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We don''t need to talk, do we?

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I do a lot of things with the browse of a website and the stroke of a key, that would previousely have required me to leave the house and interact with another human. I order my groceries, buy all sorts of goods, arrange finances and services and whilst I don't, some folk generate an income from within the confines of their own home.
With the need to leave our homes reducing, does that lead to a reduction in social skills? Sure we can communicate faster and with more options than before, but most of that is done remotely, we don't see the body language, the facial expression, the tone in a voice, emotions that we rely on to understand a meaning, some of that'll change with improved video calling etc, but is it the same?
Is there already a reduction in our ability to interact as the need diminishes. Is there a danger that a reduction in social skills, if there is one, will increase and accelerate leading us to retreat further into our hi tech caves, thereby exasperating things further, or do we still have, and will have in X amount of years time, enough interaction to more or less chug on as we do now?
I like not needing to talk, being anti social an' all.
Since Sunday afternoon I have not been outside. Yet, I have been productive, I have done about 10 hours work, and am working today. I have been doing my OU courses via online forums, and I have ordered some shoppping.
I don't even need to go out to exercise as I have a Wii Fit!
Seriously, if I could not work at home some days I would have to call in sick. As it is, with the wonders of t'internet and remote access I don't have to be unproductive and ring in sick, and I actually get more work done! So there is an upside to being anti social!
and there is always an advantage in being able to work from the bathtub as I'm doing right now..lol
but I do feel the need for confrontation and debate..be it online or in person..and sometimes online just doesn't cut it
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:
Quote by warwick
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

Ye Gods - this place is turning into 'All Our Yesterdays'.
Good to see three 'old' class acts on this thread already!!
I don't think it changes the social skills of those who have already formed them - in fact I'd go so far as to say that this place has improved mine.
What I worry about is people who have not yet had a chance to develop social skills. I think the insulation could seriously inhibit that and with dire consequences too.
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Quote by warwick
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

Fooking ell! they let you out on some sort of day release programme or summint.
Quote by davej
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

Fooking ell! they let you out on some sort of day release programme or summint.
Ditto!!! confused :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol:
Nice to see ya Dave! :thumbup: :thumbup:
Quote by Sgt Bilko
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

Fooking ell! they let you out on some sort of day release programme or summint.
Ditto!!! confused :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol:
Nice to see ya Dave! :thumbup: :thumbup:

Oooo and you! smile
Quote by Freckledbird
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

Fooking ell! they let you out on some sort of day release programme or summint.
Ditto!!! confused :? :? :? lol :lol: :lol:
Nice to see ya Dave! :thumbup: :thumbup:

Oooo and you! smile
oooooo and in they come!
:beer:
Should I ask a trained nurse to pop in to keep an eye on all the old timers?
Just to be on the safe side?
bolt
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Should I ask a trained nurse to pop in to keep an eye on all the old timers?
Just to be on the safe side?
bolt

Old timers is about right, I've met most of em in person, give them a comfy Chesterfield sofa, a tea pot and some custard creams and they won't leave. They are good company if you can set aside the ever present odour of TCP.
Quote by warwick
me can still talk just about rolleyes
whats a real person like i cant remember :shock:

OMG --- there's an avatar I haven't seen in a long time!!!!!
See you wouldn't say that in the real world!!!
Quote by davej
Should I ask a trained nurse to pop in to keep an eye on all the old timers?
Just to be on the safe side?
bolt

Old timers is about right,
Cheeky Sod evil
give them a comfy Chesterfield sofa, a tea pot and some custard creams and they won't leave.
Oooooooo, Biscuits! :lickface:
wot?
lp
Did someone say tea and buiscuits
woohoo count me in
Been busy making my escape fom the institute for the terminally bewildered by the way mr j :shock:
I do get to talk to people on occasions, and mostly its quite an enjoyable thing to do, or it might just be a humdrum feel you out kind of chat. However far to often it's just so people can let loose some kind of complaint. That I don't enjoy much.
Although folk in the north are a lot more friendly a lot sooner, Londoners take some time to cultivate. With often several attempts to restart associations needed.
Now if someone could make "Cybersex" as good as or better than the real thing we'd never see a lot of people ever again... rolleyes
Well blow me Bluexxx and Warwick what's the world coming to..
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Now if someone could make "Cybersex" as good as or better than the real thing we'd never see a lot of people ever again... rolleyes

Really no substitute for the real thing though :twisted:
Quote by JQL
Well blow me Bluexxx and Warwick what's the world coming to..

Dunno if your allowed to ask on behalf of others, but there's nowt wrong with the direct approach. I'd brush up yer profile, add a pic blah blah blah, etc, etc, it will greatly increase your chances.
I started work from home before I had internet access and used to work very long hours 7 days a week.
It eroded the time I spent with my friends and took away the time I used to spend doing am dram and the like.
Then when I got the internet another world opened up.. of knowledge and then friends Reunited and later Facebook came along and enabled me to reconnect with people I had lost touch with years ago and I seem to have come full circle.
I haven't lost my social skills but I can see how easy it would be if you didn't work at it enough wink
The novel "Blind Faith" by Ben Elton sums up this thread nicely and could become oh so true! biggrin