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Hi. Yes, I'm still alive.
I just wanted to take a brief moment to say thank you to those that sent their condolences on the passing of my dad. Sorry I have not been around and sorry I did not go to the Bristol munch.
You know the reality is that our parents will die but that reality still did not prepare me for how it would feel and how it hurt to watch my mom fall apart.
So, anyway, as I said ... thank you.
Knew you had been absent from here for a while but didnt know why sad
Sorry to hear about your Dad :cry:
:therethere:
aww Abi :therethere:
you know the support is here when YOU need it too, dont you?
Quote by Mallock2006
Knew you had been absent from here for a while but didnt know why sad
Sorry to hear about your Dad :cry:
:therethere:

Same here :(
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Hi Abilene, sorry to hear about your Dad, but welcome back kiss
Louise xx
Hi Abi
So sorry about your Dad 'nt realise why you were away or that you were going through so much crap. :therethere:
Love
Fire & Stormy xxxx
i am so very sorry to hear about you Dad hun :cry:
glad to see you back xxxx
Hi Abi, I dont know you but im very sorry to hear about your loss.
It is always hard when you lose someone you love.
I hope you are ok.
Jamie x
Abi
Just glad you are back and sort of ok, you know where the pm box is.
Take care
xx
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aww Abi :therethere:
you know the support is here when YOU need it too, dont you?

Yes hun, but you know me ... not one to ask for emotional help ... lol ... who woulda thought an American could have a 'stiff upper lip' ? lol
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss hunni. sad I'm still hurting from losing my own Dad so I know what you're going through :cry:
My pm box is always open for you babes :therethere:
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Hi Abi
So sorry about your Dad 'nt realise why you were away or that you were going through so much crap. :therethere:
Love
Fire & Stormy xxxx

Sweetie I am sooooo sorry for not getting back to you about Bristol. I just didn't know how to say it without making you feel bummed out too. Love you tons and miss you both xxxx
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss hunni. sad I'm still hurting from losing my own Dad so I know what you're going through :cry:
My pm box is always open for you babes :therethere:

Hey hun. Thought of you this morning ... it was nice enough weather that I put on that top of mine you like wink
When is the next P.P. ?
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss hunni. sad I'm still hurting from losing my own Dad so I know what you're going through :cry:
My pm box is always open for you babes :therethere:

Hey hun. Thought of you this morning ... it was nice enough weather that I put on that top of mine you like wink
When is the next P.P. ?
Not sure yet hunni. Had one last month so won't be until Julyish though you know you're welcome at any time Abi kiss
Sorry to hear your sad news.
Take care
Corrie and Martell xxxx
Oh Abi hun :therethere:
Now feel terrible cos we were only talking about you the other day, what a corker of a girl you are and where the bluddy ell are you n stuff......
and all along you've been going through hell, I'm so sorry - not sorry for missing you of course, I'm sorry that you're on a really tough journey at the moment.
I can't help make your pain go away, but I can offer my sincere condolences, and an ear if ever you need a new one.
You've got loads of people on here Abi, lean on em ok kiss
Missy and David
xx
Abi, im so sorry to hear of your loss - made me think a bit cos ive only just made up with my dad after not speaking to him since January. You know all your friends are always here for you...
Suze xx
Abi, simply kiss
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Oh Abi hun :therethere:
Now feel terrible cos we were only talking about you the other day, what a corker of a girl you are and where the bluddy ell are you n stuff......
and all along you've been going through hell, I'm so sorry - not sorry for missing you of course, I'm sorry that you're on a really tough journey at the moment.
I can't help make your pain go away, but I can offer my sincere condolences, and an ear if ever you need a new one.
You've got loads of people on here Abi, lean on em ok kiss
Missy and David
xx

I hope you mentioned my breasts when you were talking about me ;)
Seriously though, the hardest part has been watching my mom fall apart. Most here know that one of my reasons for moving to England was due to my dads health. We were told he had about 3 or 4 years so I though I should come here and try to repair some bridges I burned as a teen. Well, we didnt get those 3 or 4 years ... however I did get 11 months to be with him and for us both to say our piece and sadly say our goodbyes. As I said to someone in email just now it's hard to watch my very strong mom feel like its over for her. She is 61 and has been with my dad since she was 19. 42 years is a long time to wake up next to the same person each day ... hell I only managed 7 years!! We all know that her life is not over but I can certainly feel her pain in why she feels that way.
So more than anything ... I'd like to ask .... please y'all don't think of me. Think of my mom and keep your fingers crossed that she comes out of this fighting strong again.
Abi xx
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Abi, im so sorry to hear of your loss - made me think a bit cos ive only just made up with my dad after not speaking to him since January. You know all your friends are always here for you...
Suze xx

Hun I went nearly 16 years without seeing my dad. Stupid pride will tear a family apart. I am so thankful that have had the last 11 months with him. Go hug your dad even if he's in the wrong.
Nice to have you back hun.
So sorry to hear about your dad. I'm crap with words so here's a kiss for you and a :therethere: for your mum.
I'm sorry to hear that abi hun. Pm me if you need to chat or need anything at all kiss
Marie and Carl xxxx
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I'm sorry to hear that abi hun. Pm me if you need to chat or need anything at all kiss
Marie and Carl xxxx

Thank you babe. I think maybe another night out with you might be the prescription. biggrin
I saw this earlier on my mobile
Sorry to hear of your loss hun and good to see you back
Take care
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Abi, you know where I am if you need an ear to bend, a sholder to lean on, someone to sit and be quiet with or sink a bottle of wine or two with.
I'm glad you're back.
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H.x
Sorry to hear of your loss.
good to know you are still around honey, you know we are all here when you are ready to come back, my heartfealt thoughts are with you and your family.
huge hugs n kisses
Earthy xx
Hi Abi! wave
I know these things are always hard to come to terms with, but I'm glad to see you've reclaimed your posting boots and I'm very happy to see you back in the 'swing' of things. ;-)
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We were talking about you at the munch the other day, wondering where you were. Now we know.
Nothing can prepare you for losing a parent or a close loved one.
Take time to grieve properly and make sure your Mum does too.
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:therethere:
I’m glad you had some of the time you wanted Abi, but wish you could have had much more.