I find it far more erotic watching same sex couples together than mixed, be it MM, FF, MMF, FFM etc. This is why I feel I'm bi-curious, I don't know if I'd enjoy it the same if I was part of the action.
There's just this intensity and understanding you pick up on watching same sex couples, they know what feels good and how to go about it because they're the same. You don't often see that kind of chemistry with MF couples the same way.
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Master of Sex
Quote by Ben_welshminx
This one looks good from the abstratc but I no longer have academic online library access. Does anybody else have such access and could precis the findings?
Sexual fantasy
H Leitenberg, K Henning - Psychological Bulletin, 1995 -
This article reviews the research literature on sexual fantasy, a central aspect of human sexual behavior. Topics include (a) gender similarities and differences in the incidence, frequency, and content of sexual fantasies
what the fuck are you talking about ?
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
i think nola makes a good point,i like men, i like cocks,watching two men together is watching something i find erotic doubled.
However to go back to the op ( and great first thread vamp)the mmf thing with people who are bi is so good because it is sex without hangups,and isnt that the best sex?
I dont have a hangup, just not Bi thats all. Have done MMF more than once without any worries. Interesting, are we now implying that straight people have hang ups?
i dont imply,thats too subtle for me.
i simply believe good sex turns into great sex when everyone is interested in the maximum pleasure from the experience,i too have had fab mmf and mff when there has been no interaction between the same sex people ,but,and this is simply a comment on my experiences,nothing more,it cannot compare with sex when all hands and mouths are shared,when there are no boundaries in the pursuit of pleasure.
I always seek maximum pleasure, would have thought everyone always does. Also I wouldn't call being straight a boundary just a natural selection. Before anyone kicks off I'm not calling bi's or gays unnatural just other natural selections
Interesting to see that having no limitations also has limitation in not being able to enjoy the best sex from non bi people.
Orgasminator
Quote by BIoke
Just for you vamps - an excerpt from In Praise of Male on Male Sex.
A personal view of the erotic by Teresa West
........see actual post...
Oh my... all hail Teresa (if you like this kinda thing) ;) Not sure about the 'sticky gift' thing though. Were they sharing toffee's or something?
LOVE it
Orgasminator
Hmmm I messed up on the quote thing there too. Ah well
Quote by vampanya
Just for you vamps - an excerpt from In Praise of Male on Male Sex.
A personal view of the erotic by Teresa West
........see actual post...
Oh my
LOVE it
Like that?
if you get that wobbly thinking about it.....perhaps I should go bi?
Sex God
Quote by Kaznkev
i think nola makes a good point,i like men, i like cocks,watching two men together is watching something i find erotic doubled.
However to go back to the op ( and great first thread vamp)the mmf thing with people who are bi is so good because it is sex without hangups,and isnt that the best sex?
I dont have a hangup, just not Bi thats all. Have done MMF more than once without any worries. Interesting, are we now implying that straight people have hang ups?
i dont imply,thats too subtle for me.
i simply believe good sex turns into great sex when everyone is interested in the maximum pleasure from the experience,i too have had fab mmf and mff when there has been no interaction between the same sex people ,but,and this is simply a comment on my experiences,nothing more,it cannot compare with sex when all hands and mouths are shared,when there are no boundaries in the pursuit of pleasure.
I always seek maximum pleasure, would have thought everyone always does. Also I wouldn't call being straight a boundary just a natural selection. Before anyone kicks off I'm not calling bi's or gays unnatural just other natural selections
Interesting to see that having no limitations also has limitation in not being able to enjoy the best sex from non bi people.
you seem to be looking for dispute when i have made very clear that this is purely personal do you want me to say,that i am glad i am pansexual as i believe it opens me up to more experiences?That i believe this for me is better than being straight?
and i do not know where you get the idea every one gets maximum pleasure from sex from, i think the word vanilla was invented for a reason.
there are plenty of people out there for whom sex is a chore,who do not enjoy it for a variety of reasons,
i did not say i could not enjoy sex with non bi people, i said and stand by the fact that in an mmf situation i get far more pleasure from the fact that we all leap in and enjoy each as you say you have never done this then you are not really qualified to comment are you?
I was in a ubberly odd place last night, best ignore me. Too much alcohol not enough sleep. Still though you come out with some odd statements.
Quote by Kaznkev
and i do not know where you get the idea every one gets maximum pleasure from sex from, i think the word vanilla was invented for a reason.
So Vanillas dont get maximum pleasure from sex? Dont get that. What do you have to be to get maximum pleasure from sex a pan sexual swinger? This seems to be what you are saying. Some people dont want to be swingers and are not born pan sexual but they get the most from there sex lives. They just want different things to us.
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This is one of my fantasies as a gay man, meeting a couple where the guy is bi, and where his female partner would enjoy watching me fuck him. I'm open to offers!
Oh there's loads of them mate, it's spring and they are all gagging for it!
Try mr kents first and work up to the decent ones after him - he's a bit of a c**t like but loves a bit of 'how's your father!' TIP: Go in via his mrs as he'll probably deny it otherwise :rascal:
Sex God
I've never watched to bi guys together so don't think I can comment
