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I agree wiv the majority of chatters on here....irespective of what reason a person comes on this site 4....any relationship...takes time to build and nuture...
this is an established site...wiv established chatters...takes time to build friendships....find ur feet...and settle in....people should come on wiv an open mind....not wiv expectations of what might happen....or who they may meet...
if u start anything wiv pre-conceptions of how u expect it to b...ur only gonna b disapointed...
i for one am totally new to the whole scene....im not looking for anything in particular....stumbled upon the site by chance....had a lil look about....and decided to register.... rolleyes
look 4ward to chattin 2 u all @ sum point..... biggrin
*GRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr @ cant access the chat room tho.....will have to fiddle wiv me settings...* :roll:
couldn't agree more bucksfuncpl ! biggrin
It takes time to get into forums like this and it takes an open mind, and patience. At the same time newbies can in some instances bring some fresh thoughts and ideas as well.
sorry they decided to leave, they may have enjoyed this place more if they had only given it some time and tried a bit harder
M and H
hi everyone.
i also is a newbie, and had some good advice of other members here.
all u need to do is join the fun and get known.
that is what i am trying to do myself.
as the phrase goes " all good things come to them, who wait "
etfcboy.
smile :) :)
What works for some clearly doesnt work for others. Some people may well feel unable to be involved with this unless the WAS a friendly place with quite often non sexual content to many forum posts. But I can understand that for others they dont fancy that for various reasons..and bucksfuncpl made some interesting points.
So what's the answer for those people who want to use the site but dont feel they quite can fit in with certain elements of it or feel there's something missing? Maybe one for the suggestion box bucksfuncpl... instead of what you dont like.. have you got any ideas for what you would like? :idea:
The Steam Room stickee seems to be the place for suggestions and dislikes about the site.
you never know.. your thoughts may bear fruit!
biggrin
We have been around for a few months now, and although we haven't found our fantasy yet ( single bifem!!) we are intelligent enough to realise that it was never going to be a case of posting an ad and waiting for the offers to roll in. I agree upto a point that the forum and chat room can seem very much like an elite club, but again, you have to realise that it is populated by people who are at least "virtually" familliar, and in most cases, seem to have met. We aren't yet bold enough to attend munches and suchlike, but we are tempted to visit a club, and this will probably happen soon. Just keep visiting the forum, and chat, and it will get easier!!!
Can anyone tell us if there is a chance of us meeting that elusive bifem in a club? Jakki isn't too keen on another man joining us, and we aren't sure of the etiquette of such clubs!!
J'n'M xxx
went over my head too
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WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH :scared:
We was going to quit last night but after some good advise we have decided to stay.
All i can say is good things come to those who wait. smackbottom
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We was going to quit last night but after some good advise we have decided to stay.
All i can say is good things come to those who wait. smackbottom

blimey! you only joined yesterday! talk about a short attention span! lol
anyway...glad you stayed
xxx
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We was going to quit last night but after some good advise we have decided to stay.
All i can say is good things come to those who wait. smackbottom

blimey! you only joined yesterday! talk about a short attention span! lol
anyway...glad you stayed
xxx
didn't mean about joining the forums, was on about ads, has been better since joining the forum, talk about short attention span, what was we on bowt again? lol dunno
Quote by maskedwench
We was going to quit last night but after some good advise we have decided to stay.
All i can say is good things come to those who wait. smackbottom

blimey! you only joined yesterday! talk about a short attention span! lol
anyway...glad you stayed
xxx
didn't mean about joining the forums, was on about ads, has been better since joining the forum, talk about short attention span, what was we on bowt again? lol dunno
i'd figured really.. only pulling yer leg wink
i take it you hadn't really got what you wanted out of the ads then?
dont give in so soon i`m a newbie too, sit back and have a laugh .
there`s a great bunch of people on here, it just takes time to settle in.
look at it from their point of view, they need time to get to know us as well .
sierra x x