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Quote by Anoush
BIoke, How did you become such a font of knowledge and wisdom? you really are a credit to the forum.
I've shagged everyone and sucked everything out of their heads while I was doing it :rascal:.. would you like to try?
I'm messing (ish) but the 'sub' thing has my interest :twisted:
I've just been around here a while and like to try and spout bollox, peppered with honesty, advice and a little bit of naughty flirting most of the time mate :thumbup:
Stick around for a bit and you'll know all the words, freaks, stalkers, sexies, dirties and funnies too :)
Quote by flower411
BIoke, How did you become such a font of knowledge and wisdom? you really are a credit to the forum.
Take no notice !! He makes it up as he goes along :P
Stuff off or I'll pull your new halo around your ankles along with yer pants so you trip up and fall face first into my sweaty gusset
Quote by Try2
Truth is unlike women men are gutless to admit their sexuality as its against their macho masculine image
My Profile has always stated my sexuality as Bi-curious or as a certain Forumer once coined the term "Bi-dabbler"
As for the Macho image, I've gotten to the point where I don't care what people think to be honest
Quote by BIoke
Well as a very new person to this, I only joined yesterday, lots of good info discussed here. I must say as someone that wants to try out the bi thing i didn't realize that would exclude me from lots of str8 couples, oh well
It shouldn't but if they say it does then more the fool them for responding to you as your username is pretty self explanatory. It does give the impression that you're past the 'trying' stage though.. I only say that as I know some 'straight' blokes on here will play with other 'straight' blokes over the likes of me who is mostly into guys... I think the fact that they are both 'straight' makes it OK in their consciences
There's also a massive mispercepion by some uneducated/inexperiences straight blokes that every gay and bi bloke is gonna find them irresistable :roll:
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
Sex God
Goldsmith I think some people are simply hedging their bets... if you tick all the boxes then you come up in all the searches.
Orgasminator
When i was drunk i would have fkd a bar stool if she or he would have me... 
Quote by goldsmith
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
My comments weren't aimed at you and sorry if you thought that. They actually came about as a result of a conversation that I had at a wedding reception last Saturday night
I was just commenting generally in a thread that like most on here, has evolved as others have posted 
Yes, I understand and yes I agree with you as it baffles/amuses me too. I think some of it might even be as a result that a lot of them join the site in the early hours when they've come in drunk and horny and don't quite know what box they are ticking.. literally and metaphorically! Usernames are a good example of that too - i.e. 'johnnyfannylicker' or 'jennycumguzzler' probably seem good names DUI but in the cold light of day seem more like something a teenager would use.
As for the 'oh, that's a mistake' answer from the guys.. that's even funnier when they also have an ad. running in 'men seeking men' and the TV section. But then TV's don't make a straight man bi as they look like girls.. well some do
Quote by goldsmith
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
Men lie! Simples!
Orgasminator
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
Men lie! Simples!
Says the gal who saw a wallaby on Sat night!!........
Sex God
Quote by goldsmith
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
Perhaps they are looking to experiment
but dont want to "pigeonhole" themselves as bi (and we all know everyone should be in a pigeonhole somewhere dont we) untill they have dabbled a little :dunno:Or perhaps they see it as an easy way to get a BJ as we all know bi/gay blokes will suck anything if its hard....Just look at some of Blokes exploits .... :lol2:
*goes looking for tongue in cheek emoticon*
Quote by Steve
..Or perhaps they see it as an easy way to get a BJ as we all know bi/gay blokes will suck anything if its hard....Just look at some of Blokes exploits .... :lol2:
*goes looking for tongue in cheek emoticon*
... as long as it's over 8" and thick, then yes <pulls Steve's tongue out of his cheek and replaces it with his cock>
Orgasminator
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
Being a straight guy i guess one does always wonder,but then I wonder what it would be like to be in space ..not sure I will ever go there tho....
Being a straight guy i guess one does always wonder,but then I wonder what it would be like to be in space ..not sure I will ever go there tho....
Quote by Mark_July
Being a straight guy i guess one does always wonder,but then I wonder what it would be like to be in space ..not sure I will ever go there tho....
<<< is giggly this morning :)Space is a nice place I hear and spacemen give MUCH better blow jobs than spaceladies
TIP: If you do go there Mark, just make sure you choose the right rocket - there's some stuff ones out there. And ones that say they are big Space Shuttles too when really they are just a little Roman Candle or Banger
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
Surely if they really aren't bi, straight men won't get hard for a BJ from another guy. Or are they really that shallow?
I think I may have just hit the nail on the head
Actually, I think that's a really good point - so is being bi emotional or physical or a bit of both?
