Hi to all I haven't spoke to, I'm new to the forum section (will do chat soon - but seems so scary)....
I recently received a message from a girl who had read my msn profile. We've been chatting for a while, quite a bit about sex and the likes. Turns out she is still a virgin but she really wants to meet for sex. I enjoy meetings like this but just not sure if this would be fair on her as it would be her first time.
I've heard that peoples first sexual encouter shapes their sexual destiny. Is this true?
I know that perhaps I shouldn't be her first.... What do you all think? How was it for your first time? Has that helped shape you to be who you are today?
I've seen photos from her 18th before you ask that question!!!!
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When's the right time to lose your virginity?
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Sexlightened
no time is specifically the right time, because it is just the moment.
I would say, meet the girl, go for drinks, take things easy, and if it happens, it was meant to happen, if not, then that answers your question..
I would say, meet the girl, go for drinks, take things easy, and if it happens, it was meant to happen, if not, then that answers your question..
I think the real question is as a swinger u are used 2 meeting for casual one off sex, shes not!! as her first man u may find that she falls for you in a way u don't want her to and can u really turn round to a young girl whos virginity u have just taken and say...sorry love u was only a shag?
Personally i wouldn't meet a virgin for sex, swinging is not the right scene for such inexperienced people, plus i'd sooner have someone who knows how to please me :haha:
Personally i wouldn't meet a virgin for sex, swinging is not the right scene for such inexperienced people, plus i'd sooner have someone who knows how to please me :haha:
Sex God
Definately not 2 weeks into a 4 year sentence. 
:shock: 
Sorry I know it's a serious question, but you're the only one who can make that decision.
:shock: Sorry I know it's a serious question, but you're the only one who can make that decision.
Quote by **sparky**
Hi to all I haven't spoke to, I'm new to the forum section (will do chat soon - but seems so scary)....
I recently received a message from a girl who had read my msn profile. We've been chatting for a while, quite a bit about sex and the likes. Turns out she is still a virgin but she really wants to meet for sex. I enjoy meetings like this but just not sure if this would be fair on her as it would be her first time.
I've heard that peoples first sexual encouter shapes their sexual destiny. Is this true?
I know that perhaps I shouldn't be her first.... What do you all think? How was it for your first time? Has that helped shape you to be who you are today?
I've seen photos from her 18th before you ask that question!!!!
My guees for her to come out with that is she isn't a virgin, or is a timewaster leading you on - just gut instinct.
Thanks all for the replies so far. They've made me laugh.
I loss my virginity between and many years ago, but can't remember if it was a full moon...It was outdoors though...but I was very very drunk!
She's way to young too anyway.... I've had sex with a virgin once before and it was such hard work....Sex always seems better when both (or all 3) of you know what you're doing...Wouldn't want her falling for me in a romantic way like NN suggestted!
Thanks again.
I loss my virginity between and many years ago, but can't remember if it was a full moon...It was outdoors though...but I was very very drunk!
She's way to young too anyway.... I've had sex with a virgin once before and it was such hard work....Sex always seems better when both (or all 3) of you know what you're doing...Wouldn't want her falling for me in a romantic way like NN suggestted!
Thanks again.
Sex God
Quote by easy
Definately not 2 weeks into a 4 year sentence.
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:easy that's feckin' evil that is! bloody funny though! ;)
sparky, much as the whole deflowering thing might be a huge turn on in a manly kinda way. i'd be dubious of someone who said they wanted to lose their cherry this way, and i'd be damned reluctant anyways. just wouldn't feel right, but then i'm an old giffer and who knows what the youth of today get up top?
oh and the sex would probably be crap too! :P :lol:neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Quote by Dawn_Mids
On a full moon :rascal:
:moon:
:shock: 
Orgasminator
Quote by **sparky**
Hi to all I haven't spoke to, I'm new to the forum section (will do chat soon - but seems so scary)....
I recently received a message from a girl who had read my msn profile. We've been chatting for a while, quite a bit about sex and the likes. Turns out she is still a virgin but she really wants to meet for sex. I enjoy meetings like this but just not sure if this would be fair on her as it would be her first time.
I've heard that peoples first sexual encouter shapes their sexual destiny. Is this true?
I know that perhaps I shouldn't be her first.... What do you all think? How was it for your first time? Has that helped shape you to be who you are today?
I've seen photos from her 18th before you ask that question!!!!
Ignore Wishy he didnt mean anything,
its nice to see that your careing enough about this girl to put your thread up. I think it depends on what you both want. If your unsure then best let this one slip by for now and keep chatting. Easier said than done i know but there maybe a hell of alot more baggage to deal with if you don't.
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Hi to all I haven't spoke to, I'm new to the forum section (will do chat soon - but seems so scary)....
I recently received a message from a girl who had read my msn profile. We've been chatting for a while, quite a bit about sex and the likes. Turns out she is still a virgin but she really wants to meet for sex. I enjoy meetings like this but just not sure if this would be fair on her as it would be her first time.
I've heard that peoples first sexual encouter shapes their sexual destiny. Is this true?
I know that perhaps I shouldn't be her first.... What do you all think? How was it for your first time? Has that helped shape you to be who you are today?
I've seen photos from her 18th before you ask that question!!!!
Ignore Wishy he didnt mean anything,
its nice to see that your careing enough about this girl to put your thread up. I think it depends on what you both want. If your unsure then best let this one slip by for now and keep chatting. Easier said than done i know but there maybe a hell of alot more baggage to deal with if you don't.
Mids ya twaddle ...... he just said he didn't post the real question .. he just wanted to get to know everyone ........ why didn't he post the question: Will You Get To Know Me and Be My Friend!
Sex God
i lost my virginity to my and circa age 14 ----)))))
but really i lost my virginity to a gf who i had been with for a couple of months.
i was 21 she 19.
MikeC
but really i lost my virginity to a gf who i had been with for a couple of months.
i was 21 she 19.
MikeC
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
On a full moon :rascal:
Is it a full moon tonight?
Please say it is - please!
Why, you a virgin?
Sexpert
Everyone remembers their first time, that's a fair amount of responsibility to look after there! Myself I am glad I waited til I was in a relationship with someone I loved before I lost it, we were both virgins and overcoming the nervousness and getting used to the intimacy with each other's bodies was the hardest part. Took a few goes before the full thing happened but wow it was worth it. I don't think I could take her virginity as a casual thing. I take it you're a few years older Sparky? If you did do it, at least she'd be with someone more confident and experienced and mature - guys tend to mature later than girls so better from that respect.
When she enjoys it (hopefully) I'm sure she's going to want to do it again and explore more, will that be with you and there's all the worries about attachment with such strong feelings.
I think you need to talk to her seriously about it and make sure she's wanting it for good reasons, and not just to boast to her friends / not to feel left out, or 'cos she happened to be feeling a bit horny one evening.
I'm sure a lot of people lose it that way and later wish it had been different, but you can try at least to make sure this girl won't.
Oops that was way too serious... Moo!
When she enjoys it (hopefully) I'm sure she's going to want to do it again and explore more, will that be with you and there's all the worries about attachment with such strong feelings.
I think you need to talk to her seriously about it and make sure she's wanting it for good reasons, and not just to boast to her friends / not to feel left out, or 'cos she happened to be feeling a bit horny one evening.
I'm sure a lot of people lose it that way and later wish it had been different, but you can try at least to make sure this girl won't.
Oops that was way too serious... Moo!
