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I dont know about any of you members of this great site but dont you get pissed off by time wasters and whimps who promise everything and give fuck all !
After being in contact with some other members over the last few weeks who like to give the impression of being "swingers" , who ask for pics to be sent and say they want to meet and will send you more details of themselves, with there pics etc and guess what they never do !
Why do they bother to waste our time, do they just want the pics to perv over !
Some of them must have some collections of pics, What do they do, sit at home and wank themselves to death !!!
Dont know about any one else but,
The Barney is pissed off with them.
PS
And to the "Real swingers" that I have met up with, you lot were fantastic !!!!
i think you may be right about the wanking over pics bit lol.
ok ive got a ad on here and was getting rather p/off with ppl sending me e-mails who were completly out of my criteria, so sorry pic or not i wont reply.
anyhow, this bought me to thinking are there really so many men on her to the ratio of women that some will keep trying their luck no matter what?
I then went to puruse the women wanting men ads and read through a few, it comes to my suspisions as a female reading them that i cannot belive they are all written by women( gay or bi men wanting cock pics i reckon) .
i now understand why some many men send me corse e-mails with in your face cock pics and shouting out about their size, OK end of the myth from a female, size isnt everything yes a teeny weeny cock wouldnt be the best surprise but then if your experianced enough im sure there are other talents you have, and what does the size of your cock have to do with meeting for a drink??? ok i wont go on , thats my moan for the day.
just wanted to say , im not a time waster, if your full fill the criteria of my ad and are respectfull then i do and will reply, might take time , after all i have to wade through the time wasters lol
Guys, just be aware that alot (most) of the content (eg pictures, supposed true stroies etc) on porn and dating websites are gained from these spoff ads, for example, ad appears from a lady looking for bloke, you send the pictures she asks for with description etc and low and behold you appear in some shape or form earning money for the scam operators of porn and or dating sites.
Motto is, if it looks too good (or dodgy) to be true, then it probably is! you only have yourself or your hormones to blame, you chose.
Take care biggrin
And I thought it was just me that got loads of email from guys who clearly havnt read or understood my clerly stipulated criteria!! If I had wanted an 18 year old would I have taken the time and trouble to put 30 - 50, (just one example)!!!
I have wondered if all the men reading the womens ads are illiterate!!
Does anyone know about house prices in Cornwall?? wink
kinky lizard
redface flattered and depressed, yes the prices in cornwall are way to high, and so only ppl who are rich and old come here to die, then forget why they came.
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I agree with you Barney... I've seen loads of adds which have sed "we want genuine people" who have then proved to be less than genuine themselves. I'm totaly pee'd off with what really is turning out to be a place for couples and single females. If you are single male (or seem to be) forget it.
The chatroom is worse (lol) than the adds! There, if you ask several times to chat to someone and get ignored so you pm incase they missed it you then get flamed. How about, along with the no pm'ing without asking rule is an "if someone asks, bloody well respond even if it's no thanks" rule.
As for adds... I'd not waste your time Barney... I'd say it is easier to meet someone in Tesco's than on the Net lol
oooh somebody's a little there :rose:
Whether it's clubs, online, magazines like Desire, Fever Parties, private parties etc - the Single Male has a hard time on the Swinging Scene.
That fact has to be simply accepted and not complained about.
There's way too many of us - while at the same time a Single Male is not what is sought by most swingers.
We are 'spare parts' - just as in life in general, woman perceive us as 'spare parts' and barely useful or necessary wink
:grin: rotflmao :grin:
rolleyes hardly lol but how typical a reply to what is a true statement lol
Quote by CumDancing
I agree with you Barney... I've seen loads of adds which have sed "we want genuine people" who have then proved to be less than genuine themselves. I'm totaly pee'd off with what really is turning out to be a place for couples and single females. If you are single male (or seem to be) forget it.
The chatroom is worse (lol) than the adds! There, if you ask several times to chat to someone and get ignored so you pm incase they missed it you then get flamed. How about, along with the no pm'ing without asking rule is an "if someone asks, bloody well respond even if it's no thanks" rule.
As for adds... I'd not waste your time Barney... I'd say it is easier to meet someone in Tesco's than on the Net lol

I think this is where the difficulty arises though. I asked for genuine people because I was sick of people just picture hunting, or chatting for a while and then disappearing off the face of the earth.
I imagine that most, if not all 200 of those men expected that they would get to meet me, or at least chat with me, and I did originally try to reply to every email, but when you receive such a deluge it quickly becomes an impossible task. I resorted to an auto reply in the end, and I'm sure there are an awful lot of disgruntled men sitting there thinking "genuine replies only? Humph, SHE wasnt so genuine was she?"
I AM genuine, but this at the same time means I'm not superhuman, and had to make choices. So a lot of men didnt get a reply in the end. If anyone reading this is one of those that I didnt reply to, sorry, but this is why.
:angel:
I think the phrase is supply and to get disheartened I foot forward and flipa
Ahhh thats better
lol ManAlive... we are what we want to be. smile I like coming here for the forum alone... and one or 2 people who I chat to. I'd like to chat to more but that's the issue, if it appears you are a single male (and I say appears coz I've never stated that) most don't even want to chat lol. What I get pee'd off about is that this kind of site could be so much more if only those who used it, were genuine. To many think it's all a game and can shut down the PC and it doesn't matter anymore.
I like the bit about posting pics on some porn site (lol) I can't see mine ever making it lol.
Hi Angel,
I can understand that... however, along with posting an add I would say comes the burden of replying to those who MEET the requirements laid down in the add. Would you not agree?
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you send the pictures she asks for with description etc and low and behold you appear in some shape or form earning money for the scam operators of porn and or dating sites.

