A televison prog the other evening brought to the fore the subject of the older woman and younger man.
I can see the 'attraction' from the womans point of view it's obviously quite a flattering thing in a way that a younger man would be interested but apart from the old cliches of 'the older woman can teach us a thing or two' which I really doubt, are younger men actually attracted to the older woman or is it actualy that we are I suppose just that bit less inhibited in what we do. Case of most probably been there done that already so it's generally ok like giving a full BJ we dont normally have to be talked into going the distance on that one etc. But then again there are a lot of younger women who are similarly naturally open about things, so it cant just be that aspect either.
Another 'interesting' item that is being aired at the moment is the sexual freedom that abounded during WW2 when in particular the americans were here on mass and loads of 'illicit sex' went on, again in a lot of cases it was that older women received the attention of these young GI's particularly those they were billeted with, could it be that there is a thing that grew from these days?
I must admit seeing these progs has made me wonder a bit about would a young man want to with me possibly, not too sure in all honesty if I would actually have the nerve to go through with it but my husband has said I should give it a try once just as an experience. Not 100% sure about it but who knows, probably worrying that when it came to it the sight of a plain 50 something complete with wrinkles would be a real turn off to the young man and if that happened and they ran that would have the opposite effect on the old ego!
Anyone any thoughts on the subject. The progs were talking about 30+ age differences which would put 'my young man' just about in very early 20's which is probably pushing things a bit for anyone to be interested!
Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.
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The older woman younger man syndrome
Welcome aboard, sweetheart.
My twopenn'orth? I think it is more to do with the fact that the younger men, possibly, are not getting any from the younger women. Mainly because they're afraid to ask, IMHO. So they think the "older" woman will be "grateful"
Personally, I don't care, as long as they have the equipment!!
My twopenn'orth? I think it is more to do with the fact that the younger men, possibly, are not getting any from the younger women. Mainly because they're afraid to ask, IMHO. So they think the "older" woman will be "grateful"
Personally, I don't care, as long as they have the equipment!!
Can i just say that..me being a young girl (23) im the opersite...i just love older men over 35 is profered for some reason and i couldnt ever see myself with a younger man at the moment it might change as i get older but to be honest each to there own we all find love...lust and interstes in different places/people as long as there happy i dont really mind....
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i just love older men over 35 ....
Sex God
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i just love older men over 35 ....
How many times do I have to tell you? You are younger than me!!
*sniggers*
Oh yes, I forgot, you're 47 aren't you?
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Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.
If you feel comfortable with it why not give it a try?
I'm sure younger guys do hanker after older women for what they can be taught, and many's the time I have emails from young lads asking me to meet with them for just that reason
I have tried young lads on a couple of occasions (19 and two 21 year olds) and although it was enjoyable, I wouldn't make a habit of it, because for me personally, I can't get past the *old enough to be your mother* thing (I'm almost 43)
:lol:Go on - give it a try. You might like it
Tracy-Jayne
I've always had an older woman fantasy since I started having sexual desires. I would dream about having sex with my mates mum's all the time. I think its the confidence/power that is the turn on for younger guys. I don't think I lack confidence myself, but my fantasy was always a sexually aggressive mature woman who knew exactly what she wants and I had this belief (probably completely in my head!) that women get more and more rampant the older they get.
Even today when I'm with girls my own age (mid 20's) I still dream about having an affair with a mature woman. It may be because the younger women I have been with have had a few hang ups and are often quite passive, but I'm sure I should have got this out of my system by now!
Even today when I'm with girls my own age (mid 20's) I still dream about having an affair with a mature woman. It may be because the younger women I have been with have had a few hang ups and are often quite passive, but I'm sure I should have got this out of my system by now!
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Welcome aboard, sweetheart.
My twopenn'orth? I think it is more to do with the fact that the younger men, possibly, are not getting any from the younger women. Mainly because they're afraid to ask, IMHO. So they think the "older" woman will be "grateful"
Personally, I don't care, as long as they have the equipment!!
