We've all heard them; that excuse, which usually comes at the eleventh hour, as to why he/she/they can't, or couldn't, make it to the arranged meet. Of course sometimes it's not possible, since the woman in the profile either doesn't exist, or she knows nothing of what her partner is up to.
Share with us, I'm sure there's a giggle to be had, or maybe even just a chance to let other genuine members know that they're not alone in this.
I've never really been terribly pro active when it comes to swinging meets, however there is one example which springs to mind:
A guy sounded really keen to meet me, said he'd drive over from Worthing, so arfur nour (ish). I kept getting phone calls (hadn't asked for them) updating me on progress, then asking directions from near the the pier. At this point he's less than 5 mins away, according to the info he's supplying, but it's a wet day, so taking it easy. 10 minutes later he sends a text to say "I've had to turn back, my windscreen wipers have packed up and I can't go any further." :sad: Innit ... well thank fuck wipers work fine when ya turn the car around.
Many years ago i met a guy a few times, he was fun and the meets were good he turned up on time etc, he was single too which i prefered.
One time he didn't turn up though and later i got a text messege saying he hadn't been able to meet cus his wife had had a baby that day !!!!!!
Arranged to meet a guy who lived 20 miles away, the eleventh hour he texted to say his car broke down, we offered to pick him up or meet him near by, guess what?!?!? lol you guessed it, we were blocked.
Emergency dental treatment. Had that twice, by two different people.
I'd say at least they all got in touch even if only with crap excuses.....
It's the no-contact-no-shows that get our goat.
Especially when those concerned knew we had a hotel booked.
We had one guy who sent us a text at the eleventh hour on the day of the meet stating that his mother had just died,
We sent our condolences and arranged to meet up again in 3 weeks time.
On the day of the next planned meet he sent us a text again at the eleventh hour stating that his mother had just died that day !! He had obviously forgotten that he had already used that excuse once before !