Hi guys,
For a while I've been trying out different toys in an attempt to reach orgasm purely through anal stimulation, by which I mean ejaculation without ever touching my cock.
I've obviously not managed it, but I just wondered if anybody here had accomplished it, and if so, do you have any pointers for me?
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The Male Anal Orgasm - Myth?
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Sex God
The point's on yer penis....there are people who acheive orgasm just by getting sufficiently excited....I'll assume you're normal and actually need further stimulation. If the thought of getting your bum shagged actually gets you seriously excited then perhaps you will come close to orgasm from anal play, but it's more likely that you wont.
Women can achieve orgasm from anal sex because they are actually stimulated...nerve endings being in the right place and so on..and the actual membrane seperating the pussy from the anal passage, forgive the scientific terms, is very minimal. In laymans terms, a girl can achieve an orgasm from having her bum fucked....that's just a fact, not something you should add to your "to do list".
Women can achieve orgasm from anal sex because they are actually stimulated...nerve endings being in the right place and so on..and the actual membrane seperating the pussy from the anal passage, forgive the scientific terms, is very minimal. In laymans terms, a girl can achieve an orgasm from having her bum fucked....that's just a fact, not something you should add to your "to do list".
Sexpert
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If the thought of getting your bum shagged actually gets you seriously excited then perhaps you will come close to orgasm from anal play
A lot of men can have an orgasm (wet dream)just by dreaming/sleeping. So it's all about stimulating the brain enough...and sure the physical stuff would certainly help you over the edge ;o)
I've seen it happening on top of me, so I am fairly convinced it's for real... the guy in question was being fucked anally with a dildo in a FFM threesome (I'll let your imaginations construct the rest of the scene!), and he most definitely came from the anal stimulation alone - it was incredibly intense. The beauty of it is that he didn't ejaculate as he came that way, so he could immediately carry on and cum again the "normal" way right afterwards... who says it's only us chicks who can do the whole multiple thing!!
Sex God
I'm fairly convinced it's not a myth 
Sex God
It's absolutely not a myth. It's perfectly possible to orgasm through prostate stimulation alone. The orgasm produced is very different to that normally experienced, it being a whole-body type orgasm with an enormous head-rush that completely wipes me out and leaves me reeling, as opposed to the more common orgasm which really is just centred mainly around the genital area.
Iamsilence, you tried the type prostate massagers yet? Excellent piece of kit. Put pressure on the prostate directly and via the perineum externally. Completely hands free too: just contracting and relaxing the pelvic floor is enough for the rocking motion to produce a long, slow build. Can take a while to come that way but when you do, boy you'll know about it I promise you! You can always use the handle to get a bit more vigourous if you start getting impatient.
Iamsilence, you tried the type prostate massagers yet? Excellent piece of kit. Put pressure on the prostate directly and via the perineum externally. Completely hands free too: just contracting and relaxing the pelvic floor is enough for the rocking motion to produce a long, slow build. Can take a while to come that way but when you do, boy you'll know about it I promise you! You can always use the handle to get a bit more vigourous if you start getting impatient.
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I've seen it happening on top of me, so I am fairly convinced it's for real... the guy in question was being fucked anally with a dildo in a FFM threesome (I'll let your imaginations construct the rest of the scene!), and he most definitely came from the anal stimulation alone - it was incredibly intense. The beauty of it is that he didn't ejaculate as he came that way, so he could immediately carry on and cum again the "normal" way right afterwards... who says it's only us chicks who can do the whole multiple thing!!
I don't, I have 'dry cums' with normal vaginal intercourse. It doe's not always happen, but if I catch myself just right and I am with the right lady. Yes in is an intense organism, and when I do ejaculate, that too is more intence.
Travis
Sex God
Not a myth at all! :twisted: One of the horniest things I've ever seen and can highly recommended you have the patience to persevere.
Or, get yourself a helping hand
LG. x
Or, get yourself a helping hand
LG. x 
Forum Virgin
Not a myth. I had a try a few weeks ago with something Mrs bought me. After finding the right spot the whole experience was incredibly intense. I've heard that it's possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation and I'll try this sometime, but on this occasion I touched myself and came immediately.
Told Mrs about this and so we've ended up buying a few toys for us both to enjoy, but haven't got round to it yet
Told Mrs about this and so we've ended up buying a few toys for us both to enjoy, but haven't got round to it yet
Warming the Bed
Im really quite interested in this, and have tried it with a couple of guys, but never managed to get them to squrit. After a while of stimulation they have reported to me the sensation of wanting to pee, and subsequently asked me to stop. But from what i have read and what I have been told by others, this is perfectly normal. One guys has told me that in order to reach orgasm through anal stimulation he has to restrain from masturbation for about a week.
Persevere...
Persevere...
Sex God
The biggest sexual organ is the brain thats where the signal to orgasum comes from. Thats why some people have problems with PE they dont need any stimulation. So yeh I reckon you can orgasum from anything, whatever turns you on. I dont think there are two different orgasums for males though. If you get something else from anal stimulations its probably something like the prostate going into spasum combined with sexual stimulation. The body does most things for a reason and there would be no reason for a secondary type of male orgasum.
Sex God
The body does most things for a reason and there would be no reason for a secondary type of male orgasum.
It's not necessarily a secondary type of orgasm as such. The dorsal nerve that serves the penis, the posterior scrotal nerves, and the perineal nerves ( i.e. the nerves responsible for all those pleasureable sensations when someone sucks on your balls or licks your perineum while wanking you off for instance. ) are branches off of the pudendal nerve, the whole nerve bundle running across the prostate. Maybe the heightened orgasm is to do with the fact you're effectively stimulating the nerves serving all three erogenous zones, cock, balls and perineum simulaneously, whereas ordinarily you might only be stimulating one set or the other at any one time to produce orgasm.
Sex God
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The body does most things for a reason and there would be no reason for a secondary type of male orgasum.
Why not? Women have different types of orgasms - clitoral and through penetration (i.e. g-spot)...
Both appear to have reasons though. Clitoral stimulates more sex and therefore gives more chance of conception. Penatrative and if you include gushing is said to change the balance of the vagina for accepting new sperm and kills old sperm. This could well be why quite a lot of men cant make their woman gush, shes far more likely to gush with a new/different partner as often happens.
My point was what is the point in a secondary male one? I dont see any thats why I dont think its unique I think its just normal with more stimulation of various areas making it seem more intense.
Sexpert
It's not a secondary one as I understand it. The orgasm is the contractions and the spasms and then a split second after you ejaculate.
If a man does his pelvic floor exercises and tones those muscles then he can orgasm and hold back the ejaculation. That means that you can orgasm as many times as you like without ejaculating/falling asleep after
Women aren't the only ones to have multiple orgasms...also there are over 10 varieties of female orgasm...I'll let you work that out
If a man does his pelvic floor exercises and tones those muscles then he can orgasm and hold back the ejaculation. That means that you can orgasm as many times as you like without ejaculating/falling asleep after
Women aren't the only ones to have multiple orgasms...also there are over 10 varieties of female orgasm...I'll let you work that out
