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Weight Loss Group, week 1

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“Harvey” Musketeer here with my weight loss report, week 1. Now some people are settling into this and so rather than pick on people I thought I’d limit myself to a bit of encouragement and some warnings of future discipline.
smackbottom
This is not a competition, but I will say that macca100 came tops with a 6 lb loss! I think maybe that might be too much for healthy living and perhaps settling to a couple would be better, but well done you!!
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
All the people who lost between 3 and 5 lbs I think did really well, these were me, celticq, corriefem, lil_Bunny, lil_miz_naughty, Marya, Mrs Cov, Sarflondoner, steve-teeside, Stupot, SurreyBloke, sussex2 (Mrs), and WibblyWobbly. Big pat on back and well done.
:smug: :smug: :smug: :smug: :smug:
Now my experience of the first week of a serious diet is that most people do rather well. We’re keen, taking that extra exercise, and eating less so there’s less to weigh! So all those people who lost just 1 or 2 lbs, well done but COULD TRY HARDER. I know this is a bit unfair, some of us have less to lose, so no names this week. I shall be looking forward to your results next Monday WHEN THE TRUTH WILL BE TOLD.
Finally there’s the name and shame list. These are the people who haven’t even started by sending their weights in: tigersgobounce69, se7endriver, lucyslovely, JGL, jah_2uk, dazandlou (lou), and Calista. I will assume if you don’t write to me that you’re not going to start. Please EVERYONE, pm them with words of encouragement. I will delete you if nothing heard this week. kiss :kiss:
The whole point is, we’re each doing our own thing and hopefully bringing to each other the support and FEAR of having to tell the truth, so anyone who doesn’t care or doesn’t start is going make that more difficult and will have to be given the shove.
We’re going to ACHIEVE aren’t we? Now it's not realistic and not good to go on losing at a fast rate, and if it's too painful we'll give up. So lets agree a modest target, 2 lbs minimum this week, OK? confused: ... and if you're not taking a little extra exercise remember don't take the lift, and do a short power walk every day.
E&OE (I mean if I've libeled anyone or left anyone out I'll deliver an immediate groveling apology).
Harvey Musketeer.
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Finally there’s the name and shame list. These are the people who haven’t even started by sending their weights in: tigersgobounce69, se7endriver, lucyslovely, JGL, jah_2uk, dazandlou (lou), and Calista. I will assume if you don’t write to me that you’re not going to start. Please EVERYONE, pm them with words of encouragement. I will delete you if nothing heard this week. kiss :kiss:

Please don't pm me with words of encouragement. I've had the flu, a bereavement and a shedload of crap this last week I don't need this too.
I will start but it pointless this week sad because I'm a) hardly eating anyway and b) comfort food when I am :(
C x
CALISTA sorry to hear your haveing a bad time of it xxxxx
MUSKETEER your doing a great job and i promise to be a good girl this week
have lots of excersise planned for tommorrow
thanks again love peppsxxxxxxx
come on gang you can do it lol
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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So all those people who lost just 1 or 2 lbs, well done but COULD TRY HARDER. I know this is a bit unfair, some of us have less to lose, so no names this week. I shall be looking forward to your results next Monday WHEN THE TRUTH WILL BE TOLD.

oi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
have this smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
1 or 2lbs is a healthy loss
Kitty - (who was in the naughty, i must try harder, group this week!)
:rascal:
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1 or 2lbs is a healthy loss

I agree, I hope I didn't give too much of the opposite impression. It's very difficult to write for everyone and I was reflecting in part the bits you do not know, which is the way the losses are reported to me. When the writer says I did this and did that so I only lost a pound but hope to do better, you know they didn't try hard, and so do they. (I might even beg to suggest that one or two didn't see the scale move but wanted to show promise - it's a human frailty).
Marmalaid, for example, has so little to lose that it can't apply to him, but many others like myself who are, say, two stone or more overweight, could have lost more than 1 or 2 pounds in the first week. After that a pound or two would be fine. I need to lose 1lb 10 oz a week to hit my target.
The other thing is that there are going to be plateaus, weeks when we don't lose weight at all. At least this has always happened to me in the past. I take it to mean my body is readjusting, which is probably bunkum, but certainly there are times when nothing seems to happen, so making a bit of hay at the beginning is not a bad thing.
Harvey Musketeer
LATE NEWS FROM THE FRONT LINE
A late weigh-in, redstilletto, has just turned in a top flight first weeks loss right near the top of the leader board! Congrats. biggrin
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I agree, I hope I didn't give too much of the opposite impression. It's very difficult to write for everyone and I was reflecting in part the bits you do not know, which is the way the losses are reported to me. When the writer says I did this and did that so I only lost a pound but hope to do better, you know they didn't try hard, and so do they. (I might even beg to suggest that one or two didn't see the scale move but wanted to show promise - it's a human frailty).

