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Talking during sex
oh thank god for this thread!!! flower, I think I LOVE you :inlove:
I thought I was odd in doing this....i love to talk during sex....sexy talk about what I'm doing, going to do, dying to do, about how im feeling, plus all sorts of fantasy talk about other members from here (some of whom we've never even met 
ops: :oops: )
I love a fella to tell me when hes coming, rather than just grunting and going off into a trance like state, I love him to tell me how I'm making him feel and to indulge me in some fanatsy talk too.
I thought I was on my own in this, and that people would think I was some sort of sex mad loon that had been vaccinated with a gramaphone needle
:lol:
looks like thats not the case at all :bounce: :bounce:
I thought I was odd in doing this....i love to talk during sex....sexy talk about what I'm doing, going to do, dying to do, about how im feeling, plus all sorts of fantasy talk about other members from here (some of whom we've never even met
ops: :oops: )I love a fella to tell me when hes coming, rather than just grunting and going off into a trance like state, I love him to tell me how I'm making him feel and to indulge me in some fanatsy talk too.
I thought I was on my own in this, and that people would think I was some sort of sex mad loon that had been vaccinated with a gramaphone needle
:lol:looks like thats not the case at all :bounce: :bounce:
Oh i dont know.. depends on what the person is saying! I have to say i prefer the grunting and moaning and uuuhhhing and ahhhhing to chatter! I find chatter disturbing..lol.. i dont want to hear about fantasies, cos they may not be ones that i find sexy. I dont mind the bloke saying how sexy and alluring i am, but too much chatter, no! I want to concentrate on how wonderful it all feels, and just go off with the fairies in that wonderful garden of sensual sexual pleasure!
Sex God
Sexual talk is good, but not stuff like who is doing the shopping or there is a cob web up there
:lol:
Sassy - you been doing phone sex?? :P :P
:lol: Sassy - you been doing phone sex?? :P :P
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
oh thank god for this thread!!! flower, I think I LOVE you :inlove:
I thought I was odd in doing this....i love to talk during sex....sexy talk about what I'm doing, going to do, dying to do, about how im feeling, plus all sorts of fantasy talk about other members from here (some of whom we've never even met
I love a fella to tell me when hes coming, rather than just grunting and going off into a trance like state, I love him to tell me how I'm making him feel and to indulge me in some fanatsy talk too.
I thought I was on my own in this, and that people would think I was some sort of sex mad loon that had been vaccinated with a gramaphone needle
looks like thats not the case at all :bounce: :bounce:
No you're not alone. I love sexy talk too, but most women seem to like the man to do it.
:shock:
Can I borrow you gramaphone needle? :oops:
Sex God
depends on the timing - trying to hold a convo with me while im just getting to that point of self loving is useless one has to give usually the self loving 
as i lose concentration
as i lose concentration Cant do the silent thingy, im much more of a "Oh God !! Harder!! Harder!!, Yes Just There, No there!!!!
If you dont talk and laugh during sex how the hell you gonna know what you both like???
Saying that if your in a long term relationship i would imagin you'd both know what you like.
Just my thoughts, maybe something i'll chat about while next having sex.
:wink:
If you dont talk and laugh during sex how the hell you gonna know what you both like???
Saying that if your in a long term relationship i would imagin you'd both know what you like.
Just my thoughts, maybe something i'll chat about while next having sex.
:wink: Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
Sassy - you been doing phone sex?? :P :P
Not necessarily
just someone rang at the most inappropriate time so he got to 'overhear' What :shock: and you still answered the phone!!
Quote by Sarah
Sassy - you been doing phone sex?? :P :P
Not necessarily
just someone rang at the most inappropriate time so he got to 'overhear' What :shock: and you still answered the phone!!
It wasn't me. I was 'otherwise engaged'
anyway my Mum told me never to speak with my mouth full :smug: I like to talk and while having sex is no exception!! 
But I think there is a time to talk and a time to concentrate and just enjoy the moment. :smile2:
But when at a height of passion about to come to a climax is not the time for your hubby to ask what day we were going to visit my mum.
The urge just disappeared and he wondered why :shock:
But I think there is a time to talk and a time to concentrate and just enjoy the moment. :smile2:
But when at a height of passion about to come to a climax is not the time for your hubby to ask what day we were going to visit my mum.
The urge just disappeared and he wondered why :shock:
Quote by flower411
depends on the talk
'bet this is the best shag you've ever had' kinda shit really puts me off
Please please tell me that you were joking !!!! and that nobodies really said that !!!!
lol his actual words were 'bet you've never had it this good'
in the end i told him to shut the fuck up lol
