Looking at your pics I can't see anything wrong at all (at least with Mrs Monkey) :rascal:
Seriously though...
Not everyone will be to everyones taste...
I'm sure you've declined to meet some people because they aren't what your looking for so it's swings and roundabouts.....
I cant see anything particular dodgy about your profile, and we obviously cant comment on your behavior during social meets as we were not there. But things that put me off people include
Not washing/shaving/wearing clean clothes and general presentation
Looking rather different from their photos
Turning up late without a 'im going to be 10 mins late' text
Being self obsessed in conversation- not taking turns in conversation, talking about how amazing they are, not asking you any questions
Arrogance, cheesiness, ridiculous compliments, terrible sense of humor
The vibe between the couple themselves- are they communicating, do they look happy and comfortable together, does one of them look like they don't want to be there?
Then you might get meets with perfectly respectable people, but there is just no spark there
Im sure others are able to add to this list
Fear not, you are not alone. It is very hard work finding a couple where it all works. Assuming the couple you arrange to meet are reasonably sane and are comfortable swinging you then have to establish 4 additional relationships on a like/fancy level. On top of that how many people are destroyed by nerves when meeting others for the first time? It can take forever and become incredibly frustrating. We found it all to be way too much like hard work and gave up.
We rely on clubs for when we fancy a bit of fun and socials to get to know a wider group of potential playmates.
We wish you luck. If you ever fancy a trip to Chameleons in Darlaston give us a heads up, we may be heading that way ourselves.
Good luck.
Perhaps it is because not many fit the criteria you seek, we would not contact you because your looking for regular meets but are 77 miles from us so we would not waste your time.
Secondly for us you have no pictures of your the male half (except a cock pic) so again we would never contact you
On here you have to either broaden your criteria or accept that not many will fit into the criteria you seek, that is our situation, very few people meet our criteria and of those that do even less feel we are what they are looking for.
We have exactly the same issue...
Nic thinks its because she is a bbw...I think its because I am ugly .....
What ever it is...we have found it so bloody hard to meet other couples. Sometimes its a timing thing, other times its a 'maybe its us' type thing.
We have now been to a club twice and think that this is the way forward.
We will keep you posted.
Andrew & Nicole
