thanks for your post! i am a strait male newbe and have been pretty nervous with getting my feet wet on here. its good to know it has worked out with someone else!
I stlil have to update my profile which i will do soon.
but thanks for posting! it gave me a bit more confidence to come here more often!
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Quote by Redbird
Call me an old cynic if you like but they haven't actually met yet
Hi Redbird, your quite right we haven't...but we have spoken at length on the phone, and I can confirm that it is a female, and that the conversation flowed very smoothly... I have little doubt that she is who she said she is... and the photo i've seen shows an attractive young lady.
I can appreciate that you will often get complete timewasers on here... I think in part that's because this is a free site... perhaps there is a case for charging to weed out the wasters from those that seriously want to explore the swinging scene.
I imagine that this has been the topic of many a post in the past... I wonder how the Administrator would feel about a nominal charge if it would help keep the site free of muppets.
: Anyway, as I say, probably a topic for another post...
To get back to the original thread... my point was that if you're new and you don't know what's going on on the site, take your time and work out what you want and what you have to offer and then once you've established your platform get stuck in...
Maybe I was lucky though... I can't wait to find out!
Quote by DaHamsta
I wonder how the Administrator would feel about a nominal charge if it would help keep the site free of muppets.
I can tell you that Mark is adamant that this site stays free and it always will do.
From what I gather he was fed up with free sites suddenly becoming pay sites, the cheek of getting people in, building up a large membership .......... then suddenly changing the rules to a fee based thing.
So SwingingHeaven was born. There is noway he would ever make this site a pay site, even nominal fees.
Mark, please correct me if I've got the history wrong there!!!
