I prefer to talk to a person and find out about them, and vice versa, rather than just jump straight in at the deep end.
If anything when guys start off a convo with "so what size are your tits" this puts me right off them.
I don't really get into sexual chat alot on here, and if I do it has to be a gradually built up conversation where a guy has stimulated my mind as well as other parts of me.
if a girl can have some banter and be quick witted with it then i immediately want to get to know her more.
if a girl hasnt got the same sense of humour then forget it!
I love chat that uses humour as a vehicle for erotic messages. Not overtly smutty, but more a gentle and subtle humour that suggests something very naughty without being explicit. Choice of words is so important in setting a tone.
Having said that, I had a wonderful conversation with a girl in Italy last week - she didn't speak much English and I don't speak much Italian, but it was a very sexy and arousing conversation nevertheless - in that case, it was all about the eyes speaking.
It's got to be real - like it's going to happen. But it can be subtle so it's not much more than innuendo.
Can be such a turn on.
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