I have never seen myself as a flirt, but using the chat rooms for a couple of years now, I do get told that I am a flirt and a tease.
I only go on cam showing my face, I don't play or flash on cam (ok I may have my boobs a handful of times in a couple of years for losing a bet on sport etc.) But as a general rule I just go on and have a laugh a bit of banter etc.
If I smile and laugh because someone said something funny, does that make me a flirt?
As I am the same in normal life as I am in the chat room, I enjoy a bit of banter the odd innuendo thrown in, I am wondering am I just a flirt in general and how many others see me that way in normal life?
I just see myself as someone that like a laugh and joke around people, or is it the place we are in sh that changes that into flirting?
I do sometimes get tingles here that I never get in normal life, is that because my mind believes someone I like it flirting with me?
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What makes a good flirt?
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Sex God
I have been told I am an outrageous flirt 
but I cant see it myself....
As for what makes a good one......Haven't a fekin clue :lol2:
but I cant see it myself....As for what makes a good one......Haven't a fekin clue :lol2:
Sex God
For me I guess it would be a naked woman on a bed saying "c'mere big boy"! 
Orgasminator
i looked flirt up in the dictionary(yes i have got too much time on my hands!) think it basically says messing around without any emotional commitment. . what ever that means!
Orgasminator
yes. .to behave or act amorously without emotional commitment.
Orgasminator
Flirtation: behavior intended to arouse sexual feelings or advances without any emotional commitment...
Flirtatious: expressive of playful sexual invitation. .
Flirtatious: expressive of playful sexual invitation. .
I can flirt with the best of them, and been told i do it really well too 
I work with guys all the time and a little double-entendre and some raunchy chat makes most of them very responive to your requests, saves me shouting at them all the time to get their arses into gear :twisted: :twisted:
I work with guys all the time and a little double-entendre and some raunchy chat makes most of them very responive to your requests, saves me shouting at them all the time to get their arses into gear :twisted: :twisted:
Sexlightened
I'm starting to think ignorance makes a good flirt. Noone seems to notice they can do it. Must be related to people that are hot, but don't know it.
Quote by flower411
The most important thing about flirting is knowing when to stop.
There`s nothing more painful than watching someone trying to flirt with somebody who just isn`t interested !! :scared:
It gets worse when the person attempting to flirt assumes that the other person has not understood and starts becoming more and more creepy.
My rule is that if your first attempt at flirting is rebuffed, think long and hard before you try again.
Or wear a pink hat?
Make 'em smile and you've won half the battle
I do!
and not only that, it's a green device too...nearly all parts are recycled or scavenged from otherwise outdated equipment.
all of you who (dare you admit it?) keep boxes of old screws and cog-wheels, parts of old watches, maybe bicycle parts in a shed or garage... these are he very things that can be employed in flirt-construction.
Of course, all flirts are individual, and evolve through design and construction to suit your own needs, and some may wish to use higher technologies available to today, electronics and the like, but as you can probably tell, I much prefer an improvised mechanical approach.
a well constructed flirt can be a thing of beauty in itsself... Heath-Robinsonesque, and you may wish to keep it purely for its aesthetic propperties. I have several on display as 'public art' which have never been used for their intended purpose. Not 'commisioned' public art you understand, just a little service I give to my local community... philanthropic too, thats me, oh yes. The fact that I have recieved several letters from the council warning me against fly-tipping deters me not one bit.
Though we do, with the machanical flirts always have to be carefull how they are used, and a little practice is always advised before a live flirt is cranked up to full speed. I do have a few small scars from faulty or rashly constructed flirts disintegrating at speed and, well... you can imagine the danger from spinning fly-wheels and fan-belts as they spin free of thier restraining framework.
but goodness me... they are fun.
batteries not included.
lp
and not only that, it's a green device too...nearly all parts are recycled or scavenged from otherwise outdated equipment.
all of you who (dare you admit it?) keep boxes of old screws and cog-wheels, parts of old watches, maybe bicycle parts in a shed or garage... these are he very things that can be employed in flirt-construction.
Of course, all flirts are individual, and evolve through design and construction to suit your own needs, and some may wish to use higher technologies available to today, electronics and the like, but as you can probably tell, I much prefer an improvised mechanical approach.
a well constructed flirt can be a thing of beauty in itsself... Heath-Robinsonesque, and you may wish to keep it purely for its aesthetic propperties. I have several on display as 'public art' which have never been used for their intended purpose. Not 'commisioned' public art you understand, just a little service I give to my local community... philanthropic too, thats me, oh yes. The fact that I have recieved several letters from the council warning me against fly-tipping deters me not one bit.
Though we do, with the machanical flirts always have to be carefull how they are used, and a little practice is always advised before a live flirt is cranked up to full speed. I do have a few small scars from faulty or rashly constructed flirts disintegrating at speed and, well... you can imagine the danger from spinning fly-wheels and fan-belts as they spin free of thier restraining framework.
but goodness me... they are fun.
batteries not included.
lp
It's mostly in the eyes. A sultry look upwards though the lashes...accompanied by a slight smile. Or simply holding someones gaze for a moment too long...then there's the other body language- playing with the hair..."subconsciously" running a finger up & down your own thigh...or your neck, drawing attention to the cleavage (if you have one)...getting all suggestive with a glass...
And so it goes on. That's before it even gets verbal.
Apparantly, I flirted with the midwife who delivered me, and then got worse :whistle:
And so it goes on. That's before it even gets verbal.
Apparantly, I flirted with the midwife who delivered me, and then got worse :whistle:
Quote by Witchy
playing with the hair..."subconsciously" running a finger up & down your own thigh...or your neck, drawing attention to the cleavage (if you have one)...getting all suggestive with a glass...
That's flirting? :shock:
I thought it was the universal sign for 'jump on me and ravish me silly right here!'
Quote by bigDewi69
playing with the hair..."subconsciously" running a finger up & down your own thigh...or your neck, drawing attention to the cleavage (if you have one)...getting all suggestive with a glass...
That's flirting? :shock:
I thought it was the universal sign for 'jump on me and ravish me silly right here!'
Aren't they one and the same?
Quote by bigDewi69
playing with the hair..."subconsciously" running a finger up & down your own thigh...or your neck, drawing attention to the cleavage (if you have one)...getting all suggestive with a glass...
That's flirting? :shock:
I thought it was the universal sign for 'jump on me and ravish me silly right here!'
You should see what I do when I'm interested.
Being a good flirt to me is that once you've got a ladies attention you've got to encourage them to show out to you. They might bend over in the supermarket and show you their arse or start stroking their breasts. I flirted my eyes with a lady on the tube once and she could see I was getting horny. She sat opposite me, and slowly she opened her legs and flashed me her shaven pussy - was so thrilling I'll always remember it.
Sex God
Quote by Witchy
It's mostly in the eyes. A sultry look upwards though the lashes...accompanied by a slight smile. Or simply holding someones gaze for a moment too long...then there's the other body language- playing with the hair..."subconsciously" running a finger up & down your own thigh...or your neck, drawing attention to the cleavage (if you have one)...getting all suggestive with a glass...
And so it goes on. That's before it even gets verbal.
Apparantly, I flirted with the midwife who delivered me, and then got worse :whistle:
I need the midwife story!!! pronto lol
