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Am I allowed to moan on here? I'm going to anyway. I am completely inexperienced in this scene so maybe overreacting but here goes...
After a few months on here I have developed some pet hates that quite frankly spoil the experience.
1. Men pretending to be in a couple
2. People who don't read and take in profiles, relates to the above...
3. Pushy people
I kind of get what it feels like to be a woman on sites like this and that's not because I like to dress up...
Is the block button or a really blunt profile the only solution? I don't like being really blunt in my profile cos I think it comes across as aggressive which I don't want.
Pinkiee
Think you are allowed to moan on here, everybody else does including us, so fill ya boots!
I don't think you are the first to moan about these things either and you won't be the last. We used to be very polite to people who quite clearly had not read our profile or were pushy but now we ignore them and if they don't get the message we do block them. Especially the messages that are quite clearly copy and pasted and have been sent to dozens of other people.
Strange, if these people actually tried to send a message with a comment about something on your profile, you might be interested but I suppose it is hard for them to concentrate when they have there cock in one hand whilst trying to type with the other.
We love a bit of banter, a bit of flirting but"I live near you, want to meet?" strangely doesn't do it for us. We have made our photo's private now and this does seem to have reduced the one liners, the rude and the copy and paste lot, shame really as we liked them for all to see but for now we only send them to people we have chatted too and friends.
Ooooh you pair sound cool
I'd like to know more…
I Really like your profiles, why don't you drop by and have a look at mine. Let me know what you think.
*wink*
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Am I allowed to moan on here? I'm going to anyway. I am completely inexperienced in this scene so maybe overreacting but here goes...
After a few months on here I have developed some pet hates that quite frankly spoil the experience.
1. Men pretending to be in a couple
2. People who don't read and take in profiles, relates to the above...
3. Pushy people
I kind of get what it feels like to be a woman on sites like this and that's not because I like to dress up...
Is the block button or a really blunt profile the only solution? I don't like being really blunt in my profile cos I think it comes across as aggressive which I don't want.
Pinkiee

I guess we all have our pet hates, all of the above used to annoy me at first but now i just shrug it off and smile and use my block button accordingly ;)
There's someone on here for everyone I reckon, and they usually appear when you least expect it ;)
Have fun and Happy Swinging :swingingchair:
Toots...there's an offer that's difficult to resist :-p
Minikat...I think I'll just have to use the block button. People who appear not genuine and bombarding you with whispers, while you are actually trying to chat to someone who does appear genuine is a big pain. Mind knowing me I'll end up with no one to chat to at all haha.
Just put a load of tosh in your profile, soon cuts down on the winks, emails and whispers
Well it worked for me biggrin
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Toots...there's an offer that's difficult to resist :-p
Minikat...I think I'll just have to use the block button. People who appear not genuine and bombarding you with whispers, while you are actually trying to chat to someone who does appear genuine is a big pain. Mind knowing me I'll end up with no one to chat to at all haha.

I think Kat holds the SH record for blocking people lol
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Toots...there's an offer that's difficult to resist :-p
Minikat...I think I'll just have to use the block button. People who appear not genuine and bombarding you with whispers, while you are actually trying to chat to someone who does appear genuine is a big pain. Mind knowing me I'll end up with no one to chat to at all haha.

I think Kat holds the SH record for blocking people lol
No I don't I do believe thats the GUfun couple ;)