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Sex God
I never kiss anyone at munches :P :twisted:
Quote by Sarah
I never kiss anyone at munches :P :twisted:

Will the real Sarah please stand up lol
Quote by freckledbird
I never kiss anyone at munches :P :twisted:

Will the real Sarah please stand up lol
Well she hasn't kissed me! This list hasn't existed 2 minutes and it's starting to grow!
Sex God
Quote by smokerjim
I never kiss anyone at munches :P :twisted:

Will the real Sarah please stand up lol
Well she hasn't kissed me! This list hasn't existed 2 minutes and it's starting to grow!
See its true I dont kiss anyone at munches :P :P (unless of course someone has photographic evidence to differ with this!)
Quote by Sarah
I never kiss anyone at munches :P :twisted:

Will the real Sarah please stand up lol
Well she hasn't kissed me! This list hasn't existed 2 minutes and it's starting to grow!
See its true I dont kiss anyone at munches :P :P (unless of course someone has photographic evidence to differ with this!)
Ooh, ooh, oooh - who's got the photos!!! :bounce: Kaz swallows? Anyone? Sarah is on the verge of 'fessing up! Someone's got the proof. :grin:
C'mon Sarah, make it easy on yourself - just admit it and it will be a lot simpler for you - justice will be done!
Quote by Alleyson
I guess what I'm ask is at what stage and more importantly how do you get to make the leap from greenhorn to expert

It's a funny thing that, there are so many people on here that I consider as the regulars, the core people on the site. One of them posted me last night and said that it was good to meet me 'the (very flattering word indeed) marms at last'. Now, that took me a little by surprise as the guy in question was one of the guys that I consider to be a core member, and in comparison I consider myself a bit of a noob! It looks like he felt similar things about me.
So in answer, I don't think there is a point when you wake up and suddenly you have gone from noob to regular, just be and add a little to the community that is SH, everyone has something good to contribute.
Chris.
I'll probably be shot down in flames for this smile but ............................Marmalaid you really do post some very sensible stuff!! However I get the impression that sensible and Marmalaid are not words that often appear in the same sentence? wink rolleyes
You've either met him or have tremendous insight then!
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sex God
Ah, you see the simple way to get yourself known in the chatroom, and to break the ice is to ask a general ASL of everybody there... no end of people will chip in if you do!
lol :lol: :lol: :shock:
really though... you seem to have done it right, sit back and watch, learn the do's and don'ts and then just basically join in as if you've always been there...
If you are struggling with the room speed, you may find it better to come in at a quieter time of the day, around 11pm to midnight it starts slowing down, and after midnight it gets proper mellow, afetr 6am and before 8am the chat junkies stumble in for a quick fix, but it is generally quieter then too...
Have fun.... and NEVER PVT without asking... you'll find that out quick enough though!
Sexlightened
Hi hun and welcome to the site.
I am an avid user of the chatroom so here is some advice.
Start chatting to just a few people regularly.
Join in with the chat but concentrate on just a few peoples names.
Always be polite and say hi on entering.
Don't sound too desperate and get annoyed if people don't speak to you.
Understand that a lot of people take the attitude that Swinging is not just a quick shag and it often offends people by thinking that way.
Patience nearly always pays off even for single males.
I know a lot of single males that have a great time swinging and who are great mates.
Enjoy yourself and get your nickname known.
If you are unsure about things ask in the room.
1 final tip is ENSURE YOU HAVE READ ALL THE RULES.
The chatroom is a fab place and you soon get used to the speed of it.
Have fun and say hi when you pop in.
Funin and Mike
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Sex God
Quote by funin_and_mike
Hi hun and welcome to the site.
I am an avid user of the chatroom so here is some advice.
Start chatting to just a few people regularly.
Join in with the chat but concentrate on just a few peoples names.
Always be polite and say hi on entering.
Don't sound too desperate and get annoyed if people don't speak to you.
Understand that a lot of people take the attitude that Swinging is not just a quick shag and it often offends people by thinking that way.
Patience nearly always pays off even for single males.
I know a lot of single males that have a great time swinging and who are great mates.
Enjoy yourself and get your nickname known.
If you are unsure about things ask in the room.
1 final tip is ENSURE YOU HAVE READ ALL THE RULES.
The chatroom is a fab place and you soon get used to the speed of it.
Have fun and say hi when you pop in.
Funin and Mike
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I am an avid user of the chatroom i will try and say hi to everyone.....the emphisis on try.
i will agree with what funin sasy i am a single guy nut everyone still chats to me in the chatroom.....
i will say that i have made some loverly friends through the chatroom, i wont say has it paid of or not. What I will say is that i must admit i have had some good fun with the friends i have made
MikeC
Master of Sex
Quote by clair
I guess what I'm ask is at what stage and more importantly how do you get to make the leap from greenhorn to expert

It's a funny thing that, there are so many people on here that I consider as the regulars, the core people on the site. One of them posted me last night and said that it was good to meet me 'the (very flattering word indeed) marms at last'. Now, that took me a little by surprise as the guy in question was one of the guys that I consider to be a core member, and in comparison I consider myself a bit of a noob! It looks like he felt similar things about me.
So in answer, I don't think there is a point when you wake up and suddenly you have gone from noob to regular, just be and add a little to the community that is SH, everyone has something good to contribute.
Chris.
I'll probably be shot down in flames for this smile but ............................Marmalaid you really do post some very sensible stuff!! However I get the impression that sensible and Marmalaid are not words that often appear in the same sentence? wink rolleyes
You've either met him or have tremendous insight then!
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Let's just say I tremendous powers of observation!! :)