A male friend of mine admitted to me this weekend he once went without sex for 3 years. I was completely gobsmacked, I would have to be sectioned if I went without for that long!!! He didn't seem to think it was a big deal!
So, what is the longest you gone without sex and was it by choice ?
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What is the longest you have gone without ?????
Sex God
I went without for the first 16 years of my life . . . been making up for it since though :twisted:
T-J
T-J
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sex God
10 years ago, I went two years, and it was because I loved her to bubbles, and believed her when she blamed lack of sex on her (real) long term illness...........
After 2 years I found out about the affair she was having (I used to work away from home a lot)........ oh well we live and learn
All in the past and I'm with someone much much better
After 2 years I found out about the affair she was having (I used to work away from home a lot)........ oh well we live and learn
All in the past and I'm with someone much much better
Sex God
Quote by Kit
I think the longest (apart from my growing up years) would be 10 months total and that was when kat was stationed away :cry:
ummmmmmm, does that mean i am grown up now :shock:
Nah you've got zits :grin:
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I think the longest (apart from my growing up years) would be 10 months total and that was when kat was stationed away :cry:
ummmmmmm, does that mean i am grown up now :shock:
Nah you've got zits :grin:
ohhhhh, this is soooooooooo bluddy confusing :crazy: :crazy:
whats the number for the Samaritans???????????
Sex God
why which one of us needs help Kit 
told yer, you can't tell a persons age by zits, but having zits means yer young
told yer, you can't tell a persons age by zits, but having zits means yer young
Sex God
Quote by Kit
why which one of us needs help Kit
told yer, you can't tell a persons age by zits, but having zits means yer young
your word is gospel
:worship: :worship: :worship: umm, where do I sign up and pledge all my worldly goods?
Well you can pledge all your worldly goods, but I think kitkat would have something to say about that :lol:
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why which one of us needs help Kit
told yer, you can't tell a persons age by zits, but having zits means yer young
your word is gospel
:worship: :worship: :worship: umm, where do I sign up and pledge all my worldly goods?
Well you can pledge all your worldly goods, but I think kitkat would have something to say about that :lol:
Who listens to him any way? :shock: :shock:
Warming the Bed
Quote by Velvet Lips
A male friend of mine admitted to me this weekend he once went without sex for 3 years. I was completely gobsmacked, I would have to be sectioned if I went without for that long!!! He didn't seem to think it was a big deal!
So, what is the longest you gone without sex and was it by choice ?
I Actually went 22 years without and i married the girl who took my Virginity in 1986 and we are still together, and although we have been swinging on and off for 12 years or so we are still happy with each (could still have more if it was on offer) other and i wouldn't change anything about it
:D 
Sex God
Quote by Velvet Lips
What is the longest you have gone without ?????
About eight inches? :rascal:
It comes and goes for me. I've been without for about 3 years, then I went into turbo randy mode and the longest without then was about an hour for about a week or so.
I think I was unhappy in them three years and as such didn't give off the right persona to become attractive to anybody. Things changed and I found myself enjoying everything, it was then everything just seemed to fall into place and I was loving it.
Managed to calm down now though. A bit too much but things are looking up again so I'm sure I'm well over due for another randy month.
I Actually went 22 years without and i married the girl who took my Virginity in 1986 and we are still together, and although we have been swinging on and off for 12 years or so we are still happy with each (could still have more if it was on offer) other and i wouldn't change anything about it
:DWOW !! Suddenly 3 years doesn't seem so long ! It just goes to show that there is more that one way to a achieve a happy sex life !
Quote by Velvet Lips
A male friend of mine admitted to me this weekend he once went without sex for 3 years. I was completely gobsmacked, I would have to be sectioned if I went without for that long!!! He didn't seem to think it was a big deal!
So, what is the longest you gone without sex and was it by choice ?
About 3 months.... sort of through choice and because of an illness that completely knocked my sex drive out.... which was about this time last year, just before I joined SH. Strange what a difference a year makes...
Even stranger was being in a situation where my head was wanting to take part but there was absolutely nothing going on downstairs...
Though if you are talking about going without and NOT excluding wanking,.... about a day !
Forum Virgin
truthfully...?
5 years and counting...
Hey, theres been chances, but fucking around with drunk colleagues is just a surefire way to cause problems in the long term.
Does that make me an honorary Virgin again?
(edited because my spelling sucks)
5 years and counting...
Hey, theres been chances, but fucking around with drunk colleagues is just a surefire way to cause problems in the long term.
Does that make me an honorary Virgin again?
(edited because my spelling sucks)
Warming the Bed
Quote by Velvet Lips
I Actually went 22 years without and i married the girl who took my Virginity in 1986 and we are still together, and although we have been swinging on and off for 12 years or so we are still happy with each (could still have more if it was on offer) other and i wouldn't change anything about it
WOW !! Suddenly 3 years doesn't seem so long ! It just goes to show that there is more that one way to a achieve a happy sex life !
Ahh but contentment is more rewarding
So, what is the longest you gone without sex and was it by choice ?
Ive had a few points in my life that have led me to having long terms without sex... but to be honest the things that led to it were more important - kinda real stuff...when you get situations that rock you to the core ..sex is the last thing you want..
Aint bee all and end all sweetheart..xxx
Warming the Bed
Me (Math; male) from about 15, no more than 4 months.
Her (The Missus) said "about 3 years since I lost it, and I'm not saying when that was!"
Her (The Missus) said "about 3 years since I lost it, and I'm not saying when that was!"
Orgasminator
I,ve gone 2 years without in the past with my ex, he was always drunk and could,nt manage it and i did,nt want to be a cheat playing away from home so i went without :cry: .....Made up for it since though :grin: 
:rascal: 
:rascal: 
Orgasminator
Five years... very frustrating the first year but after that my body kind of shut down... I perfected the knack of managing to bring my self to orgasm without shaking the bed that much and not waking up my ex. ;-)
Thank goodness that is behind me!
Thank goodness that is behind me!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
after having my kids i decided it was time for the hubby to get the snip, well cummon i did my bit was his turn to be in pain
OMG NN how the hell did you manage to lay beside a sexy fella you love and not jump all over him for 8 months .. it would be impossible for me to do .... I admire your self control.
DD
