To any guys who were bi-curious and tried it

10 Dec 2005

Pretty simple question really, would you reccomend it to another bi curious guy?

10 Dec 2005

as i was very nervous at my first attempt i gave it a miss but at the second i was determined to go through with it and boy did i enjoy it the first few second s were rough but after that...........give me my next helping...it depend wether you want it to remain a fantasy .....curiousity or reality................but personally go for it

10 Dec 2005

My first bit of advice would be to read this thread. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65590.html
Some great advice on there
Then once you've read that, read this.. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65670.html
and make sure that you choose your first "experience" wisely ;)
(Think the edit worked that time... I'm sure nobody noticed redface

:lol2

10 Dec 2005

i think you got one of your links wrong angel chat lol biggrin

10 Dec 2005

and that why i behave myself with q like that as i am not a regulkar poster

10 Dec 2005

Quote by Angel Chat
My first bit of advice would be to read this thread. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65590.html
Some great advice on there
Then once you've read that, read this.. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65590.html
and make sure that you choose your first "experience" wisely ;)

They're the same threads AC
Me, the problem will never arise, str8.

10 Dec 2005

Quote by Mrmart
i think you got one of your links wrong angel chat lol

Oops so I did redface

lol... try this one second ;)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65670.html

10 Dec 2005

lol good job im not really interested in the blowjob side wink

spose i might have a different opinion though

10 Dec 2005

been there, done that, done that as well and it was ok both ways ound, will i do either again not sure thinking about it
nuff said

10 Dec 2005

Quote by Mrmart
lol good job im not really interested in the blowjob side spose i might have a different opinion though

Excuse me!! After all the effort I went to, looking for those threads and then totally ballsing up my quotes and edits, you can damn well get a blow job and like it!!!

After all that my second hand advice wasn't even wanted :rotflmao: Bloody typical :lol2: Hope you do find what you're looking for, but speaking as a female, it feckin hurts when someone puts something up my bum lol

10 Dec 2005

Well at the moment im just curious, i kinda like the idea of having sex with a lady with a mans 'chap' up my bum

11 Dec 2005

my advice is if your curious about anything give it a go, don't ask other cause they may have had a go and not liked it and put you off doing something you could really enjoy
go for it :thumbup:

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Mrmart
Pretty simple question really, would you reccomend it to another bi curious guy?

Yes. If you try it and don't like it then you've wasted an hour of your life. If you try it and you do like it then you've got a lifetime of potential fun ahead of you.

11 Dec 2005

does it there for mean when i was curious i was bi curious
and now i have tried it
as im not curious i must now be bi
just wondered so i know for the future

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Phoenix
My first bit of advice would be to read this thread. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65590.html
Some great advice on there
Then once you've read that, read this.. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/65590.html
and make sure that you choose your first "experience" wisely ;)

They're the same threads AC
Me, the problem will never arise, str8.
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Donnamuppet rolleyes

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Mister_Discreet
[Yes. If you try it and don't like it then you've wasted an hour of your life. If you try it and you do like it then you've got a lifetime of potential fun ahead of you.

Good point

11 Dec 2005

Deffo try it at least twice
If you dont like it than at least you know
Quite often in life the fantasy is not as good as the reality
But you will not know untill you try
Bi-Guy-Notts
former stright guy

11 Dec 2005

well trying it all and cant tell if i liked it or not, didnt really turn me on that much, if i was meeting a couple and it added to the pleasure i most prob would again, on my own most prob wont for a while, but at least i ahve tried it more than once so will not die wondering

2 Jan 2006

Quote by naughtynymphos1
my advice is if your curious about anything give it a go, don't ask other cause they may have had a go and not liked it and put you off doing something you could really enjoy
go for it :thumbup:

100%

2 Jan 2006

what a fantastic thread. and the links too. being str8 so far, often wondred what a mmf threesome would be like if there were no holes barred!
reminds me of an old joke -
man says to bartender "just had my first blowjob"
bartender says "congratulations, here's a free whisky"
man says "thanks, that should take the taste away"
still curious....

3 Jan 2006

I tried it and at the time, although it had been a fantasy it was definately a spur of the moment thing. I was in London overnught through work and planned to try my luck in the clubs for a girl. I went to the porn cinema in Soho to get me in the mood as it was early evening. I sat and watched a really good girl on girl scene and a black guy a couple of seats away was masturbating and kept looking at me. The last thing on my mind was my first bi experience but I found myself rubbing my cock through my trousers but not making eye contact with the guy. Next thing I know he is rubbing me too. I was horny and thought why not and told him I was going to the toilet rubbing his bare cock as I moved past him (the first time I had touched another mans cock).
I had a strange mix of excitement and fear as I stood in the toilet and a minute or so later he appeared. There was no kissing or anything like that, but before I knew it i was sucking him off. We gave each other blow jobs and wanked each other off, climaxing into the urinal at the same time. I then left the cinema immediately to go on with the original plan.
Would I do it again? Dont know. It was exciting but that may have been because it was so unplanned.

3 Jan 2006

wow, that was honest.
not sure whether I would prefer the anonimity of that situation or the 'having a few drinks first' scenario.

3 Jan 2006

This was a long held fantasy which finally became reality last year.
Would echo the thoughts of those who said you should pick your partner/victim wisely. If you really want to try this, find someone relaxed and patient and just get on and experience it!
Was wonderful to experience what my other half feels, i.e. giving oral etc and it really gave me a deeper appreciation of "t'other side of the fence" - not to mention that I really enjoyed it and can't wait to do it again! biggrin

In short, if you are really curious, go for it, you will either come out the other side with a whole new world to explore or, alternatively, can at least say you tried it. Why go through life thinking I could have, I should have..... I didn't.....
cbc

3 Jan 2006

I had had a couple of drinks first which may have influenced me at the time.

3 Jan 2006

niiice undies cbc!

3 Jan 2006

If the situation was organised or planned, I might not have done it. The spontenaity (sp) of it was probably what made me do it. Also, as it was anonymous it added to the excitement. I think it would make it easier to decide whether to do it again if the situation arose and the fear factor is gone. It is now just a matter of whether I would want to or not as opposed to would I like it.

3 Jan 2006

Quote by cbc
In short, if you are really curious, go for it, you will either come out the other side with a whole new world to explore or, alternatively, can at least say you tried it. Why go through life thinking I could have, I should have..... I didn't.....
cbc

My thought's exactly cbc :thumbup:
Shireen
xxx

3 Jan 2006

plenty of of food for thought from this thread, if that's not too much of an innuendo.
what i always wonder is, am i too straight to be bi?

3 Jan 2006

Quote by minotaur
plenty of of food for thought from this thread, if that's not too much of an innuendo.
what i always wonder is, am i too straight to be bi?

It comes down to what the fantasy is. Is it to give a blow job or something more. Mine was always just the blow job. The fact that you are considering the question could be the answer itself.
My advice would be to think long and hard about what, if anything, you want to try. Have you ever seen any gay videos or pictures? This may help. At the end of the day, if you try it and dont like it you dont have to do it again if you dont want to.

3 Jan 2006

very good advice.
Unfortunately I go for the 'try anything twice, just in case' school of thought. Well, it could be unfortunate, especially if the "babe" quote is heard...
you have my sympathies, dundee (differentthread but linked above)!