you open your pm box and find a wink... do you respond, has anyone ever responded positively to a wink, what should you say..'nice wink' ?? do you sit back and go...smugly ive been winked, what is the etiquette..
i admit ive sent a couple of winks, sometimes to folk that say 'dont wink!!' just to be a bit annoying.. have you ever had anything come good from a wink?
if we get winks we ignore them , well they are nearly always off single guys ..so no use to us..
the many many winks off single bi females are yet to happen, im guessing they have got stuck in the post somewhere...maybe in the swinging heaven winkery where all the winkers are..
so hands up the habitual winkers and hands up the we have met playmates via having a wink...
does the wink system encourage people to be lazy, or is it really useful..
staggy and rose
xxs
i delete winks without opening them ,then again they are probably not for me but for the wife lol,,and yes wrats i can imagine you sending winks to annoy peeps lmao
It's irritation rather than smugness when I get winked. I've never responded to one from a stranger - even though I do have a 'use' for single guys!
and how did i know i was gonna get a wink from the lovely peeps who started this thread lol lol
maybe i wont hear back from the habitual winkers...maybe they cant type??? hence sending just winks,,
come on you lot lets here some positives about winking, there must be some..cant think of any myself but im willing to listen..after all they have been around long enough now for the good the bad and the ugly to shine through
stagster
I don't get them as I set up my account to reject them.
On my couples account. I get them and delete without even looking at the person or the account.
I have spent a lot of time perfecting both of my/our profiles so that we get what we want and feel o.k. about rejecting those that can't be bothered to read profiles. Wor lass says I am harsh. But as she hasn't been on this site for long and only now at my p.c. she has no comprehension of the attention that a single bi fem gets. I will use everyway I can think of to whittle down potential contacts.
we send winks to people and dont really mind recieving them aslong as they have something on profile for us to look at, I think its strinking a balance for most, a wink isnt enough input and a 2 page essay is too much, everyone is different and I suppose what works for one doesnt for another.
As a rule i never reply to winks, however i do always look at the profiles of people who wink me and if they have pics and look like the sort of person i'd want to talk to i will reply, but thats not offen i must admit
A while ago I got a wink a day from the same guy for ages, I wrote to him in the end, asked him how the weather was, that kind of thing, never got a reply other than a wink, most odd.
H.x
As a single guy I tend to view favourably anything that any female or couple wants to mail me - including winks ... after all its the ONLY method of communication that "free" members have. Its then down to me to write a nice note back suggesting they invest in at least the for a month's membership.
Personally I always feel quite chuffed that someone out there has looked at my profile and felt its worth getting in touch at all !!!
And yes I have had one meet that resulted from a wink -- It never got beyond the "meet for a drink first" stage, but it was a result of sorts ...
John
CHLOINK*
Ah, I see.
H.x
*the sound of a penny dropping
Winks don't bother me, I take it as someone perving my profile and commenting on what they see that's all.. if I'm feeling inclined I'll reply.
Winks, emails, whatever, if I'm in the mood and like the look of the profile I'll respond if I'm not I'll not and I delete, simple as that!
tara :lol2:
So if we all replied to the non members sayine were hot for them the site would make a fortune,,
reckon they might cut us in on the deal?
have a send a wink or two but it was just to tell the receiver that 'hey i viewed your profile and would you look at mine,but i never expected a reply or a wink back...but on the other hand if i receive a wink i curse a swear word and delete it instantly...
Why do you think you get so many winks in the first place -- it isn't that people are too lazy to write, just that its the only means of communication they have, unless they pay up and reap all the benefits.
"Free to join" members get two winks a day, can't write profile information, can load up their 12 pictures, can place ads, can read the forum but not write to it. can't go into chat, can't view full size pictures on other member's profiles, Can receive mail, but their mail is censored for phone numbers, e-mail addresses, website addresses and photographs. Can't send mail.
All of the above is of course available for a small payment ....
flippin heck hj you sound like a sales
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Tho, last time I did that everyone answered me back and I spent all night answering them and saying sorry, then the buggas answered those!!! 
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At times the poor winkers don't know whether they're cummin or, or.... or.... cummin :undecided:
