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Quote by Freckledbird
the vast majority of munches stopped when the main group of munch organisers left this site.. which was a shame .. but that falls into the cest la vie bit i mentioned above ,

Who?
want me to name folk that have left?? durrr !
people that dont appear here any more ffs freckled bird you have been here long enough to know exactly the type of people i mean so dont be a stirrer
Now I can't comment on the halycon days of nationwide Munching, because that was before my time. However, I can offer some perspective from someone whose munching has decidedly regional tendencies:
It is nothing to do with chatrooms in my case - it's a) financial - I find that the cost of transport is more manageable (plus hotels) if the Munch is vaguely local and b) because as a single gal, I like to know folk that are going.
I was petrified at my first social - but I met cool people... and so the next time they suggested a Munch, I went along - and met some people from the social and some new people. That made the next Munch easier, knowing I would see familiar faces...
and so my regional Munch habit developed!
Nola x
Quote by noladreams
Now I can't comment on the halycon days of nationwide Munching, because that was before my time. However, I can offer some perspective from someone whose munching has decidedly regional tendencies:
It is nothing to do with chatrooms in my case - it's a) financial - I find that the cost of transport is more manageable (plus hotels) if the Munch is vaguely local and b) because as a single gal, I like to know folk that are going.
I was petrified at my first social - but I met cool people... and so the next time they suggested a Munch, I went along - and met some people from the social and some new people. That made the next Munch easier, knowing I would see familiar faces...
and so my regional Munch habit developed!
Nola x

thats the thing , back then we knew everyone that went too.. even though they were far and wide .. it was just the done thing.. its unreal really when you think about it but we had good pals from all over the country..some we would perhaps never consider swinging with but mates none the less with the influx of new faces on the site/ scene the last few years and the demise of the less than local regular events its perhaps gone too far for people to ever know or take the step backwards.. perhaps local dos are the way forward but if for nothing else but prosperity id like it known how bloody great the old ways were too.
i see names on here id love to meet .. share a beer with and so on.. thats pretty much isnt ever going to happen unless we make an extra effort to track them down.. a Liverpool social and a Glasgow social and an Essex social and so on.. and same for them .. be nice to see if kenty really has got horns and lost can find his way to the bar to buy a drink , would resonance spend twenty minutes telling me very eloquently how he had just purchsed a bottle of wine and a bag of nuts..? i will perhaps never know.. oh yeah and flower .. does he dance like john otway plays guitar?
I've gotta say... i miss all the old munches.
i remember my first ever munch.... was in Eccles. (NW munch III) which i if i recall was hosted by Vicky-uk and Steve-G. there was te likes of Tiger-uk from Peterbough.... Lucifer from London... a couple from glasgow. and i'm sure there was one or two couples from devon too. everybody travelled to them. and was alwaya good catching up with everyone.
was chatting about memories of the olden days to a freind yesterday and its weird how daft things and comments job your memory.
i personlly try and get to other socails.. the world is too small to stay in one part.. and there are too many interesting and great people on this site that are outside the midlands. and if i was just to stick to the cov or derby socail.. i would miss them.
for me i think the Wigan munch, shows that people are still willing to travell, as this still does bring people from the NE, Midlands and on the odd time Essex.
while we are talking about the 'olden days"... here are some of my memories of the munches / parties
-- Drinking the bar @ NW III dry of alcohol
-- Midland Munch, which was my last munch before doing the whole "relationship thing"... where Dammy got the brunt of a arsy set of bouncers.. and resulting in everyone leaving early.
-- Medievil Banguete - a load of swingers in fits of giggles when the compare / jester was talking about stocks and chains. then playing giant jenga in the centre of the bar area
-- Notts Munch I - the snog action
Was diffcult seeing so many sexy ladies snogging.
-- Marcuso 40th birthday (well i think it was his 39th). small house... 150 people on the guest list... nearly all 150 turned up.. marguee in the garden.. but would anyone go out there.... NO.. so house was packed body to body... getting a beer was a challenge.
there are many many more... but i'd be listing them for an hour or more..
staggy remember the old saying........build it and they will come.......
Yesterday I went to a munch/social organised from over the road it was like a SH re-union with people coming from all over the UK. it was great to listen to all those silly accents again......I miss it..... biggrin
the only "old school" munch we have like that now is wigan, and thats the reason why I don't miss them...
I would organise one again, for me organising them was like organising a do for friends, so the payment bit was the least of my worries and I know that people would cover any costs I had.......
maybe i would, the biggest worry for me would be if anyone outside of our region would turn up... i use to remember people from yorkshire and the north west would come up, people from scotland would come down..... and it would be a proper mix....
I have always said that If I was ever fortunate to win the lottery I would do a big one.. it the middle of the country.... book 100 rooms in a hotel... and give them to anyone coming more than 50 miles away.... to encourage people from outside the region to come and get a mix
Quote by Steve
living in cornwall has it issues alone, but when the bristol munch was only on say once a year and that was the closest to me i would try and arrange things so i could attend.
there was always plenty of notice so you could book in advance and get cheaper accommodation, most people would travel to it and would all stay in the same hotel if possible, they were munches, so no worry of chatting away to a vanilla or be stared at like the weirdo swinger, or worse considered easy sex by the drunk vanilla.
it was a chance to put faces to forum names.
and after hours if play happened so be it but it was completely pressure free enviroment at the munch.
i miss the old munch days. they were more special as they were big planned for events. might have cost more, took more arranging, but more people from far and wide would attend as it was special.
xx fem xx

You could always think about getting a train to say......The Midlands if there was a munch further north you wanted to go to...
I'm certain someone in the Midlands would be willing to help out with travel etc from there on innocent
is there a midlands munch coming up?
Quote by fem_4_taboo
is there a midlands munch coming up?

Not a munch no but there is a social (a quite well attended one) in December I think it is...
Aint been to one in ages, main coz life got a lot busyer sad. ButThey were a lot of fun werent they smile
Right, what we need is the "O2 Arena Munch".
Get enough of us booked it wouldn't be too expensive, plenty of transport links and hotels locally.
Then next year the "Birmingham Indoor Arena Munch".
Is there a nice big place in Edinburgh/Glasgow for 2011?
We'd best avoid london in 2012 - we could be competing with too many athletes/visitors for space.
Does anyone know any swinging musicians/bands for our entertainment?
:giggle:
Quote by wild rose and the stag
the vast majority of munches stopped when the main group of munch organisers left this site.. which was a shame .. but that falls into the cest la vie bit i mentioned above ,

Who?
want me to name folk that have left?? durrr !
people that dont appear here any more ffs freckled bird you have been here long enough to know exactly the type of people i mean so dont be a stirrer
No need to be rude.
Just because they left, doesn't mean you can't name them! My point is, there are still some of the people here who arranged/arrange munches. The place didn't die when some people left. For what it's worth, I don't think they could be called the main group of organisers, to be honest.
Quote by foxylady2209
Right, what we need is the "O2 Arena Munch".
Get enough of us booked it wouldn't be too expensive, plenty of transport links and hotels locally.
Then next year the "Birmingham Indoor Arena Munch".
Is there a nice big place in Edinburgh/Glasgow for 2011?
We'd best avoid london in 2012 - we could be competing with too many athletes/visitors for space.
Does anyone know any swinging musicians/bands for our entertainment?
:giggle:

fit athletes aint to be avoided..
Get a tent, doss bag, firepit, wood and firelighters ;o)
see you all next summer :inlove:
xxxxx
Pete
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
We went to quite a few after that and none of them have been in Cornwall. wink
Quote by Firelizard
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
We went to quite a few after that and none of them have been in Cornwall. wink

We were at that one too and I'm sure I remember a Dammie in drag moment too :shock:
Quote by lavabubble
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
We went to quite a few after that and none of them have been in Cornwall. wink

We were at that one too and I'm sure I remember a Dammie in drag moment too :shock:he went through a clothes swapping stage at several munches .. lol bless
We have our own socails every 6 to 8 weeks as we cant go to others as we run a pub, so we bring the socials to us biggrin (on another site) and we have people coming from all over the country. Met some great people along the way and hope to meet loads more smile
Quote by lavabubble
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
We went to quite a few after that and none of them have been in Cornwall. wink

