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Time Wasters & No Shows - Your Thoughts Please!

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MikeNorth
Sex God
Marya revived an old long-forgotten post thus:
MikeNorth wrote:
Marya wrote:
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Nice ad, Mike - you coming to the NE Munch?
No, but I hope to be at Marcuso's motel party - I'll buy you and Alex a cup of tea...
Mike.
What happened to my cup of tea??? I'm parched!

I'll make it up to you soon Marya....
Mike xxx
Chillin
Forum Virgin
Well I'm new on here Alex and still finding out how to get around the place , but I'm sorry to read about your encounters with time wasters, not exactly what I was expecting to read on here. Somehow I thought that I'd be reading about happier experiences.
The only thing I can put it down to is the usual chat room nonsense of guys making out they're somethin they're not, happens all the time in chat. You know what I mean, guys going on as '<Marinedrillsergeant' or 'Navyseal' that kinda stuff. Just take ya time and get to know whoever it is first , sorry this sounds corny. I'm sure you'll have loads of better experiences, lets hope so.
CG26M
Sexlightened
Obviously they didn't realise what they were missing out on alex! sillyhwoar:
keep having your fun babe! mwah! :therethere:
ChrisG
the_tongue
Orgasminator
I could tell you were upset from the way you spoke about it on Saturday Alex.I do sympathize with you should employ the line tell me somebody that has you,and use that as a the person says they are fine then go for it.
Also im sure you made a few acquaintances on Saturday night that you can meet up with in the future.
Btw it was a real pleasure to meet you on Saturday,i hope that you enjoyed xx
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Quote by MikeNorth
Marya revived an old long-forgotten post thus:MikeNorth wrote:
Marya wrote:
Quote:
Nice ad, Mike - you coming to the NE Munch?
No, but I hope to be at Marcuso's motel party - I'll buy you and Alex a cup of tea...
Mike.
What happened to my cup of tea??? I'm parched!

I'll make it up to you soon Marya....
Mike xxx
Errrr ..... this thread, Mike??? lol
MikeNorth
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Errrr ..... this thread, Mike??? lol

Yeah - never got that long holiday though. sad
Unknown User
Its very sad when this happens and destroys faith. Personally I get very few opportunities for meets and so when I do get one I treat it and the other person like gold dust.
markz
Sex God
Quote by jameswanna
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Quote by markz
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
and someone replies to it? :roll:
Unknown User
this drives me mad you put all your time in to e-mails. make plans go to a place to say hi 10 min before you get there hay ho a no show, we know why we are here its for fun, have meet some good freinds her and some times its not the sex its the nice friends you so even a no thanks is nice. biggrin
your a long time dead?
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by Ben4fun_1
this drives me mad you put all your time in to e-mails. make plans go to a place to say hi 10 min before you get there hay ho a no show, we know why we are here its for fun, have meet some good freinds her and some times its not the sex its the nice friends you so even a no thanks is nice. biggrin
your a long time dead?

Ben, you joined the site in September so don't get too disheartened just yet!!
Yes, we all have to suffer no shows. It sucks. Big time. I even have hotel bills to prove it!! But, you will meet fantastic people on this site and the timewasters are just an unfortunate side effect!! rolleyes
As you can see, this being an old post, the timewasting issue is never going to change or go away.
Still, gives us something to rant about! :fuckinghell:
Nola x
markz
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
and someone replies to it? :roll:
its like eating the cold pizza the morning after.... :roll:
Unknown User
Dear Gods, thread necromancy!!!
But anyways, onto the subject. Overall I guess we've been lucky, never had a no show yet, and we tend to operate in the area that you would most expect it too, the Single Males - the more the merrier guys smile.
MikeNorth
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Ohhhhh Marya, look what you've done now! rolleyes

quote: "Marya revived an old long-forgotten thread thus"
Ooohh, she is awful! smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Unknown User
yes you be spot-on just have to keep working away at it. its a bit like life some days are good and some day you can be very bad. i love being bad days :P
life is only sad when you let it get to you.
Unknown User
yes you be spot-on just have to keep working away at it. its a bit like life some days are good and some day you can be very bad. i love being bad days :P
life is only sad when you let it get to you.
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Ohhhhh Marya, look what you've done now! rolleyes

:shock: confused
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Quote by markz
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
and someone replies to it? :roll:
its like eating the cold pizza the morning after.... :roll:
don't you have a microwave?
markz
Sex God
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
and someone replies to it? :roll:
its like eating the cold pizza the morning after.... :roll:
don't you have a microwave?
No I can cook............ :roll:
Shambolic
Sexlightened
Quote by noladreams30
Ben, you joined the site in September so don't get too disheartened just yet!!

I joined years ago and haven't met anyone off here yet!
OK, so I've not really made an effort, not thrown an ad up, not contacted many (less than 5 I think) people and only pop into the forums to post on the more controversial topics nowadays but you'd think after 3 years or more some delusional nymphomaniac would've dragged me into her den wouldn't you? You wouldn't? Me either, but unless I get round to being a bit more proactive in these things it's the only way I can see me meeting anyone through here..
Tan____Kinky
Sex God
Quote by markz
Its very sad when this happens

what when someone bring up an old thread...... rolleyes
and someone replies to it? :roll:
its like eating the cold pizza the morning after.... :roll:
don't you have a microwave?
No I can cook............ :roll:
you can cook aswel :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: you have talents mr markz wink
naughtynymphos1
Sex God
Quote by Mal

In seriousness, I think time-wasters are always going to be an epidemic on sites like this. Us fellas are mostly dreamers - we like to think about sex and talk about sex but actually going out and doing sex? With someone new? With all the washing and self-grooming and nerves that entails? "No thank you", think lots of fellas, "I'm gonna stay home and watch Sky Sports News! Mum, could you wash my jeans?" I don't know how you women put up with us, really I don't.

Don't tar us all with the same brush, Roger. Yes, there are many out there like that, but certainly not all.
Mal
lol
got to admit i agree with him lol
I used to have a add in the single fems looking for males section (before anyone points out i have a couples profile we are a couples who also both meet as singles) too and to be totally honest found it a waste of time, most guys on this site cant even grasp what your looking for, even tho i put i was looking for local men ages around late 20s to early 40s i still used to get replies from 55 year old men in london :lol: and yes alex we all get abusive replies, the all talkers and no shows to me its just all part of swinging, i just totally gave up trying to meet off this site and mainly use it for the chat rooms and going to the socials.
P.S Mal in not taring you all with the same brush just talking about my experiences ;)