I sort of dont get this. If someone says they will not meet bi or bi-curious men because of their bi status even if they are quite happy to play straight and enjoy that for what is with luck just good sex. Do people who say not interested in bi/bi-curious men suddenly think that the bloke half of a couple is going tp get pounced and buggered without his consent, Or if its the woman half is she worried that half way through a bj or a shag the guys going to say "Cor blimey I wish you was a bloke Mrs" Don't be so ludicrous.
Its the same idea as having stuff on the interests bit surely? For example J my lovely partner is not into anal sex so do we discount and not meet everyone who likes anal sex? No of course not, we just let potential meets know that before hand. Its what we hear and see all the time when we read and listen to the statement "boundaries respected"
I classify myself as straight because over the years i've thought about the issue and i've found that the idea doesn't turn me off, because it doesn't. It just doesn't turn me on therein lying the reason i'm straight. I love watching as my Mrs gets penetrated by other blokes or gives bj's etc all of it but im not thinking i wish i was sucking that bloke dick or anything else. If I did i wouldn't deny myself the opportunity of getting involved and receiving the pleasure from that.
One day a situation migfht turn up when i do think that, it hasn't happened yet and i'm not dissapointed or thankful, it just aint happened. If it ever does Lost fella will adjust the way he perceives himself. And in all honesty i am a little envious of those who are bi it must be great having the extra option.
J is bi and thats because she can be with another woman and get horny because of that other woman. It took her a while to tell me because of the way she thought of things but the liberation for her was quite a thing. For her it must be great when she plays with couples when she fancies them both. Not an entirely regular occurance as fancying both of a couple is fairly rare. Great when it happens though a real treat for her. OK, and for me too i get to witness it.
As for this - to be honest the arrogant twat aint worth a reply
this is not just a straight guy hang up as the lady here dont wanna be suckin on a cock thats been up an arsehole thats all i gotta say
Is there not such a thing as hygiene or am i missing the point? I really cant think whats meant by this. the statement seems simple but the issues that lead rto this statement need clearing up.
I think the questions being asked at blood donor sessions seem to be quite inquisitive. Probably designed that way to discover more about the donor's experience as well. In that if someone can comprehend the question and actually reason from knowledge; then their experience may quite possibly have included contact with the people. This could make all the difference whether they accept the donor's blood I suppose.
Also, how much do we see of the relationship side to bisexuals? How much literature is readily available, which illustrates the nature of bisexual relationships.
It is a significant difference in relationships, which is often overlooked; as quite often people perceive it to be something just sexual. It isn't, as there are enough people living relationships involving more than two people.
So if a straight guy who plays with bi guys is straight.
A gay guy who plays with women must be gay.
A lesbian who plays with men must be a lesbian
Suppose that means that a straight guy who only plays with women must be bi or gay and a straight woman who only plays with men must also be bi or a lesbian.
Truth is unlike women men are gutless to admit their sexuality as its against their macho masculine image
Resurecting this old thread as the topic of blood donation came up and this is one of the more thoughtful threads on the topic.
If Adam, Brian and Clare were all virgins they could all give blood.
Clare gives Adam and Brian a BJ - they can still all give blood.
Adam gives Brian a BJ - then Adam and Brian can never ever give blood, and if Claire gives either of them a BJ then she can't for 12 months.
Even if wearing condoms.....
What a stupid rule! Does a guy giving a guy a BJ really increase the risk greater than a girl giving the same guy a BJ? Don't quite understand why the blood donation service have the rules this way. Do they assume guys are always unsafe and take risks that women do not?
This touches on a topic that i find very interesting and uniquely British - a requirement to pigeon hole people. As a nation we are quite uncomfortable unless we can circumstancially label one another. Think about it just how many of your friends do categorize one way or another or how you yourselves are categorized. It makes us feel cozy and comfortable to be able to attach a label to someone and when (like in this thread) the label is not that clear it really unsettles us.
In respect of these particular labels we both agree with each other that we are neither gay, nor bi but the word "straight" implies something altogether boring indeed. We'd rather be just... hot !!
Go with the flow and enjoy life guys - you are a long time dead.
I dont get the first part of this thread. Its simple realy
If a person is bisexual they engage in sexual activities with both male and female.
So
if a bi male wanted to play with a straight couple i would guess he was interested in the female half of it
if he wanted to play with a bi couple i would guess he fancied both of them
if he wants to play with a bi male then he can
whats the problem.
if the couple are bi phobic perhaps they should have this on their profile too.
As for changing sexuality on profiles - Well spotted but you know whos doing it and if you dont like it dont engage in conversation with them
LIVE AND LET LIVE
Think its more about respect than sexuality to be honest, if someone states on their profile that they do not wish to meet bisexual males or females for that matter, can't they just respect that and pass on by? same for bi couples who don't want to meet straight folks, why cant people just respect this and meet people who do?
Why does there have to be so much lack of respect and dishonesty? We understand that its not easy for males to openly admit they are bisexual, however what we don't understand is why do these said males answer an ad thats stating no bi or bi curious guys? And before someone says bisexuals can play straight, your correct, but if someones ask for no bisexuals then it shouldn't matter how they can play, they should respect just that and just move on to someone suitable.
Hi there,
Well i think if all us guys are truly honest we all have thought about sex of some kind with another guy!
I know i have and i have also fought this desire to prove to myself and others that im as straight as they come! lol
Its only been recently after finding out that the wife loves the idea of me with another guy that i finally came out of the closet to her! lol
I think it must be the male hormone for you, the thought of a bi guy sucking your cock may very well turn a lot of guys on, however the thought of having to blow the same guy makes them cringe as its just not the done thing! pml
I have considered this point long and hard for years and think that in the heat of passion it just wont matter who what where or when, but the moment its over and the fire dies down a little then sure, i reckon i may feel uncomfortable with whats just gone on! I suspect the same is for women, but as a guy i just cant speak for that.
Crossing the bi bridge in private i suppose is hard enough, but if its with your partner present then i suppose its even harder, especially if your just not sure what you partner will truly think!
Im looking forward to my first Bi encounter and while i know the wife wants to see me be blown i have the desire to be taken fully and even reciprocate fully, however i will be keeping one eye on the wife to see if its all smiles or a frown! lol
Not sure if this helps or not! lol
Have fun all the way.
Ian
All I commented on was that lots of single guys state they are str8 - then they go and tick the box that says they are looking for bi males!! - I really didnt think I was talking Martian!! Its all very simple I think. But its odd how many of them say they made a mistake ticking the box. I wasnt criticising bi males at all.
And I am certainly not bi-phobic (if that comment was aimed at me).
I have those boxes ticket in my profile, because any semblence of bisexuality in my brain is very pooly formed. I like female features, but the idea of being submissive like that is also a turn on. transexuals appeal, but I dont really know where I stand if I'm honest. I suppose Id like the opportunity to be there if I decided to go for it, but I wouldnt want to waste anyones time If I suddenly freaked out about it.
:lol: :lol: well some of you are,
