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Waiting to hear back from ladies I met at a normal party

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On Monday morning I email 2 ladies whom I met a normal party on Friday night. I haven't heard back yet. I know, learn to accept rejection, or maybe there just slow on email.
Apologies for long post:
Was at the party on Friday night. I'm 34.
1. Got talking to a hot lady (40's) who caught my eye. She gave me some good kino by
brusing her foot/leg up against mine. I got her email address (took a little effort- gave her
pen and paper). When I clarified address later (she insitited it was
) she didn't seem that interested. Later saw another guy getting
on well with her. I'll send her an email on Mondy morning, following tips on this forum. I
wasn't drunk but perhaps if I'd had less to drink I'd have 'performed better' at e.g affirming
values.
2. Another lady. Spoke to her and her friend in one spot in the middle of the garden. Her
friend a bit of an obstacle. Later I spoke to them somewhere else, with me and her sat
next to oneanother on a low wall by house door.
Good body language. Asked her for her email address and she wrote down her personal
and work email addresses.
3. Met her through her friend whom I'd spoken to at a party 3 weeks ago.
I tried to get her email address or no. but no luck. HOWEVER the 3 of us shared a taxi
home. She mentioned the local salsa class that she goes to and suggested I go along. I of
course said yes.
Strange aside- taxi passed Rios nudist sauna. The ladies giggled and said they'd been
there. I bullshitted complete innocence (I've been there and to proper sex clubs, which
this one isn't). I didn't want to get sleazy sojust hinted that I'd heard of it.
I got off cab first- gave me 1/3 (her suggestion), to her and confirmed I'd see her
Thursday night at the Salsa lessons. I've been to a few salsa lessons and while not
completely useless am still noticeably worse than average- another lady dancing near me
at party said "Are you sure of your sexuality''.
At the party the lady I'm going to the salsa lessons said I had good rythym and could sing.
And she said she'd only had one drink !
I actually read that all the way to the end...
Quote by Kiss_Me
I actually read that all the way to the end...

you and me both
and the question is?
Quote by Kiss_Me
I actually read that all the way to the end...

Me too, but I still don't see the point of it. Have I missed something?
Quote by Kiss_Me
I actually read that all the way to the end...

So have I twice now but it doesn't make any sense at all to me confused
Am I missing something because i do have my blonde moments redface
Quote by sheddy
I actually read that all the way to the end...

So have I twice now but it doesn't make any sense at all to me confused
Am I missing something because i do have my blonde moments redface
I don't think we are missing anything! Maybe it's a riddle? Or just a complete load of b*ll*cks?
I have no idea!
:giggle:
And me :shock:
Still trying to get the point of the post or the question behind it dunno
Shaz x
Ok, a long winded post I admit.
Basically, what should I do ?.
How long to wait before admiting defeat? Best to just ask out straight, rather than by email
later?
Fingers crossed for Salsa class with 3rd lady.
wink
I read it backwards at High speed and it made sense to me lol
:dry:
Phredd
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting dunno
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Ok, a long winded post I admit.
Basically, what should I do ?.
How long to wait before admiting defeat? Best to just ask out straight, rather than by email
later?
Fingers crossed for Salsa class with 3rd lady.

I think they're taking the piss - give up now before you completely humiliate yourself.
I was more concerned about the 1st lady brusing her leg! Sounds painful!
(Just kidding around! lol)
Quote by Freckledbird
I think they're taking the piss - give up now before you completely humiliate yourself.

Concise straight to the point and no punches pulled :thumbup: lol
rolleyes :roll:
Call me old fashioned but is emailing the way to go in dating these days?
If you're tongue tied how about semaphore? It'll get you noticed at parties. lol
Quote by Dollyminx
Call me old fashioned but is emailing the way to go in dating these days?
If you're tongue tied how about semaphore? It'll get you noticed at parties. lol

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Classic!
Quote by Kiss_Me
I actually read that all the way to the end...

I didnt.. confused
Thats 3 minutes I'll never get back
Quote by Happy Cats
Thats 3 minutes I'll never get back

hell it took me 4 mins....
Quote by Happy Cats
Thats 3 minutes I'll never get back

more now :doh:
or my usual responce when i don`t understand something WTF? dunno
Quote by Steve_Mids
I actually read that all the way to the end...

I didnt.. confused
That's because you're older and (and maybe wiser) than me! :P
I'm still learning!
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Thats 3 minutes I'll never get back

hell it took me 4 mins....
blink
You read it twice?
De_sade
Rather sadly, he only read the first paragraph
lol
Quote by Happy Cats
Thats 3 minutes I'll never get back

hell it took me 4 mins....
blink
You read it twice?
De_sade
Rather sadly, he only read the first paragraph
lol
its true...after that i lost the will to live......
Quote by sexkittenhfx
what a friendly reception.... rolleyes

what ...lost your sense of humour....just having abit of fun....i'm sure he'll see the funny side of it!
Quote by da69ve
what a friendly reception.... rolleyes

what ...lost your sense of humour....just having abit of fun....i'm sure he'll see the funny side of it!
speaking as someone who doesnt know me from adam, you dont know if i had one in the first place so flipa
Quote by sexkittenhfx
what a friendly reception.... rolleyes

what ...lost your sense of humour....just having abit of fun....i'm sure he'll see the funny side of it!
speaking as someone who doesnt know me from adam, you dont know if i had one in the first place so flipa
well all i can offer you then is this! :moon:
Can't wait for the next installment.
Dan Brown eat your heart out...
fetching popcorn
rolleyes
Quote by sexkittenhfx
what a friendly reception.... rolleyes

Better than the one he got for his first post:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/116521.html#116521
Do you have constructive advice for him Sexkitten?
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.