I’m 30, my girlfriend is 21 but I regularly swing with a couple in their 50’s. I guess some of us just luurve sex in all forms.
i get loads of Pms from young men looking for a older woman 
what i want to know is at what age are you considered a older woman? ok i know if your older then your a older woman but do young guys have a age gap limit b4 your considered a older woman? cause i got a message from a guy who was 30 a while back saying he liked older woman and being 32 myself i didn't really consider myself old enough for a guy who was 30 calling me a older woman i kinda see that as my own age group lol....if that makes any sence :?
what i want to know is at what age are you considered a older woman? ok i know if your older then your a older woman but do young guys have a age gap limit b4 your considered a older woman? cause i got a message from a guy who was 30 a while back saying he liked older woman and being 32 myself i didn't really consider myself old enough for a guy who was 30 calling me a older woman i kinda see that as my own age group lol....if that makes any sence :?
well always found that everyone that is into the scene (if it can be called that :P ) is older than me,,,,,,so I never really get a choice :P Not that I'm complaining of course :twisted:
But Think I'm appraoching the barrier, where the younger peeps will start looking at me as older :shock: have to grow up sometime I suppose :P
Not that I'm complaining of course :twisted: But Think I'm appraoching the barrier, where the younger peeps will start looking at me as older :shock: have to grow up sometime I suppose :P
NaughtyNymphos, that does make sense - 2 years doesn't count as an age gap, it's barely a pause, a 15 year gap seems more realistic to be classed as an older woman imho!
Which means you can't have any young guys on the site yet! I'd qualify for the 20 year olds but I'm not really sure I'd want one, I prefer the younger woman/slightly older guy syndrome myself! (I guess that might change as I approach my Mrs Robinson years! :twisted: )
Which means you can't have any young guys on the site yet!
I'd qualify for the 20 year olds but I'm not really sure I'd want one, I prefer the younger woman/slightly older guy syndrome myself! (I guess that might change as I approach my Mrs Robinson years! :twisted: ) 
Sex God
Serendipity, I've had the 'Mrs. Robinson' song in my head as I've read this thread
all these bloomin women.....how do they know???
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firstly and most importantly........i would like to apologise for the above remark in the interests of damage linitation.........of a physical nature....
secondly........its an individual tasteso the answers are myriad.....
myself......i think the inhibitions (or lack of) post hit the nail on the head.........young lads do get it im sure.......i always did......but even though theyre young and nubile they r rarely "experienced" rgis is the same for both sexes.......
i think the dream for young guys is that older ladies will tell you what its all about......i was lucky in that sense as even though i couldnt say it was a fantasy of mine i lost my virginity to an older woman. for me it blew my mind....my mates were playing at getting to first base (tit over the duffle) lol.......and i was being trained by an older lady in the arts of giving good service......
she DEFINTELY was very experienced and would show and say exactly what needed touching / rubbing and when.......
think that may be where i get my like for giving oral sex from as ised to (and still can) go for hours trying different things to extract different sounds from my partner lol......
so in answer to your question at the head of this post.....
hats off to the older woman and may long she be sexually active....in respect of letting the younger 1s know how to go about it...
yours
dargento
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firstly and most importantly........i would like to apologise for the above remark in the interests of damage linitation.........of a physical nature....
secondly........its an individual tasteso the answers are myriad.....
myself......i think the inhibitions (or lack of) post hit the nail on the head.........young lads do get it im sure.......i always did......but even though theyre young and nubile they r rarely "experienced" rgis is the same for both sexes.......
i think the dream for young guys is that older ladies will tell you what its all about......i was lucky in that sense as even though i couldnt say it was a fantasy of mine i lost my virginity to an older woman. for me it blew my mind....my mates were playing at getting to first base (tit over the duffle) lol.......and i was being trained by an older lady in the arts of giving good service......
she DEFINTELY was very experienced and would show and say exactly what needed touching / rubbing and when.......
think that may be where i get my like for giving oral sex from as ised to (and still can) go for hours trying different things to extract different sounds from my partner lol......
so in answer to your question at the head of this post.....
hats off to the older woman and may long she be sexually active....in respect of letting the younger 1s know how to go about it...
yours
dargento
Casanova
I say go for what you like. That program was a little strange as the woman was old enough to be his granny.
I like older women and am not afraid to say that one of my contacts is older than me even thought she wont say hold much older. But she is great and I am very happy to see her when and where ever. :rose:
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I like older women and am not afraid to say that one of my contacts is older than me even thought she wont say hold much older. But she is great and I am very happy to see her when and where ever. :rose:
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i usually go for older guys
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I just love older men
Woooo Hoooo, chucks away zimmer frame and runs around in glee.
Then reads rest of post
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not that old tho
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over 35
OMG, 35 is old
: reaches for heart tablets and collapses in to armchair with slippers and pipe :lol: Quote by Phoenix
i usually go for older guys
Quote by givemeahug
I just love older men
Woooo Hoooo, chucks away zimmer frame and runs around in glee.
Then reads rest of post
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not that old tho
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over 35
OMG, 35 is old
: reaches for heart tablets and collapses in to armchair with slippers and pipe :lol:noooooooooooooo 35 not old, bloody hope not anyway :lol:
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wouldn't call any 40's old myself :lol:
More.... a touch more.... come on now.... :idea:
50's? :?
