swinging , full of bulshit or what

30 Dec 2007

thats all really, we have been around long enough to try it, taste and spit it back out , why?
cos its full of bullshit.
those we love we love....those we have'nt told we love...well you can work on it. cos we aint gonna bullshit you.
wrats
xx

30 Dec 2007

we love ya wrats u are true friends to us and to so many more peeps on here ,,,,,, u treat us and we will treat u with full respest xxxxxxxx keep smilin guys loves ya from 427cobra xxxxxxxxxxx

30 Dec 2007

i agree with you theres a lot of wannabees and people who talk it on here but dont deliver even if its just to meet or as friends not always about swinging to us.
we've made lots of good friends and have sussed some out to avoid ....but still learning...it hurts most when people you think of as friends on here turn out to be some of your worst enemies ...and that sometimes takes time to find out...
to all our friends old new and yet to discover love you all loads....we dont do bullshit or lies...no point casue you get found out ...
staggy n rose we think ya both great no nonesense or bullshit...you have the courage to speak your mind nd i respect that sont stop being you both of you
annie xxxxxxxx

30 Dec 2007

thank you cobras that means shit loads to us, thank you annie,
if we have learned one thing about swinging it goes further than how good a shag someone is, its about being friends first , sometimes that can cause all kinds of problems we know that as much as anyone but...honesty and friendship counts for far more than popularity in our book

30 Dec 2007

Friends are forever.
Everything else is just fleeting moments
and the passing of time.
Proud to be your mates and always will be. biggrin

Love you both to pieces
The Sinfuls
xxxxxxxxxx

30 Dec 2007

us too Sinfulls, quality people ...big hugs here for you

30 Dec 2007

Don't know whats happened, BUT hugs n cuddles to both of you
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

30 Dec 2007

you silly flippant cornflake
wrats xx passionkiss

30 Dec 2007

but whats that really about?

30 Dec 2007

Bit confused :shock:
is it a freemason hand shake club blast

Or is it a what the uck is the site all about question :!:
Tis a what ever club and we will all find what we are looking for club to us :therethere: :swingingchair:
mr s

30 Dec 2007

Quote by wild rose and the stag
thats all really, we have been around long enough to try it, taste and spit it back out , why?
cos its full of bullshit.
those we love we love....those we have'nt told we love...well you can work on it. cos we aint gonna bullshit you.
wrats
xx

We love ya's as well WRATS, but this bullshit thing? It's just the same as real life aint it?
John & Shel

30 Dec 2007

Quote by Sweet22couple
Bit confused :shock:
is it a freemason hand shake club
mr s

Don't blame it on Freemasons. :shock:
Right wrats, I have no idea of the true reason for your post but here's my slant on what I think your trying to say.......
We (Miss srne and myself) dont see ourselves as "swingers", yes we are members of a "swinging site", but its also a "community."
We are here because we want to make friends with people who have similar interests and outlooks to ourselves outside the conventional train of thought of the "you must repress all sexual urges that you naturally have when you meet someone your happy with." If this leads to sexual shenanigans with people we are attracted to great.
We went to a social last night an met up with people we chat to in the rooms, what a great bunch of people they were and a great laugh. Some of them are people we would not pursue a sexual liaison with due to the fact that the attraction is not there (which for us is important), but would we have a night out with them? Hell yeah it was a hoot!!
Some of the people there I'm sure may not be as nice as they appear. In every social group there is a bit of bitching, sly comment making and pot stirring, but we try not to get involved enough to get involved if you know what I mean?
In summary what I'm trying to say is, the further you get into this "scene" and the more you get to know people, and they you, the more you see their true colours and find out whether or not they really are the people you thought they were.
We stay on the outskirts which some would say stops us from making any true and lasting friends on the site, but it means we never get disappointed by people letting us down or seeing a side of them we never knew existed etc etc.
From the posts I have read you seem like nice genuine people and speaking your mind in the face of social judgment is a very admirable quality.
Hope some of what I've said helps or at the very least makes sense?

30 Dec 2007

The one thing I have notice on here is that what people do and say are two different things. If they are not honest with themselves then how can they be honest with others

30 Dec 2007

you make the most of what you have got.
Good friends are for life - a shag can take a few moments. :shock:
we have not personally met you both as yet however, from your posts over the years you both seem a very genuine & a very respected couple.
To me this thread sounds as though some one has let you down or upset you?(I may be wrong)
Deep down, we all individually know who are our true friends. Thats the most important thing here.
take care hun kiss

30 Dec 2007

I havent had the pleasure to meet you yet.. but from chat you seem like you are one of the good guys/girls hehe.. so dont know why your feeling grrrrrrrr but if i can help you know where to find me.... hugs an kisses to you both.....
furby xxxxxxxx

30 Dec 2007

Is this a variation on the "timewaster complaint"?
Yeh there are alot of bullshitters on here but there are alot of diamonds on here too.
All the brilliant friendships with the really decent people on here makes being a part of this place worth it. wink

30 Dec 2007

we have been on here long enough to have seen the bull shit, and even taste a we have also met some great peeps, like the wrats..... if we had let the bull shit put us off, we would of missed this gift, we just gona keep tasting and spiting out the bad bits. loves ya wrats xxxxx

30 Dec 2007

Swinging isn't full of bullshit but some people are, but that's the case in all walks of life!
C

30 Dec 2007

Quote by Calista
Swinging isn't full of bullshit but some people are, but that's the case in all walks of life!
C

:thumbup:

30 Dec 2007

As this thread is full of 'bullshit' and no one really seems to know what it is about, I am going to lock it. WRATS, if you want to add something to the original post explaing what you are meaning, let me know and I will unlock.