That said, I saw this You Tube type thingy once where a guy put his dick up a Henry hoover (it wasn't even a Hetty hoover, the pink one) and got hard.. and another one, up a car exhaust - seriously :shock: Dunno what that makes them... or me for watching for that matter!
Orgasminator
Space is a nice place I hear and spacemen give MUCH better blow jobs than spaceladies
A sure way of going out with a bang anyway!!..
Going to look on e-bay for a space ship..
Oh will need a passenger..pref female but what the hell..will be our last act anyway.. :grin:
A sure way of going out with a bang anyway!!..
Going to look on e-bay for a space ship..
Oh will need a passenger..pref female but what the hell..will be our last act anyway.. :grin:
Orgasminator
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
Surely if they really aren't bi, straight men won't get hard for a BJ from another guy. Or are they really that shallow?
I think I may have just hit the nail on the head
I think a lot of men are that shallow fluff..he says thinking deeply..
Quote by BIoke
Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!
My comments weren't aimed at you and sorry if you thought that. They actually came about as a result of a conversation that I had at a wedding reception last Saturday night
I was just commenting generally in a thread that like most on here, has evolved as others have posted Yes, I understand and yes I agree with you as it baffles/amuses me too. I think some of it might even be as a result that a lot of them join the site in the early hours when they've come in drunk and horny and don't quite know what box they are ticking.. literally and metaphorically! Usernames are a good example of that too - i.e. 'johnnyfannylicker' or 'jennycumguzzler' probably seem good names DUI but in the cold light of day seem more like something a teenager would use.
As for the 'oh, that's a mistake' answer from the guys.. that's even funnier when they also have an ad. running in 'men seeking men' and the TV section. But then TV's don't make a straight man bi as they look like girls.. well some do
Thank you, thank you, thank you, you actually got what I was saying. I never thought about the ads bit, which does make it even funnier.
Sex God
I think people may like the fantasy but be afraid of the reality. I think some blokes think that sex with anybody is better than sex alone and I think that some may think by being "bi" gives them a certain amount of swinging Kudos and offers more options than being totally straight or gay. As such I think they tick the boxes which don't necessarily reflect their true sexuality, but tick the boxes which they think will appeal to other swinging people to get them noticed and invited, and then once they have achieved that they can try and wangle things round to what they actually want.
Or there is also the possibility that some people are just too dopey to realise what boxes they are ticking.
Or there is also the possibility that some people are just too dopey to realise what boxes they are ticking.
Sex God
Quote by brucie
i just had a look at someone's profile as they posted on my thread. yup, a single male looking for all sorts including couple with bi male...
either the scatter gun approach or just happy to suck cock but not talk about it.
Or maybe.......Just maybe..... it means they are happy to play with a couple with a bi-male as they are confident and not hung up on the notion of "as the guy is bi he's gonna jump on me the first time I turn my back on him" .....
Mod
A guy drives into the car park of a cafe. He steps out of his car, enters the bar wearing his business suit and tie and sits down at a table.
The waitress approaches and he orders a coffee.
“Sir†she says, do you ride a motorbike when you aren’t driving your car?â€
“Yes†he says, “I
“I’m sorry, sir, but unfortunately we don’t serve bikers
“But I’m not on my bike, I’ve come in a car, I’m wearing a suit, not bike leathers!â€
“I’m sorry, Sir, but you bikers are all the same no matter how you dress it up and we don’t serve bikers. I’m quite happy to talk to you, just not serve :shock:
As her shift had just finished, she then walked out the cafe, put on her helmet and rode away on her own motorbike - don't you just love double standards!!
As someone who is bi (and it’s on my profile and has been for a very long time), I cannot understand when a couple advertise for a male, but won’t accept someone who may tick all the boxes, but is bi. Why? You are discriminating against that persons sexuality. He is bi, which means he may have sex with either or both of you. If the male of the couple is straight and it’s made clear they are looking for someone for the female of the couple, what is the problem? I can understand if he had too much/not enough hair, was too old/young, too tall/short, too fat/thin as these are physical elements of their makeup that cannot be changed, but his sexuality is relative to the moment, ie, if the other male doesn’t want male/male contact, then the bi guy for that period would be playing straight. It's even more odd when the female of the couple is bi as well and therefore should understand what bi means!
By playing straight, he is not denying his sexuality; he’s just complying with the situation honestly to all involved. Perhaps some of these couples may need to look a little closer to home regarding their prejudices and why that may affect the way some males react towards them and what they put/change on their profile. They may be perpetuating the problem.
As an aside, I found more females keen to meet/play with a bi guy than didn’t. So guys, be true to yourself and you’ll be appreciated for what you are, rather than what you say you are.
