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Support for giving up smoking wanted !!!!!!

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lol Hello
I did this before and lasted 10 months - gave up smoking that is :lol: . I didnt do it for me though -I did it as I was seeing a non smoker at the time.
This times it because I want to do it for me. I put the patch on this morning and I am now a non smoker and have already ate my way through 20 packs of mini malteesers rolleyes :lol:
Anyway, more importantly, if I stay off the little blighters for a week, Mr and Mrs Mids Princess and Cockup have said a week on Thursday they will give up smoking too!!!!!!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
So all support will be gratefully accepted from someone who was smoking about 30 a day lately redface I will keep you updated and if anyone else wants to quit with me - go for it !!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Love Corrie xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Good luck Corrie, I have no doubt you can do it kiss
I add my promise to mids and cockups, Mr S will join you in spirit lol
Mrs S xxxxx
Huge hugs for you. I know from my Mum's experience how hard it can be.
What worked for her was to have her carpets cleaned and hard surfaces cleaned down (by me). It washed away all the tar and smoky smell from the house and she said it was a real pleasure walking in and smelling a clean fresh house.
Carrot sticks might be better than maltesers though. :shock:
good luck, i was on 30-40 a day when i gave up about 15 years ago
Go Corrie .. Go Corrie :thumbup:
Good luck
Cx
shall I?
Shall I?
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Good luck with it kiss
what will you suck on now..... rolleyes
Good luck corrie :thumbup:
I wish you all the luck in the world Corrie
I gave up 2 Saturdays a go without patches or anything..
Been smoking for 22 years and was smoking about 40+ roll-ups a day and this is only the 3rd time i ever tried lasting only a few hours, this time though i am succeeding biggrin
Already I feel loads healthier, i can go much longer in the sack and not run out of breath, my smell and taste is better and feel better in my general being.
oh and believe it or not, normally by night time when my eyes start getting sleepy i normally have to wear my glasses to read the forums... but not needed them for the last 6 days :shock:
Indoors also smells loads fresher as no smoking in here now..
Shaz is going to try to pack up next week although she is going to get the patches.
I have gone from about 11.5 stone to 13 stone though in that short a time redface
good luck!
Tony wink
Good Luck Corrie ....... hope you do it! kiss
If you have any spare, that you obviously wont be needing now ........ send them to us lol
Stick with it :thumbup:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
go for it.... you will feel so much better and now is a bloody good time to stop as its getting cold and rainy and miserable.....now you don't want to be standing out side in that, now do you.... so come and join us sensible ones inside the pub in the warm.
seriously good luck and don't let it slip....and forget week thursday..come on ali and pete....join in now.
The very best of luck Corrie ...it really is so very well worth the effort.
I gave them up about 7 years ago and was a 30+ a day man.
The pointers that have made my attempt successful so far( Do not kid yourself that you have ever given them up ...we are all in the process of giving them up...it's just a matter of how far we have got)are:-
1)You must get your head sorted so that you really do want to give them up ....debate it seriously and honestly with yourself ...or with me if that helps.
2)Get through the first two days .....they are a mountain of Everest proportions . Don't think it's only two days IT ISNT its probabaly the greatest amount of willpower you've ever called upon.
3)Believe point two wholeheartedly.
4)Celebrate and be proud of your achievement after two days . Do something or buy your self something as a reward.
5)Cherish with a passion your achievement so far. Use that pride to get you through any moments of weakness . Understand that you cannot succumb to even one cigarrette for that would be to throw away what you've fought so very very hard to achieve to date.
6)Put aside the money you would have spent on cigs (with me it was a day)at the end of the week buy youurself something with it . When you have gone several weeks and you start to feel the physical benefits you can save up a whole months worth and reallytreat yourself ...it's a wonderful motivator.
7) Remember how hard it is to give up ....(you know you've tried before probably many times)and let that reinforce your achievement day by day.
I am here to help if you need it ...but I'm afraid the only one that can do it is yourself
Best of luck
Ngde
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The very best of luck Corrie ...it really is so very well worth the effort.
I gave them up about 7 years ago and was a 30+ a day man.
The pointers that have made my attempt successful so far( Do not kid yourself that you have ever given them up ...we are all in the process of giving them up...it's just a matter of how far we have got)are:-
1)You must get your head sorted so that you really do want to give them up ....debate it seriously and honestly with yourself ...or with me if that helps.
2)Get through the first two days .....they are a mountain of Everest proportions . Don't think it's only two days IT ISNT its probabaly the greatest amount of willpower you've ever called upon.
3)Believe point two wholeheartedly.
4)Celebrate and be proud of your achievement after two days . Do something or buy your self something as a reward.
5)Cherish with a passion your achievement so far. Use that pride to get you through any moments of weakness . Understand that you cannot succumb to even one cigarrette for that would be to throw away what you've fought so very very hard to achieve to date.
6)Put aside the money you would have spent on cigs (with me it was a day)at the end of the week buy youurself something with it . When you have gone several weeks and you start to feel the physical benefits you can save up a whole months worth and reallytreat yourself ...it's a wonderful motivator.
7) Remember how hard it is to give up ....(you know you've tried before probably many times)and let that reinforce your achievement day by day.
