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What's wrong with saying no thanks we're not interested?
Sex God
I guess some find it hard to give out rejection and some find it hard to receive. Some when rejected want to know why and it's difficult if your the person doing the rejection to tell them why. We have found many can't leave it at no and want closure on why. I can see their point as we've been rejected the odd time and it does go through your head wht. Especially when they come across as wanting the same things.
agree in principle with you though that its nice to know rather than just hear nothing.
agree in principle with you though that its nice to know rather than just hear nothing.
Warming the Bed
Our view is that sometimes it is the mindset of the enquirer that is the problem.
Lola lets me answer all mail etc and as a rule if a person asks for a chance to meet Lola I always send a reply whether its yes or no. The ones that annoy me are those who DO NOT READ OUR PROFILE before replying and are clearly not what we are looking for.
I would never dream of answering an ad without reading the profile thoroughly and ensuring we meet the requirements of the poster. Common courtesy.
I use the block button a lot now as some people within seconds in chat ask the most ridiculous questions. I am delighted the block button is there and that the bad people on here don't get a chance to bother us again!!
Lola lets me answer all mail etc and as a rule if a person asks for a chance to meet Lola I always send a reply whether its yes or no. The ones that annoy me are those who DO NOT READ OUR PROFILE before replying and are clearly not what we are looking for.
I would never dream of answering an ad without reading the profile thoroughly and ensuring we meet the requirements of the poster. Common courtesy.
I use the block button a lot now as some people within seconds in chat ask the most ridiculous questions. I am delighted the block button is there and that the bad people on here don't get a chance to bother us again!!
Sexpert
We always answer genuine people who have read our profile even if we don't think we want to meet the peeps who have messaged us. We are always polite, just because we are not compatible does not mean we would be rude or ignore them! and why should they expect that kind of treatment.
However, if people have obviously not read our profile or just send the standard one liner (I am close, want to meet?) they get the standard thanks but no thanks.
We have only ever blocked one person. He sent 2 one liners which we answered thanks but no thanks. The third request was a little annoying so we sent a message explaining why we didn't want to meet but undeterred he sent a forth so we blocked him without reply!
However, if people have obviously not read our profile or just send the standard one liner (I am close, want to meet?) they get the standard thanks but no thanks.
We have only ever blocked one person. He sent 2 one liners which we answered thanks but no thanks. The third request was a little annoying so we sent a message explaining why we didn't want to meet but undeterred he sent a forth so we blocked him without reply!
