Hi

No photos= no chatting. I have no interest in photos of your cock

I am not willing to shag anyone who takes the time to say hi. I am selective, this is about quality over quantity. I am interested in people who understand that sex is far more than penetration

Furthermore, I DO NOT meet, chat, or cam with attached guys or gals who are not on here with their spouse. This includes those who are 'with someone' 'married' 'nearly separated', or anything else other than 'single'. If you fail to either read this, or simply ignore it and still contact me anyway (including asking to chat in forums), please do not be surprised if you get a response you consider harsh. I repeat, I am NOT interested in hearing from married guys.

I am also suspicious of people who have been on here for years and do not have shrep activated- what are you hiding????? If you have had an account for years, but recently activated it say so in your profile

I am not interested in ping pong emails, but neither am I available to meet anyone NOW. I have made plans already!! There needs to be some exchange of messages. This is not blind date; I am here to have good fun with attractive (both physically, emotionally and intellectually), considerate, clean, respectful people. Please do not just send me photos of your cock.

I am here looking for singles and couples for mutually enjoyable shared sexual experiences. I'm looking to meet people who are intelligent, confident, creative, respectful and fun! At present I can't really accommodate, but am happy to travel a little bit (but more for couples than single guys), or contribute towards a hotel.

I am into a bit of light bdsm (nothing too serious, I like taking a submissive role (this is the opposite of the dominate role for those of who are unsure), but have recently been introduced to taking the more dominant role, taking photos and videos, and a big fan of oral. Attraction, size and age is very important to me, this is about quality not quantity. I am not interested in overweight, wobbly, cuddly, large people. For me that is any women over size 14, and any men over size 32' (at a push 34)

I always play safe, respect people's boundaries, am clean, tidy, in shape and take care of myself, reliable, and expect the same of others. I do not promise sex to anyone, it is important to feel comfortable and relaxed, and there needs to be some kind of spark or click, before anything can begin. I am interested in the social side of this as well and would like to meet people who are up for some regular, rather than one off fun.

I am open and relaxed about my chosen lifestyle, my friends and family know what I get up to. Sexuality and sensuality are a very big part of my life, but so is friendship and connection. I enjoy a variety of sexual and sensual experience with a range of people, who each bring something different to my life.

I do not believe in binary ideas of gender, I feel that there is far more to it than that. I have very long hair, but that is where my feminine side starts and finished. I do not wear make up, high heels, or dresses, and this is not up for discussion. If this is what you are looking for please pass me by. Before you ask, yes i am aware what kind of site this is, and yes I understand the notion of attracting others, but I am not a hooker, and I am not here to fulfill your desires and fantasies. I am a centered individual who is comfortable with who they are, and does not feel the need to conform to what society tells me I should be, or look like. Thankfully there are many wonderful people in the world who feel the same.

If you want to be a 'friend' please come and say hi first, random friend requests will be deleted. In a similar manner, if you have something to say please come and introduce yourself. Winks or invites to albums without simultaneously sending me a message, simply implies your are really not that bothered, lazy, or don't have anything interesting to say. Please do yourself justice and come and say hi properly

Get in touch if it sounds like we could have some mutual fun :)

I repeat Im not interested in photos of your cock