I was having a conversation with a friend earlier about him exploring his bi side and how much it turned his good lady on to see him.
I think 2 men being sensual is highly erotic and I know it would turn me on no end too but Goods not even slightly curious. But it made me wonder, is it as much a turn on for other women to see their partner with another man being sensual and erotic as it seems to be for most men to see their women with another woman?
Whilst this is realIy a thread for women to reply to, I cannot help but think that the message also speaks for itself, to an extent - everyone is different in their interests.
Plim
i love watching 2 guys together it ia a particular turn on for me in fact if watching porn i particularly like gay porn but then that was the first porn i ever saw so wether it stems from that i don't know
Its not really a question about gay porn, more about an MMF situation being more ... shall I say thorough. lol
Whenever I ask female friends about this (and in my xp its quite a common turn on) they either tell me its just like a bloke watching two women or they cite the influence of gay porn. Well Ive never really understood why I enjoy watching women with women so much so Id be fascinated by the perspective of women who are into watching men with men.
On the subject of exploitation I don't think somebody choosing to share any aspect of their sexuality is exploitation.
And its sad that your most welcome and interesting first post was hijacked. Dont let it put you off, if we get enough civil postings going I am hopeful the general tone of the forums will improve.
Nope does not float my boat.. could not think of anything worse than seeing 2 blokes together .... :twisted:
but if thats ya fing hey ho...
Tweeky can you point me in the direction of decent sexual fantasy reseach its a subject that fascinates me.
This one looks good from the abstratc but I no longer have academic online library access. Does anybody else have such access and could precis the findings?
Sexual fantasy
H Leitenberg, K Henning - Psychological Bulletin, 1995 -
This article reviews the research literature on sexual fantasy, a central aspect of human sexual behavior. Topics include (a) gender similarities and differences in the incidence, frequency, and content of sexual fantasies
I`ve seen gay porn before and quite liked the look of it but in my relationship its not something I`d be asking of BMW and I can`t say its ever been on my to do list to have a MMF anyway wether the guys are bi or strait.
So I suppose its a no from me
there must be those who find that 2 bi guys cause them to have a different response to 2 gay guys.
Doesn't turn A_tre my partner on and to be honest the idea of watch two women doesn't do much for me either.
Two thoughts that maybe have some relevance.
Some of my lesbian friends tell me that what passes for lesbianism in mainstream porn is not at all similar to what they do.
Some of my female friends tell me that what they would like to see men do is not the same as you might see in gay porn.
Maybe these thoughts don't have any relevance.
I tend to think that people think and behave on spectrums, but porn and fantasies are sold in categories.
....and fmf, that can be fun too.
Just for you vamps - an excerpt from In Praise of Male on Male Sex.
A personal view of the erotic by Teresa West
Images of aroused males are very much a turn-on, far more exciting to me as a healthy female than a flaccid, limp dick laying idly against a hairy thigh. The excitement such images raise in me increases by miles if the shaft and head are hard and glistening with oil and the head is circumcised. Better still if the balls and groin are shaved smooth and the testicles tight and neat (rather than hanging loosely in a giant sack). I find myslef easily able to fantasise about going down on such a shaft, or having it buried deep inside one of my oricies. But if the shaft in question is being held in the fist of another guy, his hand pumping, his free hand cupping the testicles, his tongue down his partner's throat, then I am transported to a new level of sexual arousal and excitement. What a delight to watch two young ripe males, totally naked, covered in oil, their tanned athletic bodies glistening and hot, writhing over one another, their cocks hard and rampant, their balls round and tight. Oh to watch those huge hands fondle, grope, claw and grasp, to watch strong mouths find equally strong lips, their tongues sharing both taste and desire in equal measure. To watch wide-eyed as one guy lowers his head to take the other in his mouth, the throbbing shaft disappearing down his throat. To see their eyes close in unison as they experience such desire as only two men loving each other know how to achieve. To watch the pleasure returned as each guy orally enjoys the other before one of them raises his firm round cheeks in the air, on his hands and knees, and the other guy takes him from behind, pushing into his arse, his face fixed in a smile of rapture as he plunges into his equally happy partner.
Their lovemaking is hot, fast and furious, each savouring the sensations; the one from fucking, the other from being fucked, his hands first pulling his cheeks wide apart for ease of access to his pleasure tunnel, then slowly releasing them to form a tight, snug fit around his lover's glistening red girth, before his hands busy themselves beneath him, one of them cupping his lover's balls, spurring him on to greater effort, the other gripping his own throbbing shaft as he jerks off to the same swift rhythm of his male lover.
And then to watch as they switch positions and the whole act is performed again, the fucker becoming the fucked. the fucked, the fucker. Oh what bliss to see that shining pole disappear between smooth, blemish free buttocks as they couple again. But oh, what awe and wonder to see them finally straddle one another in the classic 'soixant-neuf' an instant before both their beautiful cocks explode, their hot white come splashing down over their lover's lips and face. Mouths opened wide to receive the other's sticky gift, before sucking the shaft dry.
Werthers
Im old-fashioned
lp
...and apparently offered by your grandfather, but we wont go into that!
lp
Its my first one and I like it! So there! 
I just Googled top ten male/female sexual fantasy. They were pretty much on crappy websites, I only need to check the female side really I already knew that female on female is always in the top 3 for men. 
... all hail Teresa (if you like this kinda thing) ;) Not sure about the 'sticky gift' thing though. Were they sharing toffee's or something? 
