Hi,
I seem to get a lot of post from people with no pics. When I ask for a pic some of them insist on showing them on msn or by mobile phone. Up until now I have always said no and asked to see a face pic either here or via email. One of the reasons being that my msn has lots of people on it and you have to go live to exchange photos, which in turn means constant interruptions.
Am I being harsh, or do you have the same policy? Is there away around this? Do you think people who do this have something to hide and should be treated with caution?
Answers on a postcard please as sometimes I am geniunely interested and do wonder if I have missed out.
Vx
We use SH as a package for swinging. Theres nothing that needs to be proven outside of the site that cant be done in it until possibly the last stage or two before meeting up.
There's the internal e-mail/pm system. The Private galleries are there for those bashful about publicly showing their bits/pieces/bodies/faces. and the live cam streaming is there also with the option of doing it in a pvt room. What else is needed? Nothing I say. Asking for MSN or E-mail etc is in my mind just a way of trying to "jump a queue" if it is'nt then maybe someone who does this could explain why they do?
I have private photos. Those I will release to anyone I reason to. I have used e-mail, but I have one I use just for swinging.
Yes I would exchange phone numbers, but it would be late in the game. I see no reason to rush, when all that I need is on site.
Travis
Here's another thought....
If you provide pictures through SH then they're all watermarked. If you email them or send them through MSN, they'll be clear and could be used on another site. ;-)
I would just automatically assume they were not genuine and bin them.
i often get the same thing, i tend to use this site to arrange anything swinging minded. there are loads though who when make contact or in chat dont have pics and come back saying ill show you on msn, can we chat on msn?
NO why? just bloody show me here or chat here.
i dont want your spam shit filling up my in box or your virus spreading pictures thankyou.
occasionally i will chat give out my msn, to those ive chatted to, especially in the days when chat and the site were constantly crashing.
xx fem xx
My email/MSN is private and only given out should I desire one 2 one chat. Thats only when compatablity is established. Compatability is established AFTER mails and photo's are exchanged. I don't accept any excuse for no pics on site when there is a suitable private gallery with watermarked pics. Only the people they want to see them get to. So thats the same as mailing but without the security of the watermarks. If no effort is made to do any of this then Im simply not interested, plenty of others who do make the effort.
If they seriously want a meet... they will do what it takes... On site!
Minxie :rascal: xx
