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Orgasminator
Sex in the snow
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
Vacuum pumping nipples and lips is a current fave. But bums generally have always been a sure thing for me.... never understood the frilly knickers thing (till after they are used maybe!)... arent they just in the way? If knowing your partner is eager is the turn on, arent no knickers better?
Quote by postie
Yellow hard hats
Men with yellow hard hats
Workmen with yellow hard hats
Big workmen with yellow hard hats
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You mean this kind of thing turns you on??? You're sick I tell ya! Sick! LOL
Upon reflection i preffer Fireman Sam, he has a bigger chopper!!!
and aim no pervert , i me really very sweet and innocent !!! :twisted:
Sex God
My fetish is
BLOW UP SHEEP and BLOW UP BEAVERS.
MikeC
BLOW UP SHEEP and BLOW UP BEAVERS.
MikeC
Sex God
I like seeing cum shots. :twisted:
I guess it's not a fetish but I just wanted to tell you all
I guess it's not a fetish but I just wanted to tell you all
Sex God
i like cum shots to blue
but only when i am cummin.
MikeC
but only when i am cummin.
MikeC
Sex God
i like cum shots but only when ive made it cum lol :happy: :happy: :happy:
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What's a violet wand please Rachel?
I don't think I have any fetishes as such, but I do like massages
Jas
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Violet Wands have been around for some time. I have seen some old ones at yard sales that go back to the 1930's and they are still currently produced. They have been used as quack medical machines, skin and muscle toners/ relaxers, etc. the rolls royce of sex aids (We just like them because of the way they light up a sub's eyes! ) They are devices that plug into the wall and convert the household electricity into high-frequency, high voltage. This voltage may be upwards of 30,000 Volts! The electricity is transfered to the willing (or not so willing ) subject in the form of myriads of small sparks.
Technical:
Ordinary household electricity is a low frequency alternating current (120 Volts, 60 Hz in the USA) and is extremely hazardous to come in contact with! The Violet Wand "transforms" the household current by means of what is called a Tesla coil. At the "business" end of the wand is a detachable glass tube filled with Argon gas. When Argon is is excited by a high voltage, it glows with a purple color, hence the name Violet Wand. I have heard of other gasses being used and glowing with different colors. These tubes come in different sizes and shapes... more about attachments later. It also makes a nice evil buzzzzzzzz.
The reason the electricity from the Violet Wand is relatively safe is due to two major items.
Because the electricity is going through the glass attachment there is not a direct connection from the sub to your wall outlet. This is a good thing!! We want the eyes to be wide... not popped out of their sockets!
Because the high voltage produced by the wand is at a high frequency, a phenomenon occurs that is called the "skin effect". Without going into the details, basicaly what happens is that as the frequency of an AC voltage increases, the depth to which that the electricity penetrates a conductor (whether copper wire or human) diminishes. This helps to keep the electricity from the Violet Wand away from internal organs, etc. where electricity just doesn't belong.
Attachments:
Violet Wand attachments come in various shapes and sizes. I have seen glass attachments in the shape of a mushroom (probably the most common attachment), a comb (or rake) shape, a "Y" shape, etc. There is also a metal tube attachment. (see note under SAFETY Considerations).
Using the Wand (or how not to!)
Common sense prevails here. Remember too much of anything can be a bad thing! The sparks from a Violet Wand can be applied most anywhere on the body although one should make a point of avoiding the head and eyes. Experimentation is in order! Remember though, the glass tubes are made out of fairly thin glass... do NOT insert them into any body cavities!!! Should you need to clean your attachments just wipe them off with a damp rag, the glass is not dishwater safe (I broke a mushroom just under hot tap water!)
Avoid too much exposure in one spot at any time. The Wand produces sparks that irritate the skin and the glowing tubes also produce Ultraviolet light. You can produce a localized sunburn!! I remember watching someone play with a Violet Wand once and the next day the women he used it on had redness and blistering on their chests that lasted for least a week.
The Violet Wand produces real sparks! Some clothing is very flamable! Alcohol vapors (you shouldn't be drinking and playing!) could ignite. (btw some clothing may have metalic threads... zap one spot and it goes all over! Don't leave it turned on and laying down unattended.
Some Doms use the mushroom attachment and hold the Wand between their legs and with one hand grasping the mushroom attachment. They then trace patterns on their sub with the fingers of their other hand..quite erotic!!
Safety:
As I have already stated don't insert the glass tube into body cavities. Many are interested in the metal tube attachment because of the much more intense "jolt" as well as it is not an attachment that will break. This attachment must be used with great care!! In general I have to recommend against it's use in play. In every Violet Wand I have examined, I have found that all exposed metal parts (and this includes the metal tube) have a direct connection to the AC line, and hence, are a shock hazard! If you are insistant on using the metal tube attachment, purchase what is called an "Isolation Transformer", available from most Geek supply stores
Gosh !!! do people REALLY do this ???
Sexpert
Stockings and suspenders, fishnets in particular. And wearing them (hence that section of my avatar). Kit take note (your previous post) 
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PVC
Hair (long hair in particular) - not quite sure if it counts as a fetish. Love looking at great hair, running my hands through it. Red hair too (my fave colour) as long as I like the shade.
:twisted: PVC
Hair (long hair in particular) - not quite sure if it counts as a fetish. Love looking at great hair, running my hands through it. Red hair too (my fave colour) as long as I like the shade.
I love bi men, don't think that counts as a fettish lol, i love guys who are willing to let me use strap on/toys etc on them, so i suppose it could be a str8 man but i find bi ones more willing plus i love watching/joining in with guys together, oh and i've also find a new passion for anal fisting lol
Mrs NN
Mrs NN
hmm, let's see.
butts, i definitely have a thing for a nice, voluptuous rump. foreign ladies - don't know why, something about "exotic"-ness; turns out almost all my girlfriends have been to some extent foreign; actually come to think of it, it was a jamaican guy that convinced me i could also be that way inclined. i have an attraction to older ladies, but i've never carried it out... as i get older, "younger" girls start to exist as well (i don't mean, you know, "wrong" young; just, for instance, imagine my joy on moving into a random student house in september, and discovering its other occupants were three 19-year old female student nurses... this has been a fun year)
hmm no i guess this isn't so much fetishes as turn-ons, and to be honest the list of those is endless... gotta say i find the jonathan ross thing odd, i mean he's a funny guy, but really... well, whatever floats your boat. as discussed elsewhere, his wife is a fine looking lady, i love that hair and the magnificent bosom...
butts, i definitely have a thing for a nice, voluptuous rump. foreign ladies - don't know why, something about "exotic"-ness; turns out almost all my girlfriends have been to some extent foreign; actually come to think of it, it was a jamaican guy that convinced me i could also be that way inclined. i have an attraction to older ladies, but i've never carried it out... as i get older, "younger" girls start to exist as well (i don't mean, you know, "wrong" young; just, for instance, imagine my joy on moving into a random student house in september, and discovering its other occupants were three 19-year old female student nurses... this has been a fun year)
hmm no i guess this isn't so much fetishes as turn-ons, and to be honest the list of those is endless... gotta say i find the jonathan ross thing odd, i mean he's a funny guy, but really... well, whatever floats your boat. as discussed elsewhere, his wife is a fine looking lady, i love that hair and the magnificent bosom...
Warming the Bed
Daily male 😂