I am here to help if you need it ...but I'm afraid the only one that can do it is yourself
Best of luck
Ngde
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Really great comments from NGDE biggrin
I would also add to read any of Allan Carrs books on the easy way to stop smoking :thumbup:
LG
You can do it Corrie, good luck kiss
corrie if you give up smoking you will look and feel younger....just look at me as a prime example of a non smoking youth :P
Best of luck Corrie sweetie! It's hard I know and I haven't succeeded yet, but will use your lead and Ali and Pete's to have another attempt. We shall overcome!
Hugs,
Unc xxx
good luck Corrie - will be thinking of you!! Ive cut right down to about 5 - 7 a day from about 15. Its hard, but we all have times when we have a smoke. I always have one when im having a coffee and on the pc,im trying hard to break the fag part of that habit.
I cough so much in the mornings its downright embarrassing and i WANT TO STOP smoking. I am going to, but at the moment im just cutting down...
Keep us informed as to how your getting on!!
Suze xx
Best of Luck Corrie hun
I was on 20 a day about 25 years ago, when I gave up, so I know how difficult it is, but I'm sure you can do it.
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What i would be curious to know from them that have been given up for a while is..
How long is it before the craving stops completely ?
I been given up 2 weeks this coming sat yet still get to a point where i want a smoke like crazy about 5 times a day.. mainly at night sad
Tony wink
Good luck!!!
Den has also just given up 2 days ago, he's given up plenty times before, but something always makes him start again, usually someone else coming round to the house who smokes and he gives in to just one, then just a couple, then just for the weekend, then just this pack etc etc.......
Last time he started again was when we went to Barcelona where he decided to start smoking again seeing as you could in the pubs there, it's soo much easier to give up with the smoking ban I think!
He's going cold turkey which he tells me is easier than using the patches and gum, and so far so good!
Although, I have to admit although I hate smoking with a passion, i quite like the taste....
M xx
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What i would be curious to know from them that have been given up for a while is..
How long is it before the craving stops completely ?
I been given up 2 weeks this coming sat yet still get to a point where i want a smoke like crazy about 5 times a day.. mainly at night sad
Tony wink

Tony...
The craving does stop and in my opinion you have done it the best way.. Cold turkey so to speak.. For me (This is going to sound odd) I quite cold turkey twice now.. First time 18 years between ciggies.. The craving stopped after about a month or so.. but kept getting less and less and less often so easier as i went along.
This time I have been free from the weed for 2 years.. (I only started again when My dad died very suddenly and couldn't sleep.. hated myself for doing it again and watched my health suffer) Did it the very same this time.. No patches nothing.. and same result after just a month or so nothing .. no craving at all..
I always told myself whats the point in that one drag of the fag if I have already suffered.. It's like starting over and over and over.. No point! So I always say I will never start smoking.. Just tell yourself your a non smoker.. believe in yourself, you benifit you gain you win all round.. Sounds simple and really it is!
Remember... Just don't start! Don't pick one up, don't try to convince yourself 'oh just this one' Just stick to your guns and it does stop Honest!
Good luck to anyone giving up.. but the balls in your own court so to speak.. Just do it, it can be done and like said... Only you win or you lose!
Mike x
Brilliant !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! redface surprisedops: thank you - what support and all of you here who have given up in the last few weeks and days - WELL DONE TOO!!
I tried cold turkey once and after 16 days I was back smoking :oops:
NGDE - I trully believe smoking is an addiction just like drink and if you have one you go back to it (or I would).
Try - you have a buddy thing about looks and age - I havent lol I am not doing this to look younger I am hoping to breathe :lol: :lol:
Markz - yep I do need something to suck rolleyes
This is the end of day 2 nearly and the patches are ok and I am really busy. The next few days are going to be hard and Tony I just expect the weight to pile on and I better use my gym :lol: :lol:
So onwards and upwards all of us who are triers and for those who smoke I have no problem with that at all........................dont gis us a fag wink :lol:
As a non-smoker..I can't really appreciate your struggle...but good on ya Corrie!!!! Perhaps, your efforts will inspire Gra to do the same innocent
Love Sara xxx
Good luck Corrie.
Thinking about you xx
Noladreams30
Good luck Corrie you go girl xxhugs jb xx
Go Corrie Go we right behind you darlin. We will stop on our daughters 18th birthday as it a real milestone for us.
PS anyone wanna buy 1000 fags and 4 packs of golden virginia lol
Corrie there is no doubt smoking is a physical addiction .Thats why it creates so many physical effects when we withdraw.
Congratulations on day 2 Wake up tomorrow and be so proud of yourself ...what you will have achieved will be immense.
The cravings will grab you several times a day over the coming weeks but rest assured their intensity will subside.
Develop a strategy to deal with the cravings as they occurr; for me it was either popping an extra strong mint as it gave me that full lung sensation or if practical a burst of excercise that made me seek lung fulls of fresh air at the same time exposing and reminding me what fags had done to my lung capacity.
On saturday buy yourself something nice with the cig money you would have spent over the 4 days.(Don't offset the cost of the patches)
Go Girl ...Looking forward to stealing a kiss from you at the Manc munch
Ngde
i found getting pregnant helped, makes it easier to stick to it knowing its not just you your harming, maybe you should try that lol