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It's strange, but we all came here for different reasons.... or maybe a different reason that ends up in the same outcome... but, what made you come here, even before you pressed the button that brought you here?
For me, it was being in a MMF that ended a year before i got here. Then being at home, off work because I had pleurisy, and realising the only thing that really turned me on, and the only thing that got any life into it, was the thought of a 3 some.... so i googled swinging.
Strangely, now I am here, i love the spirit and liberation of this.... as it is simply me, as I really am... and I may not have even realised it at the time, but I am not going back to what I was before...
BUT..... what got you here in the first place?
I came in search of the dogging, having read about it in the local paper after an mp slammed a particular layby.
Also as before sh I had never even had a bj :cry: Through this site I had my first dogging encounter and have had some great times at socials and made some good friends.
I still get bugger all response from my ad though :cry:
Regards
Harry Jones
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what got you here in the first place?

Curiosity? A quest for fulfilment? dunno
But I DO know that I can be me here as the person I feel I am. :P wink
I'm comfortable with that! biggrin :D
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I still get bugger all response from my ad though :cry:
Harry Jones

It's the cap Harry! wink lol
Oooooooooerrr............................. :shock: :shock: bolt
Me? Came here to be insulted. It worked.
I'd have to think back a long time to work out how I found this place. I've been lurking around in the photo ads since late 2003, didn't even sign up to the 'till 2004, and only found the forums a few months ago.
IIRC, I was home alone while Mrs. DP was off at a conference or training course or something (a fairly regular occurence, so I can't remember what), and I was randomly browsing the 'net when I found an article (probably in the Guardian) on 'toothing' (setting up casual encounters with people via bluetooth devices), which also mentioned dogging, a short google later and I found this place. smile
I must admit, it wasn't 'till I looked through the forums a bit that I realised what a large and vibrant community there was on here. Merely reading ad after ad asking for "vvvvwe min 10 inches, heavy cummer, repeater, able to drop everything at a moment's notice to come and service my wife" was giving me a very distorted (and not especially appealing) view of the people on SH. I'm glad my initial observations proved hopelessly inaccurate. :)
I came here looking for a quick shag...still waiting dunno
Seriously, I think I was a member of Ming2us and got cheesed off so took a peek about for a better site, and Robert being your mother's brother here I am :P
Minx x x
well i came here by accident... bloody google...
I actually typed in "Singing heaven" i swear!!!!!!!
you lot just bloody corrupted me.........
sean xxxxxxxxx
Curiosity.
and unlike postie this is not me as I really am.
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Curiosity.
and unlike postie this is not me as I really am.

Had me fooled then lol :lol:
:grin: :grin:
I love you Postie for starting this thread , I've been dying to ask this question!!!
I 'm keen to discuss this subject because I have never been involved in "swinging" but have never felt as "at home" to discuss my life choices and sexual intimate details as I have in this forum.
I discovered this site by putting dogging into Google, out of pure curiousity. Once here I was "drawn in" in a way which is hard to describe, and after a couple of months of watching the photo adverts I finally replied to one of them. ( take note single guys with full balls, us single sex starved girls are out there, we just take our time with the vetting process!!! )
Anyway, had a fun-filled 4 months until he, sorry it ran out of steam, ( what can I say, Im very demanding !!! lol ) I since met another hansome hunk and lets just say , the steam is still building !!!
I use this site for two reasons, cos I have a high sex drive and I'm between relationships (i have never been unfaithful ) and I don't see why I have to live without sex. Secondly, I have a job which means I'm either driving for hours/ days at a time or I'm working from home, either way its pretty lonely and the forum provides the "office gossip / interaction that so many people take for granted.
I hope this post demonstrates just how diverse a site like this can be .
:lol: xxx
Umm dunno, where am I ? :grin:
What brought us here?............. well like lots of others Google, after trying a well known U.S. site with global members that tries to do something for everybody, and ends up being shite to all rolleyes
Liked the community in here and thats it.
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It's was the thought of a 3 some

have u got anyone rolleyes in mind then postie for this fantasy of yours biggrin redface
The kids Swing in the garden was broken .............................. confused :? :? :? :?
Bloody Google!! :shock: :shock: :shock:
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BUT..... what got you here in the first place?

A quick shag, that's still not started yet...... :cry:
Before realising that it's not just sex and orgies in the swinging world. :shock:
We'd been members of another site which was getting dull so we looked for swinging sites and found this place. Used the chatroom mainly at first but then joined the forum when instructed to add our names to the list for a munch.
We came here to swing, to have new and exciting experiences.
I found this site using google and now I can't seem to find my way back out :eeek:
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I came in search of the dogging, having read about it in the local paper after an mp slammed a particular layby.
Also as before sh I had never even had a bj :cry: Through this site I had my first dogging encounter and have had some great times at socials and made some good friends.
I still get bugger all response from my ad though :cry:
Regards
Harry Jones

Wink wink say no more hehe lol
we wos looking at swinging sites and this one was free wink :wink:
lol so we had a look cool and now we will never go back
and everyone is so nice and we have met qurte afew at the munches and had great fun :cheers:
I googled, then I goggled (at the avatars that is).
I came here after I found it in google by accident... was searching for something totally unrelated ! ! !
But the forum seemed so lively and fun that I just dived right in... never regretted it for one moment... it wasn't my first forray into threesomes and other seemingly socialy deviant behaviour, but my knowledge and experiences have been broadened by hanging around... for which I say a big thankyou to everyone.
Read about dogging in the papers, so searched the web and ......... well the rest is history!! lol
McC
i came here on the offer of free fish and chips
Was watching real wife swap a couple of weeks ago,
searched google & ended up here & registered. cool
Told hubby the next morning when he came home from work & he admitted he already been browsing as a guest! (He's now registered btw!) hump
Have spent time lurking & now got into posting on threads that tickle my fancy,
looking forward to getting to know what appears a good crowd of people. wink
So glad we moved from the south to the north west a couple of years ago as there seems to be a lively crowd up here! lol
Quote by EmA
Was watching real wife swap a couple of weeks ago,
searched google & ended up here & registered. cool
Told hubby the next morning when he came home from work & he admitted he already been browsing as a guest! (He's now registered btw!) hump
Have spent time lurking & now got into posting on threads that tickle my fancy,
looking forward to getting to know what appears a good crowd of people. wink
So glad we moved from the south to the north west a couple of years ago as there seems to be a lively crowd up here! lol

welcome to u now take the next step and get your ass out to some of the wild and wonderfull socials and munches then maybe dip your toes into an odd party or to we only bite if you want us to
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i came here on the offer of free fish and chips

did you get any? :shock:
ok i'm going to be honest......i came here cause they shut the msn rooms down :lol2:
I was a reporter looking to make a really good seedy story. Then I woke up and found out I was actually looking for a another lady to join me and a then partner. Wasn't experienced in forum use and just wondered what it was like. Clicked the joined button and found I am like Dawn. Stuck and can't get out. Not trying very hard to escape mind you as I just lurve you all.
I'd like to raise a glass to Munches and Socials!!!!!!!
yes judy buys me fish and chips evrytime i walk her to the chippy(maxwells) after all the village socials
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yes judy buys me fish and chips evrytime i walk her to the chippy(maxwells) after all the village socials

in that case i'm going 2 start going out with judy :lol2: