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:twisted:Quote by lynnywinny
hmm i guess this all has to do with confidence so is kinda fuelled off of that post but what is a good place to start feeling comfortable/confident talking dirty to someone??
I think what you will find is that the more you talk dirty the more you will know when and when not to. Once you know that then you will be comfortable and confident.
Everyone one is different, so the rules are flexible. However here is one rule. Never talk dirty at a job interview.
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hmm i guess this all has to do with confidence so is kinda fuelled off of that post but what is a good place to start feeling comfortable/confident talking dirty to someone??
I think what you will find is that the more you talk dirty the more you will know when and when not to. Once you know that then you will be comfortable and confident.
Everyone one is different, so the rules are flexible. However here is one rule. Never talk dirty at a job interview.
And another... Never talk dirty to your parents :shock:
Personally I've never felt comfortable talking dirty although I do love it when I'm talked dirty to... perhaps I'm a little too self conscious... I think dirty though so I guess I've just got to take the plunge with that next step and just voice my thoughts when it feels right
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hmm i guess this all has to do with confidence so is kinda fuelled off of that post but what is a good place to start feeling comfortable/confident talking dirty to someone??
I think what you will find is that the more you talk dirty the more you will know when and when not to. Once you know that then you will be comfortable and confident.
Everyone one is different, so the rules are flexible. However here is one rule. Never talk dirty at a job interview.
Oh why not it could be so much fun especially if youre doing the interview :giggle:
Quote by celestria
Personally I've never felt comfortable talking dirty although I do love it when I'm talked dirty to... perhaps I'm a little too self conscious... I think dirty though so I guess I've just got to take the plunge with that next step and just voice my thoughts when it feels right
I'll PM you my phone number and we can start 'training' you right away! :twisted:
Quote by celestria
Personally I've never felt comfortable talking dirty although I do love it when I'm talked dirty to... perhaps I'm a little too self conscious... I think dirty though so I guess I've just got to take the plunge with that next step and just voice my thoughts when it feels right
I feel exactly the same hun. Some of the thoughts that run through my head ( especially when I'm perving.....I mean, reading the forums :twisted: ) would make your hair curl but I can't quite get my tongue around saying it all
.Sassy waits for some saucy comments from that last line
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Personally I've never felt comfortable talking dirty although I do love it when I'm talked dirty to... perhaps I'm a little too self conscious... I think dirty though so I guess I've just got to take the plunge with that next step and just voice my thoughts when it feels right
I feel exactly the same hun. Some of the thoughts that run through my head ( especially when I'm perving.....I mean, reading the forums :twisted: ) would make your hair curl but I can't quite get my tongue around saying it all
.So we should have a 3-way conference call then? I'm just being a perv as I love to encourage ladies to voice their naughty thoughts!
at myself! 
Orgasminator
It comes natural, with time and experience.
I just recalled the first time a man talked dirty to me. It was my first boyfriend who had been watching a few native porn films and learning stuff in my native tongue. So out of the blue he comes up with the phrase 'take it all you sick person!' just as he was about to ejaculate. Of course I began laughing out loud because it was so weird, so unexpected and so distasteful a thing to say. The poor guy fell to his knees with excruciating pain in his groin.
I just recalled the first time a man talked dirty to me. It was my first boyfriend who had been watching a few native porn films and learning stuff in my native tongue. So out of the blue he comes up with the phrase 'take it all you sick person!' just as he was about to ejaculate. Of course I began laughing out loud because it was so weird, so unexpected and so distasteful a thing to say. The poor guy fell to his knees with excruciating pain in his groin.
Quote by celestria
hmm i guess this all has to do with confidence so is kinda fuelled off of that post but what is a good place to start feeling comfortable/confident talking dirty to someone??
I think what you will find is that the more you talk dirty the more you will know when and when not to. Once you know that then you will be comfortable and confident.
Everyone one is different, so the rules are flexible. However here is one rule. Never talk dirty at a job interview.
And another... Never talk dirty to your parents :shock:
Quote by Kiss_Me
Personally I've never felt comfortable talking dirty although I do love it when I'm talked dirty to... perhaps I'm a little too self conscious... I think dirty though so I guess I've just got to take the plunge with that next step and just voice my thoughts when it feels right
I feel exactly the same hun. Some of the thoughts that run through my head ( especially when I'm perving.....I mean, reading the forums :twisted: ) would make your hair curl but I can't quite get my tongue around saying it all
.So we should have a 3-way conference call then? I'm just being a perv as I love to encourage ladies to voice their naughty thoughts!
at myself!Make that 4-way because I am so crap at it.
My mind might be having a ball but when I attempt to say the words either they won't come out or if they do, I sound like an idiot
ops: I'm beggining to think I some sort of hussy!
Of course there is a time and place but I really enjoy talking dirty! Not for the sake of it or to be vulgar. It can be something as simple as waiting in line at Tescos with my girlfriend and I whisper to her that I'm going to take her home and ravish her on the hall floorway, to being extremely rude and explicit during sex!
I must admit I do love the shock factor sometimes when you tell a lover whilst looking into their eyes exactlywhat you're going to do to them or you want them to do to you! :twisted:
Of course there is a time and place but I really enjoy talking dirty! Not for the sake of it or to be vulgar. It can be something as simple as waiting in line at Tescos with my girlfriend and I whisper to her that I'm going to take her home and ravish her on the hall floorway, to being extremely rude and explicit during sex!
I must admit I do love the shock factor sometimes when you tell a lover whilst looking into their eyes exactlywhat you're going to do to them or you want them to do to you! :twisted:
Quote by celestria
See now my head screams those things... but my mouth just quietly says "I want...." and trails off into silence... I just can't do it even though I really really want to
I am human... therefore I live in a world of my own double standards! I'll try to explain!
Although I'm not backwards in coming forwards I find shy women extremely sexy! I think if I met a woman who was as naughty as me I would find it a turn-off. God knows why but that's a ladies prerogative!
Quote by earthchild
I just cant do it, i feel stupid when i try, just doesnt feel natural to me
Earthy xx
I can do it, but only if its reciprocated or I get a reaction from it, the more reaction I get, the dirtier my smutty mouth gets, I sit giggling like a girl afterwards at some of the stuff I'll actually come out with ...when i start getting all 'omg i cant beleive i just said that'
but if I dont get that 'omg look what you're doing to me' or the 'you'd best stop that now or you're in big trouble' look, or the cock/pussy twitch thing, it just makes me feel silly
so only do it with someone I know i'll get it back from :lol: 
Master of Sex
Quote by lynnywinny
hmm i guess this all has to do with confidence so is kinda fuelled off of that post but what is a good place to start feeling comfortable/confident talking dirty to someone??
Dorset...?
Quote by Steve_Mids
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My mind might be having a ball but when I attempt to say the words either they won't come out or if they do, I sound like an idiot
Ohhhhhhhhh i dont know..
I can think of at least one instance where you put into words exactly what your mind was thinking :rascal:
I did?
What have I done now
Would this be best in pm :lol2:
Warming the Bed
Quote by celestria
conference call on line three please :giggle:
Can I get in as a listener plz?
:lol: ... you'll only hear the voice from my tape recorder :twisted: :twisted: :lol: :-P 
Sex God
have to say, i'm not good at it?
telling someone to "fuck my cock you dirty little slut" is just kind of embarassing when i hear it coming out of my mouth, and goes against everything i was brought up to believe! ((( houseful of women? if i'd said anything even approaching that i'd have been chopped up and thrown to the foxes! ))) as for pulling hair and anything remotely forceful involving a girlie, well no feckin' way was that allowed, but . . . . . i'm learning it has it's place! ;)
i'm getting better at being all dom and stuff! you know what they say, practice makes perfect!
neil x x x ;)
telling someone to "fuck my cock you dirty little slut" is just kind of embarassing when i hear it coming out of my mouth, and goes against everything i was brought up to believe! ((( houseful of women? if i'd said anything even approaching that i'd have been chopped up and thrown to the foxes!
))) as for pulling hair and anything remotely forceful involving a girlie, well no feckin' way was that allowed, but . . . . . i'm learning it has it's place! ;)i'm getting better at being all dom and stuff! you know what they say, practice makes perfect!
neil x x x ;)
Orgasminator
I love dirty talk
Although to be honest, I only have the confidence to talk dirty, if I am getting a response, either physically, or by my partner talking back to me.
A big part of sex for me, is the thoughts that you have whilst being naughty, and sexy talk certainly gives me sexy thoughts. :D
It gets me going far more, than just rubbing my willy
Although to be honest, I only have the confidence to talk dirty, if I am getting a response, either physically, or by my partner talking back to me.
A big part of sex for me, is the thoughts that you have whilst being naughty, and sexy talk certainly gives me sexy thoughts. :D
It gets me going far more, than just rubbing my willy
Sex God
yeah, well like i said . . . i'm learning! :smug:
i now know that pulling hair and telling someone to :censored: can be very satisfying and productive, in an "OMFG how did we end up with a wet patch that big? you're sleeping on that side mrs?" kinda way!
OMG she's gonna kill me when she reads this ain't she?
:P
neil x x x ;)
i now know that pulling hair and telling someone to :censored: can be very satisfying and productive, in an "OMFG how did we end up with a wet patch that big? you're sleeping on that side mrs?" kinda way!
OMG she's gonna kill me when she reads this ain't she?
:P
neil x x x ;)