We were at that one too and I'm sure I remember a Dammie in drag moment too :shock:
Yep I was there! lol
Quote by Staggy
he went through a clothes swapping stage at several munches .. lol bless
He is currently into Alice bands!! :wink:
Quote by Sarah
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
We went to quite a few after that and none of them have been in Cornwall. wink

We were at that one too and I'm sure I remember a Dammie in drag moment too :shock:
Yep I was there! lol
Quote by Staggy
he went through a clothes swapping stage at several munches .. lol bless
He is currently into Alice bands!! :wink:
I had a very nice strappy top that has never been the same :wink:
Neither is my red dress but that wasn't DB!
Quote by Sarah
Neither is my red dress but that wasn't DB!

That reminds me of marcuso's red shorts lol
Quote by wild rose and the stag
I miss em .. i miss the global , ok perhaps not global but the ones we used to have way back when..
folk from the south coast came to the manchester dos .. folk from dundee ffs came to midlands dos..
too insular these days

was at one from elsewhere, full of the old crowd, people from scotland to devon all met up darn sarf and had a blastingly good time, was sooo reminiscent of the good old munchs!!
i agree with you though the old ones used to be huge and fabulous occasions, wigan keeps it alive with only doing a couple a year, they arent special when theres too many of em,
ahh a fantastic weekend it has just been
Quote by lavabubble
Neither is my red dress but that wasn't DB!

That reminds me of marcuso's red shorts lol
hes still wearing them and woohing folk with his ali g get up.. although i did hear one young couple at a munch from somewhere else say ..who the fooks this ali g?
Quote by earthchild
I miss em .. i miss the global , ok perhaps not global but the ones we used to have way back when..
folk from the south coast came to the manchester dos .. folk from dundee ffs came to midlands dos..
too insular these days

was at one from elsewhere, full of the old crowd, people from scotland to devon all met up darn sarf and had a blastingly good time, was sooo reminiscent of the good old munchs!!
i agree with you though the old ones used to be huge and fabulous occasions, wigan keeps it alive with only doing a couple a year, they arent special when theres too many of em,
ahh a fantastic weekend it has just been
i keep seeing Wigan pop up and thinking
KTF
Staggy
Quote by Firelizard
You're on Pete!! smile
First one we went to by the way was Darkfires birthday munch many moons ago and we had a fabby time...we saw Earthy belly dancing :twisted: and met the Posh one :) I had to keep myself from gawping at Hx's gorgeous...erm...boots!
I sat on the stairs afterwards chatting to Calista and Morbius and I'm sure we met Sarah and Mal there too.
wink

that was 3 yrs ago now lol and yes dammie was Madammie that night lol, and sarah is right his new fetish is alice bands lol
omg the red shorts that no matter how many times were burned still reappeared lol
Quote by earthchild
I miss em .. i miss the global , ok perhaps not global but the ones we used to have way back when..
folk from the south coast came to the manchester dos .. folk from dundee ffs came to midlands dos..
too insular these days

was at one from elsewhere, full of the old crowd, people from scotland to devon all met up darn sarf and had a blastingly good time, was sooo reminiscent of the good old munchs!!
i agree with you though the old ones used to be huge and fabulous occasions, wigan keeps it alive with only doing a couple a year, they arent special when theres too many of em,
ahh a fantastic weekend it has just been
yes but next time leave some of the beer for the locals........ biggrin
Quote by Optix
-- Drinking the bar @ NW III dry of alcohol

lol
I remember it well! smile
I came, I saw, some daft bint pulled me kecks down cos she thought it'd be 'funny', then proceeded to pole-dance round me skinny frame! rolleyes :lol: I saw what a swinging club looked like for the first time, got naked in a jacuzzi with people I'd met just a few hours previously, slept in a bed with . . . well . . . discretion forbids . . . and promptly fell fast asleep . . . :roll:
Shit like that does still happen though, or so I'm told. dunno :lol:
Good times! ;)
N x x x ;)
p.s.
Quote by Staggy
KTF

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Quote by neilinleeds
KTF

Korea Telecom Freetel? confused You're randomer than me lately geeze! lol WTF is KTF? dunno
Was relative to Wigan, vicky would know for sure ,
KTF
aka
KEEP THE FAITH
its a northern soul thing