what was your first meet like please help

31 Dec 2006

Hi
as a couple new to this looking for mmf but what was your first meet like any advise would be nice good and any good or bad things happen?

31 Dec 2006

It was very good but we had chatted before in MSN to make sure we at least liked each other before a meet. We placed an advert and ignored all the ones who disregarded what we asked for, i.e. we wanted a photo not just a cockshot, we wanted to know a bit about the person not a one liner - so it was quite easy to filter those we weren't interested in. Also set out our limits in advance.
Once happy, we met in a bar, had a chat then took it from there once we were all happy. We had said in advance if we weren't happy we would walk away. Go with your gut feeling - if it doesn't feel right it probably isn't.
Mr and Mrs cbc xx

31 Dec 2006

hi thanks been flooded with cock pic not what we asked for shame realy some looked nice but as u say had to get ridd of them. Think hotel would be best, and what limit wouldyou think would be suitable not sure on that one suppose it all down to the guy u get thank for the reply

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Ukhotwife2000
hi thanks been flooded with cock pic

I am suprised that loads of single guys would take the oppotunity to send you pics of their dicks rolleyes

31 Dec 2006

just read your profile mallock looks like u done it alot has it worked out alright and why not meet guy who have to travel then?

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Ukhotwife2000
just read your profile mallock looks like u done it alot has it worked out alright and why not meet guy who have to travel then?

If you ask me again in English I'll do my best to answer :thumbup:

31 Dec 2006

look im sorry if my english isnt not quite up to your standards but it was an honist question

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Ukhotwife2000
look im sorry if my english isnt not quite up to your standards but it was an honist question

If you read my ad it will explain why we wont meet anyone who has to travel a great distance to meet..

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Mallock2006
look im sorry if my english isnt not quite up to your standards but it was an honist question

If you read my ad it will explain why we wont meet anyone who has to travel a great distance to meet..cos its always toooooooo far

31 Dec 2006

thanks would of thought all the single guys on here stay they can not get meet would jump at the chance i see there is anythere freed saying the same so fair enough point but donot want to play to close to home as could get a nutter or some thing and also be imbarising (sorry about the spell marlloc) anymore advise would be greatly received thk to all so far

31 Dec 2006

My first meet was lovely, more than I had hoped.
The best thing to do in my humble opinion, is to get to know the person online as a friend first, before you meet.
Good luck
xxx

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Ukhotwife2000
what was your first meet like ?

Not as good as my last one :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:

31 Dec 2006

Great at the time - but we regretted it a tad after - rushed into it - haven't made that mistake again!!!
Make sure you've talked through all the do's n don'ts with each other first!
:giggle:

31 Dec 2006

Cant remember it redface

31 Dec 2006

Quote by Mallock2006
Cant remember it

I can :giggle:
It was my first bi experience and that bit was WOW!.... I couldn't possibly say anything about the rest of it though :angel: :giggle:

31 Dec 2006

thank all i think the chatting first is a must then we doing that at moment will chat to misses about how far too go on first meet vow she will get carried away vow lol

31 Dec 2006

our first meet..mrs c was a bag of nerves,what should i i look alright in this(yes was my repeated reply),clam down i said,...have another drink that'll calm you down(did it hell it just made her more anxiuos) what if we don't get on,what if i don't like her/them(even tho we had been chatting to them for weeks)the fact that we were going to meet them face to face for the first time and we were expected to play for the first time scared the shite out of her(is this a normal feeling for the fem)...they turned up at the time that had been agreed and we all hadf a drink and chatted and as the drink flowed the fems started playing with each other(kissing mainly/fondling boobs/rubbing crotch area on the outside) then it all kicked off as it does boobs out genitailly out and loads off fun had by all............... next morning it was"you have a good time last night babe" her reply " i loved it had a great night cant wait to do it again" my reply " so why were you so nervous"...i can understand why she was so nervous it's all a case off will we get on...will the chemistry be there.....fortunately evey meet we have had the chemistry has been there.......

31 Dec 2006

a certian bit off that has come across wrong....no one is expected to play.....the option to say no this isn't right is always there...what i should off said was.......the expectation to play is always there...wether you pursue it always your option,or the other cpls option.

1 Jan 2007

Quote by Ukhotwife2000
Hi
as a couple new to this looking for mmf but what was your first meet like any advise would be nice good and any good or bad things happen?

any advice...... 3 words really.. take your time smile

if you are meeting a guy for the first time and you tell them, they should understand, don'y feel as if you are being rushed into things and feel 110% confident in what you are both doing....if at anytime either of you feel uncomfortable, say stop!... again people will understand....
sean xxxxx

1 Jan 2007

Quote by Shireen
Cant remember it

I can :giggle:
It was my first bi experience and that bit was WOW!.... I couldn't possibly say anything about the rest of it though :angel: :giggle:
:thumbup: Ditto that, although I ought to add not with the lovely Shireen!

1 Jan 2007

completely nervewracking,but more fun than you can shake a stick at smile

1 Jan 2007

Ive had two meets on here and was nervous but not overly so as we had chatted for some time before hand and both turned into great weekends much above what i expected.

1 Jan 2007

thank to all great help

7 Jan 2007

We used my husbands best mate. He is a really nice guy and could be trusted tottally.
We went to a motel near him 150 miles away from us. had a meal and then back to the room for a good drink and a "smoke". it was hilarious. a little awkward actually starting but when we did, sparks flew. until i got his trousers off and saw his mr man pants !!!
They had a little squeaky cock fixed on the front and the words... mr squeaky comes out to play printed over it. We fell about laughing, a real ice breaker. it was a special evening with all the things we wanted to do being achieved. a bonus was we found he was a repeat heavy cummer !. It established the mmf 3 sum as my favourite sexy fun. He travels up to us once a year for a weekend and it is still the best 3sum we do.
"Trust a trusted friend"
Jay