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chaps any tips for me although i dont shoot after 30 seconds i would like to be able to hold out for as long as i can.
on a good day i can manage 30 mins but mostly its about 10-15 mins.
any guys or girls for that matter got any tips for me???
i dont wanna do it for hours on end but i would like to be able to come when i choose not when my ball bag says so.
no biff please, proper answers only cheers!!!!!!!!
Shag a minger...
Sorry, couldn't resist lol.... no Biff indeed! lol
Its not really that difficult. Have a wank before the encounter. You'll have less to show on your next orgasm, but it should take you longer to get there.
Alternatively find or introduce your partner to the delights of seeing an orgasm.
Of course all this depends on your overall recovery time.
I promise not to give you any Biff if you tell me what the feck Biff is! confused
Or....
Shag a minger lol
Ok ok I'm going lol.
Sorry wink
dont shag bolt then you can last forever
brown paper bag (unless ur into bagging :twisted: )
a delay spray/ desensatising (sp?) spray biggrin
viagra rolleyes
condoms can be known to delay things
think of your granny (inc jam jar glasses, no teeth, carpet slippers n to-the-floor nightie)
read the joy of sex whilst doing the biz that will help??? biggrin
sorry I think that might be biff :P
I got a great answer
buy a can of delay spray, i use one called "stud 100 desensitizing spray for men" ... only and 1 can can = a fair few months of fun!
its you anesthetic in it and takes a bit of the feeling away.
i am normally 10 to 15 min but if i use this it can be anything from 1 to several hours pending on how much i use.
Warning though, read the instructions or you WONT be able to come..
this was a post we made the first time we ever tried it.. will make you smile if nothing else lol
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html?highlight=delay%20spray
Tony wink
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
I got a great answer
buy a can of delay spray, i use one called "stud 100 desensitizing spray for men" ... only and 1 can can = a fair few months of fun!
its you anesthetic in it and takes a bit of the feeling away.
i am normally 10 to 15 min but if i use this it can be anything from 1 to several hours pending on how much i use.
Warning though, read the instructions or you WONT be able to come..
this was a post we made the first time we ever tried it.. will make you smile if nothing else lol
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html?highlight=delay%20spray
Tony wink

As soon as I started to read your advice Tony I thought of that thread and started chuckling.. :giggle:
vert2go
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
I got a great answer
buy a can of delay spray, i use one called "stud 100 desensitizing spray for men" ... only and 1 can can = a fair few months of fun!
its you anesthetic in it and takes a bit of the feeling away.
i am normally 10 to 15 min but if i use this it can be anything from 1 to several hours pending on how much i use.
Warning though, read the instructions or you WONT be able to come..
this was a post we made the first time we ever tried it.. will make you smile if nothing else lol
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81695.html?highlight=delay%20spray
Tony wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
OMFG, i love it and can visualise it so well :twisted:
Thanx guys, that will keep me chuckling all night :giggle:
G xx
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chaps any tips for me although i dont shoot after 30 seconds i would like to be able to hold out for as long as i can.
on a good day i can manage 30 mins but mostly its about 10-15 mins.
any guys or girls for that matter got any tips for me???
i dont wanna do it for hours on end but i would like to be able to come when i choose not when my ball bag says so.
no biff please, proper answers only cheers!!!!!!!!

Try the 'pinch technique', it really works but needs a lot of practice.
With the right person you can last for hours, but that's not always a good thing, it may get boring but being able to hold back so it lasts longer than just a few minutes is so rewarding.
wink
Quote by bbw_lover
chaps any tips for me although i dont shoot after 30 seconds i would like to be able to hold out for as long as i can.
on a good day i can manage 30 mins but mostly its about 10-15 mins.
any guys or girls for that matter got any tips for me???
i dont wanna do it for hours on end but i would like to be able to come when i choose not when my ball bag says so.
no biff please, proper answers only cheers!!!!!!!!

Try the 'pinch technique', it really works but needs a lot of practice.
With the right person you can last for hours, but that's not always a good thing, it may get boring but being able to hold back so it lasts longer than just a few minutes is so rewarding.
wink
that sounds a bit bdsm
Quote by robhambledon
chaps any tips for me although i dont shoot after 30 seconds i would like to be able to hold out for as long as i can.
on a good day i can manage 30 mins but mostly its about 10-15 mins.
any guys or girls for that matter got any tips for me???
i dont wanna do it for hours on end but i would like to be able to come when i choose not when my ball bag says so.
no biff please, proper answers only cheers!!!!!!!!

