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I have spoken to many people, and I must say, that to have a conversation with someone on more than one level very arousing. If I find them funny and the banter flows, I am then intrigued to find out more. As this stimulates my mind and gets me wondering! innocent
Do conversations of the non sexual kind excite you more?
Or do you like to get deep down and dirty with sexual chat?
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I have spoken to many people, and I must say, that to have a conversation with someone on more than one level very arousing. If I find them funny and the banter flows, I am then intrigued to find out more. As this stimulates my mind and gets me wondering! innocent
Do conversations of the non sexual kind excite you more?
Or do you like to get deep down and dirty with sexual chat?

I just love talking about suits and DJ`s lol :lol: :lol:
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ooooooo I have just had a hot flush! :lol: :lol:
Could it be my age dunno
I prefer to talk to a person and find out about them, and vice versa, rather than just jump straight in at the deep end.
If anything when guys start off a convo with "so what size are your tits" this puts me right off them.
I don't really get into sexual chat alot on here, and if I do it has to be a gradually built up conversation where a guy has stimulated my mind as well as other parts of me.
if a girl can have some banter and be quick witted with it then i immediately want to get to know her more.
if a girl hasnt got the same sense of humour then forget it!
love erotic talk - even better if its in a sorta code when your around other people wink
Usually the ones that start with "I have Merlot, Franche Compte (extra) cheese, chocolate eclairs, and an empty house" lol
"Do you fuck sweetheart?"
"I do now you smooth-talking bastard"
Ahhhh, the golden oldies are classics biggrin
I also have strawberries and cream... goes very nicely with Merlot and chocolate eclairs... what time shall I come round Winchwench... wink
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Usually the ones that start with "I have Merlot, Franche Compte (extra) cheese, chocolate eclairs, and an empty house" lol
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I love chat that uses humour as a vehicle for erotic messages. Not overtly smutty, but more a gentle and subtle humour that suggests something very naughty without being explicit. Choice of words is so important in setting a tone.
Having said that, I had a wonderful conversation with a girl in Italy last week - she didn't speak much English and I don't speak much Italian, but it was a very sexy and arousing conversation nevertheless - in that case, it was all about the eyes speaking.
I love being called "sweetheart" - one gorgeous fella from here calls it me, and it just melts me - we could be talking about the weather or anything lol
On paper I am not the world's most sexiest man and not one of the most sought after on SH lol so getting to talk with someone is pretty vital to me in terms of them and I maybe about it the majority of those I've spoke with on the phone I've ended up meeting at some point, socially at least.
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It's got to be real - like it's going to happen. But it can be subtle so it's not much more than innuendo.
Can be such a turn on.
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Ooooooh, where shall I start?
I do love a bit of smut, me. Dirty talk can be hot. Smutty chat at inappropriate times or inappropriate places can be amaaaazingly naughty.
But what I love, and I mean really love, is when you are with someone who you are quite partial to and you're chatting, and it could be about anything, but your mind starts to wander and you can't take your eyes off their lips, or their eyes, or their hands or some other erotic and erogenous detail... and it's like the rest of the world and the conversation is irrelevant, 'cos all you can think about is those eyes or that mouth... and what you'd do to the person, and you get a bit flushed, and possibly a bit short of breath and soooooo incredibly wet just thinking "please stop talking and fuck me now"....
Yep, they're the conversations I like!!!
wink
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Ooooooh, where shall I start?
I do love a bit of smut, me. Dirty talk can be hot. Smutty chat at inappropriate times or inappropriate places can be amaaaazingly naughty.
But what I love, and I mean really love, is when you are with someone who you are quite partial to and you're chatting, and it could be about anything, but your mind starts to wander and you can't take your eyes off their lips, or their eyes, or their hands or some other erotic and erogenous detail... and it's like the rest of the world and the conversation is irrelevant, 'cos all you can think about is those eyes or that mouth... and what you'd do to the person, and you get a bit flushed, and possibly a bit short of breath and soooooo incredibly wet just thinking "please stop talking and fuck me now"....
Yep, they're the conversations I like!!!
wink

............... so... ummm... have you had a good weekend? ..... mmmm...
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I have spoken to many people, and I must say, that to have a conversation with someone on more than one level very arousing. If I find them funny and the banter flows, I am then intrigued to find out more. As this stimulates my mind and gets me wondering! innocent
Do conversations of the non sexual kind excite you more?
Or do you like to get deep down and dirty with sexual chat?

Oooh Minxy. redface
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love erotic talk - even better if its in a sorta code when your around other people wink

Miss Kinky, or may I call you Tan. I know what you mean W and I have a Pigeon English, is that the right phrase, anyway we have adopted words that have our meaning. Some are nouns we use as verbs.
You get the idea. We now what we are saying, when others don't even know what we are talking about. So nice on trains and in lifts.
Travis
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Ooooooh, where shall I start?
I do love a bit of smut, me. Dirty talk can be hot. Smutty chat at inappropriate times or inappropriate places can be amaaaazingly naughty.
But what I love, and I mean really love, is when you are with someone who you are quite partial to and you're chatting, and it could be about anything, but your mind starts to wander and you can't take your eyes off their lips, or their eyes, or their hands or some other erotic and erogenous detail... and it's like the rest of the world and the conversation is irrelevant, 'cos all you can think about is those eyes or that mouth... and what you'd do to the person, and you get a bit flushed, and possibly a bit short of breath and soooooo incredibly wet just thinking "please stop talking and fuck me now"....
Yep, they're the conversations I like!!!
wink

............... so... ummm... have you had a good weekend? ..... mmmm...
:wink: a good week!
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love erotic talk - even better if its in a sorta code when your around other people wink

Miss Kinky, or may I call you Tan. I know what you mean W and I have a Pigeon English, is that the right phrase, anyway we have adopted words that have our meaning. Some are nouns we use as verbs.
You get the idea. We now what we are saying, when others don't even know what we are talking about. So nice on trains and in lifts.
Travis
I understand :wink: