Hi
am new here - tho have been in lifestyle on/off for awhile - why does everyones ad - strenously claim they are not "hardened" swingers? is it british thing? not being shown to be too keen
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why?
Sex God
Guess people don't want to be labelled "hardened" swingers for fear of others seeing that as a derogatory thing.
Dunno really.
:welcome: to the forum by the way.
Nola x
Dunno really.
:welcome: to the forum by the way.
Nola x
I reckon you have hit the nail on the head....maybe they dont want to seem like they would pounce on you and make you do all kinds of debauched and freaky things LOL....
or maybe 'hardened' swingers are a different breed all together and do things differently to others
oh and welcome to the forums BTW
or maybe 'hardened' swingers are a different breed all together and do things differently to others
oh and welcome to the forums BTW
Sex God
I think "hardened swingers" might seem to be not regarded as too keen, but rather as sort of "seen it all, done it all" types who don't show enough enthusiasm.
Sex God
Hardened swingers makes it sound like the the rind on a two old piece of stilton to me. Still there still hanging on and about until someone clears out the fridge.
Hiya welcome to forum 
Hiya
welcome to forum 
Sex God
I guess some people could have had a handful of swinging partners and be 'hardened' in attitude and others could have been with dozens but still have the sense of wonder about it, and still be eagerly excited and enthusiastic about meeting new playmates.
Sex God
What exactly is a 'hardened swinger'?
Quote by Lilmiss
What exactly is a 'hardened swinger'?
When we started getting up to this lark, anyone who had more than 4 peoples feedback seemed "hardened" to me!(sorry to type that feedback word!)
Of course we soon realised that to meet that number of people is perfectly normal in the swinging world, and of course more!
We have not met loads of men, just the odd one or two, or three(!), but I still dont class ourselves as hardened swingers.
Lucys post.
Welcome by the way, westman, I said my hi on another post to you, as I missed this one!
Quote by Lucyandmike7
What exactly is a 'hardened swinger'?
When we started getting up to this lark, anyone who had more than 4 peoples feedback seemed "hardened" to me!(sorry to type that feedback word!)
Of course we soon realised that to meet that number of people is perfectly normal in the swinging world, and of course more!
We have not met loads of men, just the odd one or two, or three(!), but I still dont class ourselves as hardened swingers.
Lucys post.
Welcome by the way, westman, I said my hi on another post to you, as I missed this one!
could hardend :shock: be classed as how many you have met or how many years you have been swinging ,
A while back I met my first quote " hardened swinger couple" they had been around a while and had met quite a few people , they were the most fun couple I have ever met , and I didnt class them as hardened just good fun to be with .....oh and yes they are still here advertising :shock: good luck to you both you know who you are xxxxx
steve x
Quote by westman
agred - it could be the number of people you have me or the number of years -
its just funny that no one says " yeah, am totally jaded hardened swinger" hehe
thanks for welcome lucy/mike - dont worry 3 extra men doesnt make you hardened. sorry to read that you are from Yorksha
Just to clarify..........I did not mean 3 extra men at once!!!
Just switching over to the fantasy thread!!! :lol:
Sex God
It's if you're seen it all done it all bought the t shirt type or not!You can have been with lots of partners but not be that it's still special to you, if you still marvel at the beauty of it all and it's done in a fun way and with a sharing, caring spirit then it's not 'hardened' be it with one person or a dozen at once lol!
Sex God
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a third man Lucy? :thumbup:
Or maybe a fourth even?
Master of Sex
Quote by Lucyandmike7
Just to clarify..........I did not mean 3 extra men at once!!!
Make your mind up ................ the lads are sitting outside in the minibus with the engine running, ready to drive up to Leeds. :rascal:
Sex God
Quote by Lilmiss
What exactly is a 'hardened swinger'?
To me, a 'hardened swinger' is somebody who meets(or looks to meet & can meet) all the time. As in every spare minute they get free. I understand that some are not into it as much as other's i.e - myself but of coursethe 'hardened' ones could totally disagree with me lol