passionkiss
I was just teasing M - cause I for one have been a complete rascal this week when it comes to following me diet!
innocent
How do I join in with you. I need to lose some weight cuz no-one luvs a fat bloke
sad
Well I'm well chuffed with my first week. Not exactly been an angel eating wise. And its not exactly been the best week in the world for getting out for a walk :shock: Lost 3lbs and kept my boots on though took my duffle coat off confused
Usually I get off to a slow start and when I went to weight watchers a while ago I went 2 weeks before loosing anything at all so I'm dead pleased.
:bounce: :bounce: That's about the most exercise I've done all week!!
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Finally there’s the name and shame list. These are the people who haven’t even started by sending their weights in: tigersgobounce69, se7endriver, lucyslovely, JGL, jah_2uk, dazandlou (lou), and Calista. I will assume if you don’t write to me that you’re not going to start. Please EVERYONE, pm them with words of encouragement. I will delete you if nothing heard this week. kiss :kiss:

Please don't pm me with words of encouragement. I've had the flu, a bereavement and a shedload of crap this last week I don't need this too.
I will start but it pointless this week sad because I'm a) hardly eating anyway and b) comfort food when I am :(
C x
I've been off work since christmas with Bronchitis - and still can't shift it properly despite taking 2 lots of antibiotics and steroids ! :cry:
Am a bit like Calista at the moment in my eating habits confused
AND ...................... I need to get out and buy some scales rolleyes
Lucy :kiss:
not sure what i weigh .... but need to lose around 4st :cry: :cry: :cry:
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How do I join in with you. I need to lose some weight cuz no-one luvs a fat bloke
sad

Indeed they don't! I admit vanity has a lot to do with my diet. I'll send you a pm.
I've had a frustrating week! I'd lost 3 lb on Sunday, but put it back on the following day sad & chickened out of sending the pm!!!
Some days I'm very good, but on other days I've had to "socialise" so its a bit difficult then. Next week will be better, & hopefully by then these winds will be history & I'll be able to get out & cycle. confused
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I've had a frustrating week! I'd lost 3 lb on Sunday, but put it back on the following day sad & chickened out of sending the pm!!!
Some days I'm very good, but on other days I've had to "socialise" so its a bit difficult then. Next week will be better, & hopefully by then these winds will be history & I'll be able to get out & cycle. confused

passionkiss sillyassionkiss:
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I'm in the 3-5 loss section too!

Actually better than that, and I do apologise for leaving you off this list. Grovel Grovel. According to me, ignoring your half a pound, you lost 6. By your reckoning actually 5.5 but a terrific effort and again, sorry I left you off the list. Well Done! biggrin :D
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I've had a frustrating week! I'd lost 3 lb on Sunday, but put it back on the following day sad & chickened out of sending the pm!!!
Some days I'm very good, but on other days I've had to "socialise" so its a bit difficult then. Next week will be better, & hopefully by then these winds will be history & I'll be able to get out & cycle. confused

passionkiss sillyassionkiss:
Gosh, thanks redface . So I get real snogs if I lose a bit more? biggrin wink .... (HungryP reluctantly dismisses idea of hacking leg off immediately :shock: )
well im just waffling again because i want CAKE!
ive bought all this low cal stuff though i myself am on the atkins ive put the rest of the family on a sensable eating plan and someone at hubbys work sent a huge coconut cake home for us :upset:
ive had a small nibble :upset:
but on the plus side ive incorporated it into my carb allowance
im hopeing the mind will settle soon as everything reminds me of food at the moment a bit like the add for a jenny crumble candidate, cant think what its advertiseing is it food by any chance lol
bye for now hump haveing lots of excersise and going to the gym again tomm
love pepps
Calista's on board! The ark is almost full. :bounce:
Quote by HungryP
I've had a frustrating week! I'd lost 3 lb on Sunday, but put it back on the following day sad & chickened out of sending the pm!!!
Some days I'm very good, but on other days I've had to "socialise" so its a bit difficult then. Next week will be better, & hopefully by then these winds will be history & I'll be able to get out & cycle. confused

passionkiss sillyassionkiss:
Gosh, thanks redface . So I get real snogs if I lose a bit more? biggrin wink .... (HungryP reluctantly dismisses idea of hacking leg off immediately :shock: )
Yes, and if you are really good then....................... :censored:
:bounce: :bounce:
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well im just waffling again because i want CAKE!
ive bought all this low cal stuff though i myself am on the atkins ive put the rest of the family on a sensable eating plan and someone at hubbys work sent a huge coconut cake home for us :upset:
ive had a small nibble :upset:
but on the plus side ive incorporated it into my carb allowance
im hopeing the mind will settle soon as everything reminds me of food at the moment a bit like the add for a jenny crumble candidate, cant think what its advertiseing is it food by any chance lol
bye for now hump haveing lots of excersise and going to the gym again tomm
love pepps

