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Quote by noladreams30
Oh and sexy is definitely in the kiss... did I mention that already? passionkiss

oh gosh, yes it is. c'mere sillyassionkiss:
Do you know what splendid, I could really go one of those take-your-breath-away, leave-you-reeling kinda snogs... lots of accompanying hair tugging and a spot of biting-of-the-bottom-lip for good measure... :rascal:
You in?
in? in? I created that kiss.....
wink
Sexy to me is confidence, a smile, personality, the way they flirt, the saucy glint in their eyes, a touch, that first kiss ( :inlove: )
certain members of this site redface
:rascal:
Quote by noladreams30
certain members of this site redface
:rascal:

wave wink lol
Yesterday I met someone who was sexy very definitely as a result of their sense of humour and enthusiasm for their job.
Maybe it was my hormones, but I spent a day in a state of most inappropriate arousal :rascal:
Quote by noladreams30
Yesterday I met someone who was sexy very definitely as a result of their sense of humour and enthusiasm for their job.
Maybe it was my hormones, but I spent a day in a state of most inappropriate arousal :rascal:

And still :doh: the thoughts... oh this is wrong, wrong, wrong!
I'm too sexy for this thread.......... rolleyes
Quote by Sixfootsix
Is there a certain quality that a person possesses that gives them that sexy appeal to you?
A smile?
Their voice?
Their lntelligence?
Their body?
Their wit?
All of the above. I would also add Ability To Suppress Gag Reflex. biggrin
Quote by jaymar
I can't abide people with a high opinion of themselves.
I think it's a matter of degree. There's a fine line between self-respect and delusion, just as there is a fine line between humility and an inferiority complex. For me, arrogance and self-deprecation are equally unattractive. Sexy people are comfortable with who they are.
- Eyes
- Smile
- Movement
- Speech
- Body
In that order. If I don't like their eyes and smile, I don't care about their body or how they move. Graceful movement is also an important factor to sexiness for me. I have seen a ton of quite pretty girls who walk like farmers. Equally, being able to articulate oneself helps a lot. I haven't added intelligence in this list because it plays into some of the factors. Yet, a person can be sexy without being the smartest. Sexy and real attraction are two different things. I can appreciate a sexy 'bimbo' but I wouldn't feel attracted to her. (excuse my French)
A good looking woman who wants to, and is prepared to do whatever she fantasises about.
Quote by Peanut
A good looking woman who wants to, and is prepared to do whatever she fantasises about.

Ok, so I am going a little off at a tangent, but you do make a good point here Mr P. If a person feels sexy in themselves, feels able to acknowledge and participate in their fantasies, feels comfortable and confident about thier body (whether it be a good or bad body in the eyes of 'media'), they are about 90% of the way to falling into my 'sexy' category.
Then all they need is a nice smile, clean hair (dont ask, but I have a thing about clean hair) and a personality to match, they then move to the 100% sexy category biggrin
Quote by westerross
It can be all of what you suggest - but only if they are manifestations of psychological connection.
A smile which is unfeeling - unsexy
A husky voice that is disinterested - unsexy
An intellect that is vicious - unsexy
A 'perfect' body that has the wrong language - unsexy
A wit that is cold - unsexy.
Turn these the other way and you've got sex!!!
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that is so true
sexy is in the character not sleezy, not pushy, not using, not malicious but happy, kind, smiley, and u see it all in the eyes.
To me it's a bit of everything, the look, the smell, the character, the confidence. One alone can be sexy but as a package it's irresistable.
Give me a well dressed, nice smelling guy, who has a touch of bad boy and a healthy dose of gentleman, and can make me smile and feel relaxed and then I'm definitely halfway to bed ;)
Callie
G ticks the boxes and gets his suit pressed :-)
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
A good looking woman who wants to, and is prepared to do whatever she fantasises about.

Ok, so I am going a little off at a tangent, but you do make a good point here Mr P. If a person feels sexy in themselves, feels able to acknowledge and participate in their fantasies, feels comfortable and confident about thier body (whether it be a good or bad body in the eyes of 'media'), they are about 90% of the way to falling into my 'sexy' category.
Then all they need is a nice smile, clean hair (dont ask, but I have a thing about clean hair) and a personality to match, they then move to the 100% sexy category biggrin
Sounds to me that you're a poster child for all of the above, so that must mean you're sexy.
But I knew that anyway ;)
What is sexy?
A lady who is, but does not know she is, now thats darn sexy!
Mike.
Sexy is
when he's looking right into your eyes when he's talking but you know a million and one naughty things are running through his mind :twisted:
A sexy man,
to me....is one who gets inside my head!
Lucys post.
Quote by Calista
Give me a well dressed, nice smelling guy, who has a touch of bad boy and a healthy dose of gentleman

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Quote by Lucyandmike7
A sexy man,
to me....is one who gets inside my head!
Lucys post.

Ahhh, but will you reward him by swallowing afterwards? :P
Ahhh, but will you reward him by swallowing afterwards? :P
So so dirty response!!!
Ok, so I laughed really!!!
The answer is NO !
sexy is not a shape, colour or look. Sexy is just an aura given off by one person to another.
Answer me, am I wrong?
Quote by Ice Pie
Give me a well dressed, nice smelling guy, who has a touch of bad boy and a healthy dose of gentleman

wave
Perfect .. when are you free? ;)