Try the 'pinch technique', it really works but needs a lot of practice.
With the right person you can last for hours, but that's not always a good thing, it may get boring but being able to hold back so it lasts longer than just a few minutes is so rewarding.
wink
that sounds a bit bdsm
Depends how you do it!
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Quote by bbw_lover
Try the 'pinch technique',
wink

which bit can i pinch loon
Quote by dekntan

Try the 'pinch technique',
wink

which bit can i pinch loon
is that pinch as in steal????? lol
i try to think about things that I have to do at work the next day. It works for me a treat.
P.S. Please note this technique will not work if you are employed as a porn star
Errrr..... why do you want to last for hours? :shock: I hate it when someone goes on for too long, I get sore, dry and deflated...just my thoughts
Love fast repeaters but too long waiting for one cum is boring IMHO.
pink x
an elastic band tied tightly round the base?? dunno
Quote by blueandpink
Errrr..... why do you want to last for hours? :shock: I hate it when someone goes on for too long, I get sore, dry and deflated...just my thoughts
Love fast repeaters but too long waiting for one cum is boring IMHO.
pink x

Mrs mdr's thoughts exactly... too much is a yawn.
I think around the time it takes to make the woman truly satisfied and happy no matter what is plenty anyway...
If that's 5 10 or even 20 seconds I don't mind!!
Mike x
Quote by blueandpink
Errrr..... why do you want to last for hours? :shock: I hate it when someone goes on for too long, I get sore, dry and deflated...just my thoughts
Love fast repeaters but too long waiting for one cum is boring IMHO.
pink x

Absolutely, it`s no fun when a guy makes it into an Olympic stamina event!
Quote by robhambledon

Try the 'pinch technique',
wink

which bit can i pinch loon
is that pinch as in steal????? lol
nooo nipple pinching of course biggrin
tie a knot in it
lp
Have 6 or 7 pints! :cheers:
Shag a minger twice.. hump :scared:
I know I know... wasn't even funny the first time.. I'm bored now! lol :lol: wink
I'm going.. bolt
There is an old, old, very old method. It sometimes works, but you need to learn it, and spend years developing it. I am not yet a master.
Before I tell you do you remember the first time you were able to make Percy nod. You did it by contacting the penal muscle, which pulls the penal tendon and the penis rises. But that doe's not help you do it. It is just something you discover, like you discover how to walk.
The trick is to know when you are about to cum, and send a signal from the brain to stop it. I told you it doe's not help. Concentrate on the base of the penis, it is a good starting point. What you do is stop the ejaculation but still feel the buzz. It invades the rest of your body.
I think london plaything has done this by accident, he mentioned it in an earlier thread http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/2067161.html#2067161
Good luck in your quest, but remember time like length is not everything.
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There is an old, old, very old method. It sometimes works, but you need to learn it, and spend years developing it. I am not yet a master.
Before I tell you do you remember the first time you were able to make Percy nod. You did it by contacting the penal muscle, which pulls the penal tendon and the penis rises. But that doe's not help you do it. It is just something you discover, like you discover how to walk.
The trick is to know when you are about to cum, and send a signal from the brain to stop it. I told you it doe's not help. Concentrate on the base of the penis, it is a good starting point. What you do is stop the ejaculation but still feel the buzz. It invades the rest of your body.
I think london plaything has done this by accident, he mentioned it in an earlier thread http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/2067161.html#2067161
Good luck in your quest, but remember time like length is not everything.

ahhhh..grasshopper..when you can snatch the pebble from my hand it is time for you to leave??? lol
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There is an old, old, very old method. It sometimes works, but you need to learn it, and spend years developing it. I am not yet a master.
Before I tell you do you remember the first time you were able to make Percy nod. .

Percy? rotflmao
Quote by robhambledon
ahhhh..grasshopper..when you can snatch the pebble from my hand it is time for you to leave??? lol

The secret is to tense both sets of mussel, it is far faster to release tension than to contract muscle.
Quote by dekntan

Try the 'pinch technique',
wink

which bit can i pinch loon
is that pinch as in steal????? lol
nooo nipple pinching of course biggrin
You're giving me ideas dektan.
:twisted:
It's just down to will power really