Mal
The waitress approaches and he orders a coffee.
“Sir†she says, do you ride a motorbike when you aren’t driving your car?â€
“Yes†he says, “I
“I’m sorry, sir, but unfortunately we don’t serve bikers
“But I’m not on my bike, I’ve come in a car, I’m wearing a suit, not bike leathers!â€
“I’m sorry, Sir, but you bikers are all the same no matter how you dress it up and we don’t serve bikers. I’m quite happy to talk to you, just not serve :shock:
As her shift had just finished, she then walked out the cafe, put on her helmet and rode away on her own motorbike - don't you just love double standards!!
As someone who is bi (and it’s on my profile and has been for a very long time), I cannot understand when a couple advertise for a male, but won’t accept someone who may tick all the boxes, but is bi. Why? You are discriminating against that persons sexuality. He is bi, which means he may have sex with either or both of you. If the male of the couple is straight and it’s made clear they are looking for someone for the female of the couple, what is the problem? I can understand if he had too much/not enough hair, was too old/young, too tall/short, too fat/thin as these are physical elements of their makeup that cannot be changed, but his sexuality is relative to the moment, ie, if the other male doesn’t want male/male contact, then the bi guy for that period would be playing straight. It's even more odd when the female of the couple is bi as well and therefore should understand what bi means!
By playing straight, he is not denying his sexuality; he’s just complying with the situation honestly to all involved. Perhaps some of these couples may need to look a little closer to home regarding their prejudices and why that may affect the way some males react towards them and what they put/change on their profile. They may be perpetuating the problem.
As an aside, I found more females keen to meet/play with a bi guy than didn’t. So guys, be true to yourself and you’ll be appreciated for what you are, rather than what you say you are.
Mal
Mod
Quote by BIoke
Oh wow, very wise words and cool biker story thing - thanks dad
Sod off son - you forgot me birfday again!!! :moon:
Mal
Quote by Mal
A guy drives into the car park of a cafe. He steps out of his car, enters the bar wearing his business suit and tie and sits down at a table.
The waitress approaches and he orders a coffee.
“Sir†she says, do you ride a motorbike when you aren’t driving your car?â€
“Yes†he says, “I
“I’m sorry, sir, but unfortunately we don’t serve bikers
“But I’m not on my bike, I’ve come in a car, I’m wearing a suit, not bike leathers!â€
“I’m sorry, Sir, but you bikers are all the same no matter how you dress it up and we don’t serve bikers. I’m quite happy to talk to you, just not serve :shock:
As her shift had just finished, she then walked out the cafe, put on her helmet and rode away on her own motorbike - don't you just love double standards!!
As someone who is bi (and it’s on my profile and has been for a very long time), I cannot understand when a couple advertise for a male, but won’t accept someone who may tick all the boxes, but is bi. Why? You are discriminating against that persons sexuality. He is bi, which means he may have sex with either or both of you. If the male of the couple is straight and it’s made clear they are looking for someone for the female of the couple, what is the problem? I can understand if he had too much/not enough hair, was too old/young, too tall/short, too fat/thin as these are physical elements of their makeup that cannot be changed, but his sexuality is relative to the moment, ie, if the other male doesn’t want male/male contact, then the bi guy for that period would be playing straight. It's even more odd when the female of the couple is bi as well and therefore should understand what bi means!
By playing straight, he is not denying his sexuality; he’s just complying with the situation honestly to all involved. Perhaps some of these couples may need to look a little closer to home regarding their prejudices and why that may affect the way some males react towards them and what they put/change on their profile. They may be perpetuating the problem.
As an aside, I found more females keen to meet/play with a bi guy than didn’t. So guys, be true to yourself and you’ll be appreciated for what you are, rather than what you say you are.
Mal
I have NO problem with people being bi, although we choose not to meet bi guys, its just our choice. But I will state once again that my question was, and still is:
Why do STRAIGHT SINGLE GUYS say they are looking for BI SINGLE GUYS? To put it in simple terms, if a guy is str8, then surely that means he isnt interested in meeting with another guy for sex. If a str8 single guy wants to meet a bi single guy, that means he isnt str8, he is either bi or bi curious and nothing wrong with that at all.
A lot of couples will play with bi males even if the guy of the couple is str8, assuming that the bi guy can play with the female. And for us to choose not to meet with bi guys isnt us being discriminative, its us stating our preference. And its certainly not a matter of double standards.
I thought swinging was about having choice. I also thought it was openly encouraged for people to be honest on their profiles thats all I was saying.
I agree Mal, people should be true to themselves, and yes they will be far more appreciated for that.
