks after just shouldnt happen.....to reading this thread with posts about arnica, cold compress & marks/ bruising being dependent on how easily someone bruises anyway...... and fuck meee I'm confused.
Some people love the bruises!
each to their own and all that, but I'm wincing at the thought of it! God, I'm so nesh :lol:
ops: I think i'll be spending the rest of my evening doing some research :dunno:
Orgasminator
You are right, Darkfire. If it is done properly, all you get left with is the pleasure and none of the pain. But there are people out there who want to be bruised and will even complain if not bruised enough. 
As for not trusting those who promise you it won't hurt, etc. you are right again not to, as most people thinkthey are experienced in doing stuff and using tools just because they did it a few times...
Abilene, I am glad you discovered another interest in life, but be careful, my dear, there are a lot of crazed up people out there and too many bad things that can happen to you, especially if you are sharing other people's toys.
As for not trusting those who promise you it won't hurt, etc. you are right again not to, as most people thinkthey are experienced in doing stuff and using tools just because they did it a few times...Abilene, I am glad you discovered another interest in life, but be careful, my dear, there are a lot of crazed up people out there and too many bad things that can happen to you, especially if you are sharing other people's toys.
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :twisted: