you get out of it what you put in to be honest.
i wanted to be able to get on with like minded people. but i ended up with a sparkly diamond on my finger, lol - thats a different story.
Hmmm, well non-members won't be able to contact anyone so I'd guess they aren't actually doing any more than look. Waste of time commenting on them. And no point coming here saying about lack of success here as opposed to success on other sites.
Success to me is the fact that tonight I am am getting my kneck sucked and kissed and being made to feel a million dollars curtosy of swinging heaven (well in terms of meeting my guy on here). We want a million babies in the next year, we want to love the world and will enter any talent shows we can as a couple lol.
Seriously I found a relationship on here when I was not looking for one and thats the best sort - try to hard and you will get maybe just maybe lucky - just relax have fun and things could just could happen.
not often in forum - usually in chat room
But it works for us :cheers: