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Warming the Bed
whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?
Let me refrase,,,,i like bareeback with my wife obviously but resently been in touch with a couple thatwant to take things further but she insists that it s bareback..
I know all the heath issues and would never put myself or my wife in danger,i just wanted to know what others thought.
i often wonder what these people who call themselves cum loving sluts really have any care about themselves
That you must be a brainless fuckwitt to even consider it outside of a LTR :thumbup:
Quote by meat2pleaseu
That you must be a brainless fuckwitt to even consider it outside of a LTR :thumbup:

what meaty sed :thumbup:
Quote by sercher01
That you must be a brainless fuckwitt to even consider it outside of a LTR :thumbup:

what meaty sed :thumbup:
yep totally agree
Earthy xx
Quote by meat2pleaseu
That you must be a brainless fuckwitt to even consider it outside of a LTR :thumbup:

That about sums it up :giggle:
Not coming near me with out a Condom on, might even have second thoughts even if you are wearing one if i found out you have gone bareback.
Dee
Quote by dirtyduo
Not coming near me with out a Condom on, might even have second thoughts even if you are wearing one if i found out you have gone bareback.
Dee

Only might? wink
At this moment in time I am sure there are some amongst us who feel they may have put a few people off wink
Quote by bustermarine
whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?

pretty much what meaty said
you say some women will only except (accept?) bareback, are things that bad you have to consider someone who doesnt give a shit about their, or your health, and the health of those that follow on from your encounter?
you dont even have my sympathies, theres no place in this community, let alone world for that sort of thinking
Master of Sex
Quote by bustermarine
whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?

I'm just surprised you have to ask this question. Have you slept through the last 30 years?
Quote by MrFC
I suggest you don't go totally bareback........

But invest in one of these........

redface bolt

ooooohhhh MrFC
Do you have the boots, jodhpurs and hard hat to go with that ensemble? (leaving aside for the moment the riding crop incase I come across as a complete perv here) You know an outfit is nothing without the right accessories wink
Quote by byron
whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?

I'm just surprised you have to ask this question. Have you slept through the last 30 years?
not only the sleep, im impressed he has been able to lift his knuckles from the floor to type that
Quote by celestria
(leaving aside for the moment the riding crop incase I come across as a complete perv here)

As If :giggle:
Hmmm - Im thinking that he might have been scared off by now bolt :bolt:
but totally agree - no glove no love....
Sex God
What there is a perv in here, OMG
:giggle:
We have met couples that prefer bareback.....even one time while we were playing with another couple back at a hotel,we were all getting down to it, the lady was on top of me and all of a sudden slide my cock inside her......talk about putting me on the spot....i said i couldn't do that she said she liked the feel of a guy cumming inside her.....thank fuck my wife soon sorted it out when she said "we don't have sex without condoms".....her husband said he didn't like them,my wife said "tough!"......condoms were used in the end....and he kept moanng about not being able to keep a hard on with one....thank god i've been using condoms for years as the wife was never on the pill.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
(leaving aside for the moment the riding crop incase I come across as a complete perv here)

As If :giggle:
Git! flipa passionkiss
Quote by Sarah
What there is a perv in here, OMG
:giggle:

Move along now... nothing to see innocent
Quote by bustermarine
whats the right thing to do?some women will only except bareback,i do my self really but there are obvious health issues,what do most people think?

Personally I wouldn't ever take part, I find it a massive turn off.
Just as an aside though, when I look through the gallery (at all types of profiles - male/female/couples) I am always quite cheered when I see somebody actually using a condom, because it seems so bloody rare!!!
confused
Quote by celestria
I suggest you don't go totally bareback........

But invest in one of these........

redface bolt

ooooohhhh MrFC
Do you have the boots, jodhpurs and hard hat to go with that ensemble? (leaving aside for the moment the riding crop incase I come across as a complete perv here) You know an outfit is nothing without the right accessories wink
Hello Perv......... :P :P biggrin
Can do boots and hard hat, maybe even THE CROP. :twisted: but alas no jodhpurs sad
Quote by Kiss
Just as an aside though, when I look through the gallery (at all types of profiles - male/female/couples) I am always quite cheered when I see somebody actually using a condom, because it seems so bloody rare!!!

It's probably rare because most profile pictures seem to be of the couple themselves and so a condom isn't necessary. In our experience most, but not all, use condoms automatically. Most people who try to play without a condom will use one if told. I can only think of 1 instance where someone refused to wear a condom, which resulted in premature ejection. lol
Master of Sex
Quote by da69ve
We have met couples that prefer bareback.....even one time while we were playing with another couple back at a hotel,we were all getting down to it, the lady was on top of me and all of a sudden slide my cock inside her......talk about putting me on the spot....i said i couldn't do that she said she liked the feel of a guy cumming inside her.....thank fuck my wife soon sorted it out when she said "we don't have sex without condoms".....her husband said he didn't like them,my wife said "tough!"......condoms were used in the end....and he kept moanng about not being able to keep a hard on with one....thank god i've been using condoms for years as the wife was never on the pill.

I've never had a problem maintaing a hard on with a condom on - what the hell was he thinking about?
I also find it surprising that, in the say and age, there are people who would assume that because they don't use condoms, others wouldn't either.
Quote by northwest-cpl
Just as an aside though, when I look through the gallery (at all types of profiles - male/female/couples) I am always quite cheered when I see somebody actually using a condom, because it seems so bloody rare!!!

It's probably rare because most profile pictures seem to be of the couple themselves and so a condom isn't necessary. In our experience most, but not all, use condoms automatically. Most people who try to play without a condom will use one if told. I can only think of 1 instance where someone refused to wear a condom, which resulted in premature ejection. lol
I wasn't making a sweeping statement about anyone or just talking about couples, and I wouldn't want it to be taken as such - hence I said 'seems' rare.
Of course you are right in saying that you can't tell if it's the couple themselves just playing together in the picture - unless there is a third party present.
I must admit though, if you look at pictures of single females or males in the gallery, the vast majority of images where they are playing with someone, you don't see a condom very often.
Sexpert
as a bi male , many other guys Ive come across wont even consider a meet if you mention a condom.
I think they feel if you are a bi married male you must be ok. That is a bad assumption to make
I recently had a PM inviting me to the private gallery of a single guy. I looked very closely at one photo in particular....
what appears to be a jacketless cock entering a kebab, which already seems to be overflowing with tadpoles (more that even a heavy cummer could manage on his own)
Sometimes it can be useful to see a cockshot before arranging a meet wink
Quote by earthchild
That you must be a brainless fuckwitt to even consider it outside of a LTR :thumbup:

what meaty sed :thumbup:
yep totally agree
Earthy xx
Absolutely
Well i am not saying its safe to go bareback but i have only been asked on 2 occasions to wear a condom.
I personnally do loose my hard ons with condoms.
As i say i know its not the best thing in the world but when i start a relationship i am carefull.
I know your going to jump on my back about this but i think everyone have there own opinions on this subject.
:shock:
Quote by uknick
Well i am not saying its safe to go bareback but i have only been asked on 2 occasions to wear a condom.
I personnally do loose my hard ons with condoms.
As i say i know its not the best thing in the world but when i start a relationship i am carefull.
I know your going to jump on my back about this but i think everyone have there own opinions on this subject.
:shock:

Why do you wait to be asked ? confused
Quote by mezagog
as a bi male , many other guys Ive come across wont even consider a meet if you mention a condom.
I think they feel if you are a bi married male you must be ok. That is a bad assumption to make

Oh please tell me that was deliberate!
lol
Sexpert
Quote by winchwench
as a bi male , many other guys Ive come across wont even consider a meet if you mention a condom.
I think they feel if you are a bi married male you must be ok. That is a bad assumption to make

Oh please tell me that was deliberate!
lol
oops ! !
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