If anyone comes across my pictures on a dating site, be sure to let me know before you run away screaming. Thanks. lol
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I'm now in contact with only one of the 200 "applicants", and he is one of the 20somethings. None of the rest matched up somehow - and I'm still smiling 5 days later ;)
:angel:

That's funny, so is he...
awwwwwhhhhh :rose: happy to hear it works
CumDancing and Angel Chat have above picked up on something that I have been thinking about. Has the word "genuine" become debased? At least in this context.
Is it becoming like the way "honest" or even "honest, guv" gets tacked onto the end of sentences. As soon as you hear that nowadays, would you not start being suspicious if you weren't before?
I wonder if it has got to the stage where using the word might even be counter productive. Especially if you realise that what is genuine is not well defined and different people will have different ideas of what it means. So if you ask for genuine replies only, what happens? Someone who is not genuine would of course take no notice, and yet someone who was completely genuine and extremely thoughtful and considerate might be sat there thinking "am I what they mean by genuine?"
What do you all reckon - is this a word that been over used and lost its credibility?
Red Baron
I was out for dinner with a well known musician a couple of weeks back.
I'm used to the attention he gets when we are out, but I forgot to mention it to my date. We went to eat in a restaurant and from the moment we walked in, eyes were on him/us. After a while the table next to us passed a menu over and asked if he would sign it, to which he refused saying "at least let us finish our meal." The guy got arsey so eventually my friend gave in and said "if it means that much to you, you'll wait" and then turned to us an apologised to us for the unwelcome attention.
My date leant over and said "now you know what it's like to be a woman."
He said "very true, but exchange tits and a fanny for money and fame, the results much the same don't you think?"
She said "you chose fame, and while I don't regret being a Woman, I didn't choose to be one."
Got you there! I said lol
Now I doubt there's a woman here who'd disagree with what she said. So next time you place an add (M or F) just don't forget, you are choosing fame and all that comes with it. :P
RB... how about "to be honest" which you just know isn't going to be the case lol
Quote by CumDancing
Hi Angel,
I can understand that... however, along with posting an add I would say comes the burden of replying to those who MEET the requirements laid down in the add. Would you not agree?

Yes I do agree, and in fairness, I think I did reply to those (with the exception of the replies that were limited to "try me babe" or "have a look at my pic, wouldnt you love to suck on that" and the like)
I'm sure I'm not alone in having had far more replies that turned me off totally, and if I had replied to every single one, I'm sure I'd still be typing out emails now.
Please don't view this as just a complaint, because it isn't. I just think that being a single woman on a site like this gives a girl the chance to be choosy, and I certainly don't have a problem with THAT! worship
Hi All
Glad to hear that Im not the only one out there who feels the same as myself.
All your comments are welcomed.
fem 4 ,Pity your at the other end of the country from me.
I live out in the " sticks" and the nearest large town is 80 miles away, in fact Belfast is
closer, so getting together with other members can be a great problem.
So a web site like this seemed like a good idea to contact others, as I said before I have met up with the " genuine honest swingers " and had great times, and still do.
But I wish these other morons who put ads on the site would leave the real people alone and go and play there little games somewere else !!
still being a grumpy bear, but getting better !
The Barney
*smiles* I think placing an add as a single woman is brave!!! Sure wouldn't take away the plus side from you! Sounds like you found what you were looking for, and that is what this is really all about. Well done for making it work, and tuff Sh*T to those who sent emails with the comments quoted, because they lost out, not you! xxx
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RB... how about "to be honest" which you just know isn't going to be the case lol

Ah, yes, isn't this how most politicians start a sentence?
Then there's newspapers, where "in depth" reporting means superficial.
Red Baron
This thread has earned the official " CHILL OUT AND DONT TAKE IT ALL SO SERIOUSLY" stamp from us .
ahhh.. *points up the thread to the bit where it says about shutting the pc down and it doesn't matter coz it's not real* see we got it all wrong peeps.. we've been taking meeting up with people and place adds "so seriously" and forgetting that SH is for winding each other up. To all those who've placed adds and sorted out meets which have then failed to turn up... you now know why! You were taking it all so seriously!! lol :lol:
"stop that, it's silly! You're not even a real woman!" much better quote!
Try that again , but post it mostly in English if possible , and slowly so we can understand hehehe :shock:
smackbottom shame on you cum dancing, i do hope the not a real womanwasnt directed at me rolleyes
surely i proved im real after jacking on the phone to you for over 2 hours lol