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What makes a woman good in bed?

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hehe maybe!! my notebook is getting slightly bigger by the week though! lol
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Any little tips or tricks that rocks a guys boat?

Nudity. sillyhwoar:
In seriousness, I can only echo what's been said. A woman has to at least make the effort to pretend they want me, rather than act like I just happen to have the closest functioning penis to hand. Beyond that, I'm easily pleased. ;)
I dont really know what good is, as in measurement but I know what make a woman feel good in bed.
Being able to let go, you know get all ugly in the face and not worry.
To be able to tell her deepest darkest fantasies to whoever she wants and there be no offence taken, some guys get jealous of the fantasy but your the best lover in the world if you dont its like letting you touch my spirit.
Women like to be naughty and rude
xxxx
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Women like to be naughty and rude

Mmmmmmm. Naughty and rude women, positively heavenly smile
It's fiendishly hard to pin this down, not least because it's not always the same things that work for me... lazy slow lovemaking on a sunday morning is quite different to the naughty quickie before the taxi arrives to take us out, but here goes with a few personal observations:
Lack of inhibitions ("please turn the lights off" doesn't do it for me)
Feedback (nothing is worse than not knowing if she's loving what you are doing or wishing you'd do something else)
Insatiability ("I'm knackered, can't you finish yourself off?" - bah!)
I think I'm fairly safe with those points?
jelly babies
thats what makes a woman good in bed
loads of jelly babies
try it folks they contain a secret aphrodisiac you know, march them up the females legs stopping at the top sit them on the clitoris for a wile before you advance up and over the belly and then breasts , finishing of at the mouth where you then share the little devils, drives any woman wild its taught in schools in the black country durng sexual advice lessons, thought everyone knew
Jelly babies
thats what makes a woman good in bed
staggy
oh yeah and lots of love and kisses too
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I dont really know what good is, as in measurement but I know what make a woman feel good in bed.
Being able to let go, you know get all ugly in the face and not worry.
To be able to tell her deepest darkest fantasies to whoever she wants and there be no offence taken, some guys get jealous of the fantasy but your the best lover in the world if you dont its like letting you touch my spirit.
Women like to be naughty and rude
xxxx

If I wasn't so at the moment, I think I would have just fallen
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its taught in schools in the black country durng sexual advice lessons, thought everyone knew
staggy

Wasn't taught in the school I went to and I thought my school was the best in the area...
It was approved after all
wink
Quote by singlemaiden
he woes me with texts

Don't you just hate text messages that begin "Oh woe is me." ?
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he woes me with texts

Don't you just hate text messages that begin "Oh woe is me." ?
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
Quote by Alexandra
he woes me with texts

Don't you just hate text messages that begin "Oh woe is me." ?
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
What happened to my heroes
They seemed to disappear
The idols keep on singin'
But they don't sound sincere
Oh woe is me, oh woe is me
Sorry could not help it any way I would send lots of ladies here texts
and yes the odd movie clip too oh I am such a perv :twisted:
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I dont really know what good is, as in measurement but I know what make a woman feel good in bed.
Being able to let go, you know get all ugly in the face and not worry.
To be able to tell her deepest darkest fantasies to whoever she wants and there be no offence taken, some guys get jealous of the fantasy but your the best lover in the world if you dont its like letting you touch my spirit.
Women like to be naughty and rude
xxxx

Then please bare me in mind if it goes Pair shaped cos I love that tat.
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If I wasn't so at the moment, I think I would have just fallen
Being tuned in to each other - I can't get there unless she is going there too.
Neither feeling like its a test.
Tell you what lets get these decks spinning:
Cue "Caught in a moment" by The Sugarbabes.
For me, the very fact that they're in my bed at all is good enough for me... blink
For me it all starts outside of the bedroom, the buildup to knowing what is going to happen, when you get the flirty messages, a sexy phone call, a single glance, naughty things whispered, a note passed secretly, a text message telling you exactly what they are going to do with you. I love it when my partner tells me what he/she likes too. There is nothing sexier than knowing you have turned the other person on and made them have a satisfying orgasm.
I love a variety of things, the unpredictablility can drive me wild. I can't stand the same routine and so try to vary things. What I like and want today, I may not want tomorrow. I do have a couple of trigger points that always do it for me and only tell the special people in my life where these are, but not too soon cos I like to see if they can find them on their own from my responses.
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For me, the very fact that they're in my bed at all is good enough for me... blink

Well - they're not tonight I'm "Caught in a Moment" by myself again tonight.
- and Little Gems last beautiful,poetic post on here(as evocative a celebration of sexual desire as you could ever wish to read) has got me pining for the fjords - badly! rolleyes
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- and Little Gems last beautiful,poetic post on here(as evocative a celebration of sexual desire as you could ever wish to read) has got me pining for the fjords - badly! rolleyes

redface surprisedops: :oops:
you should have seen it before I edited it. I got a bit carried away shall we say! :oops:
why does it make you pine for the fjords flirty?
Pine as in pine Gem - On the trail of the lonesome pine - sigh! redface
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Pine as in pine Gem - On the trail of the lonesome pine - sigh! redface

You're not thinking of becoming a lumberjack, are you, Flirty? :shock:
I love talking dirty by text or pm but I feel a bit awkward about the question 'what do you like to do?' I like to be spontaneous, to go into an experience without a pre-written agenda and see how things go. I don't want to go into everything I WON'T do cos that's a bit unsexy and offputting and sometimes in the right circumstances I may find that I would do something I wouldn't normally do! I love the exploration part, trying different things and seeing what reaction I get and I like to be explored all over, sometimes a certain thing turns me on more than other times and every so often I find that somebody has a new trick I had never tried before which is great fun!
I must hang my head in shame and admit to asking that question once, although in my defence I meant what do you like out of the bedroom, but it didn't come across like that. sad
I won't hold it against you Roger, not unless you want me to :P wink
I so agree with SingleMaiden and LittleGem, it builds up long before you get anywhere near the bed!
The texts, phone calls, glances, little touches, whispers, being told what they want to do to you later, knowing what each others fav things are, etc. its all about eroticism and adds so much to the act itself and i get such a kick knowing im wanted and i always reciprocate that :twisted:
hump 69position blast passionkiss :wanker: :spit:
What makes a woman good in bed - confidence, spontenaity, sense of humour, lust and the attitude of living every day to the full