Have you tried the carbphobia range?
You can buy 3 types of cakes - one being coconut sponge. They are very low in carbs (a tad pricey but perfect for those times when nothing but cake will do!!!!)
I buy the lemon one from Holland and Barratt, add 2 eggs and put in microwave.
Fill it with low carb jam and fresh whipped cream...... totally divine and not even breaking the diet if you eat the whole thing..............er..............not that anyone would do that!
;)
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So all those people who lost just 1 or 2 lbs, well done but COULD TRY HARDER. I know this is a bit unfair, some of us have less to lose, so no names this week. I shall be looking forward to your results next Monday WHEN THE TRUTH WILL BE TOLD.

oi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
have this smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
1 or 2lbs is a healthy loss
Kitty - (who was in the naughty, i must try harder, group this week!)
:rascal:

Thank god someone in the same boat biggrin
Unfortunatley all I lost was 2lbs so felt a bit sad I was expecting maybe 3 or 4lbs..but on a lighter note I don't wish to lose too much at once, I would be happy losing just one or two a week.
Congrats to everyone that lost weight this week..keep in there!! :P
Lucy xxx
Feeling guilty today!
Had a great appraisal at work today and then went out and celebrated by having a pie and a pint with the boss!
Now I can't help feeling bad - oh well watery soup for me tonight!
M :cry:
losing more than 1-2lbs a week isn't really that good for you btw. most of the extra weight lost is fluid and if you really cut back on your food intake (remember your still suppost to eat on a diet) your body actuall eats its own muscle and as mucscle weighs more than fat it looks as tho your losing more than you really are, and your not shifting the one thing every one want so to lose which is FAT cells.
HOwever weldone to every one who is trying to lose weight.
Well ive been eating peanuts :upset: salted almonds :silly: eating xmas cake :thumbup: weightwatchers recipe and haveing loads of alchohol drinkies and guess what ive lost TWO pounds dont kow how but what a diet
Now im nedd loads of exercise
smackbottom :therethere: 69position hump
I think the message is clear i need exercise
Lustwench
I've been trying to think of ways in which this could be competitive without concentrating on individuals. How about this?
Say we end up with 35 dieters when I pull the plug on the few "no contacts" tomorrow.
Allowing for the fact that some people may be away or unavailable perhaps I could rely on being able to count 30 new weights each week. If I could rely on 30, then I could add all the weight lost each week, and make it a group competition.
I wouldn't want to reduce the numbers too much, because then anyone could say, "I don't need to worry because they don't need to rely on me".
Just a thought from the shower.
Sounds good Musketeer
Well I'm really suprised. 3-5lbs lost and I'm not really doing a lot.
I've swapped my 'Jumbo-Super Sized Colesterol sausage roll' from the snack van when it turns up and gone with one 'nanana on the way to work and one at about 11.
Also I now walk the dogs every day at 11pm.
Still can't find the courage to measure the waistline though. lol :lol:
Id just like to say since x-mas i have lost just over a stone rotflmao :rotflmao: : :rotflmao: :thumbup: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Hmmm, I just came across this thread, and thought "what a good idea!"
I could do with losing a pound or two, and I DO need encouragement. Is it too late to join in?
:smile2:
You can send me a pm with your weight now, and then weigh yourself every Monday or Tuesday and pm me the new weight. Your real weight is confidential to you and me, weight lost of gained in public knowledge.
IMPORTANT NOTE TO the few who have not yet sent in your weight. The rest of us are now 10 days into this, so I'm locking OUT anyone who hasn't weighed in by Friday night. I think these are tigersgobounce69, lucyslovely, JGL, jah_2uk, and dazandlou (lou) should anyone want to tell them. I've done reminding.
FYI everybody we have 32 who completed their weigh in this week, four still to mail me their weight, dambuster, glasgowllama, HungryP, and staffy1981, (reminders sent), plus the list above that are still to start. I think that's quite a good start, the drop out or non starting rate is I'm sure normal. Once the weeding has been done we can settle to the job.
Ive just checked my out box and sorry to say but Ive pmed you twice now, once with my started weight which is 14 stone and how |I did on the first week, but they are still in my outbox
Dont understand why you have not received them, I know your doing a good job, but I have tried contacting you, just pmed you AGAIN, so I am involved in this and a little pissed off that Im on the name and shame list
NOT HAPPY sad