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Three better than four?

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I think it all depends on how much effort you put in really lol Personaly I prefer swaps with other couples who are both bi i can assure you no one gets left out then. On the other hand I have found that in a threesome if two people get carried away with each other then the other person can get left on the side for a bit but again it is down to individuals to make sure everyone is involved. as a couple we have had threesome and moresomes and we think a bloody great big bi orgie is the best biggrin
It depends entirely on the people concerned and the situation. Someone could feel left out in a group of any number. It is just as easy for someone to feel left out of a threesome as it would be a foursome. I can't think of any specific examples off the top of my head, but I can't honestly say that a threesome would be better than a four in orde to avoid this possibility.
Does that answer the question?
It's definitely possible for one person to feel left out in a threesome confused
Bev
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hmmmmmmmm. Personally, i think if everyone knows what everyone else wants then technically nobody should be left out. Daz and i have had a couple of very fulfilling foursomes,with a fantastic couple, at some point Daz may have been doing something with the other woman, but his hand is always somewhere on me. We have also had the other extreme, we had a foursome where the man was only interested in full sex with me,(which we werent interested in) and his wife said she was bi but actually wasnt, and was really reluctant to let Daz anywhere near her. Had the male had his way, Daz would most certainly have been left out - as it was, we made our excuses and left!
Three is cool. Four is cool. Five is... cool.
Um, I think that you need to get the right people together. Make sure you all like eachother the same, ya know? The only times anyone has been left out, in my experiences, are when I fall asleep. (No slur on anyone involved, I am ill.... it happens).
After the experience on Vix' & my wedding night, I have to say that I think five-somes (MMMFF) are the absolute best! There's plenty for everyone to do, the opportunity to take breaks without diminishing the action, and the ability to literally keep going all night (and then some)! ;)
~Reese! surprised
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The only times anyone has been left out, in my experiences, are when I fall asleep. (No slur on anyone involved, I am ill.... it happens).

Not fooled....it`s cos you are an old fart! :giggle: wink
Venusxxx
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The only times anyone has been left out, in my experiences, are when I fall asleep. (No slur on anyone involved, I am ill.... it happens).

Not fooled....it`s cos you are an old fart! :giggle: wink
Venusxxx
Fuck off, short-arse. :P
(Don't tell everyone!
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Fuck off, short-arse. :P

I love you rotflmao passionkiss
Venusxxx
You 2 make me laugh!!!! lol It's lucky we all know you're friends!!!!
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You 2 make me laugh!!!! lol It's lucky we all know you're friends!!!!

No. We're not. She just wants Reese's cock. And who can blame her?
I agree with Blue and Seagll, it is to each persons attitude, imagination weather they chose to and how much to participate.
The more people in the sesh the more things that can be pasted around.
In theory, there should be more activity going on in a 4 some then a 3 sum.
Shaddup, Mr sensible. We're trying a hi-hack, here!
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Fuck off, short-arse. :P

I love you rotflmao passionkiss
Venusxxx
Now now children, stop squabbling or you'll NOT be sent to bed!! lol
Mal
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Bastid.
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Shaddup, Mr sensible. We're trying a hi-hack, here!

Could you be a little more persific?
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Shaddup, Mr sensible. We're trying a hi-hack, here!

Could you be a little more persific?
No. I have champagne to drink.
Are you a bit tideled
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Bastid.

lol Champagne kicking in, then? :lol:
Mal
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any thing else kicking in??
It sounds like you 2 have a conspiracy going on
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any thing else kicking in??
It sounds like you 2 have a conspiracy going on

Yeah, they're conspiring to hijack my thread, but I'm not having it, I tell ya.
If you’re lucky they may hijack you
Hommana hommana hommana
We have generally met up with couples for fun but have had our more sexually intense experiences where we have met single guys for threesomes. With 4somes, there is a tendency to split into two couples with occasional interaction; with MFM, it has been continuous interaction and M has been in her element! Naughty girl!
If one of the people playing is a little shy or gets "stage fright" then it is easy to be left out no matter what the number. Even with a foursome and a full swap, the other two might last a lot longer than you and the other persons partner. This leaves two of you sat watching (unless you join in) your own partner with the other person. Not a problem for me, but for some it might be awkward.
My advice, try it all and see which suits you best! biggrin Everyone is different :D
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Shaddup, Mr sensible. We're trying a hi-hack, here!

Could you be a little more persific?
No. I have champagne to drink.
Show off mad . How about sharing? Oops, sorry, you did that before & after the wedding! redface
I have a technical question about this. I have never participated in a threesome before (foursome yes)... teh nearest i got to a threesome was years ago with two men whom I had to in the end kick out my door as they both started squabbling about you gets to have first ermmm penetration..
My question is, in a MMF set up, how does the F make sure that she doesn't get absolutely knackered??
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I have a technical question about this. I have never participated in a threesome before (foursome yes)... teh nearest i got to a threesome was years ago with two men whom I had to in the end kick out my door as they both started squabbling about you gets to have first ermmm penetration..
My question is, in a MMF set up, how does the F make sure that she doesn't get absolutely knackered??

Isn't that the point? To get absolutely knackered? :twisted:
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Isn't that the point? To get absolutely knackered? :twisted:

LOL well yes, Frecklebird, but how does one make sure that you don't get knackered before everyone is ermm you know finished?
Well I've never experienced that, to be honest. It's usually the other participants who complain and say 'enough' before I do redface
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Well I've never experienced that, to be honest. It's usually the other participants who complain and say 'enough' before I do redface

you saucy minx you biggrin hang on, i need to get me notebook and take notes