I know I'm not alone in finding it really annoying when you take the time to mail someone and they cant be bothered to reply. If they are bothered to read mail why not reply with a message or a simple thanks but no thanks! i have seen others add in their profile about this and i don't understand why it is, to me its just courteous to reply.
thinks i wonder if anyone will post a reply to this? what do you think?
I reply when I can be bothered. Most times I can't be bothered.
I wonder why people send me mails when I don't know or like them and then expect a reply....… there must. Be something wrong with them surely? I am glad that it is my membership fee that I am paying as if the sender of unsolicited pm's paid it I would feel obliged to reply to them. Because it is my money I can do whatever I like.
Goody. Am off to ignore anyone I see fit to.
Well maybe you should stop sending out emails for a while, go and chat in chatrooms and the forums and get to socials. That way people know who you are and conversations start rather than can I meet you straight away. You get out of life the same amount of effort you put in.
dont get me wrong i can understand if its a "wanna fuck" or some other poor attemt at introduction but im talking about a genuine message. also the chat rooms here are very fast compered to others and friends on other sites dont use this noe because of that. i do go in the chat rooms but have found people change rooms before you can post to them so obviously sending a proper message is the answer, well i thought so anyway.
ok freckle your point of veiw so fair enough. but if someones got a good profile and looks good they ARE going to get a lot af attention so sould expect lots of mail. its the nature of the beast!
as for moving on bloody hell m8 i only just posted the topic at least lets have some discussion!
Oh Smooth you keep mentioning other sites. Comparing sites doesn't really work. Each has its ways of working and thats why there are so many. You have a great pic on your profile and you are up front about being married but you are after a select group of women who are looking for an attached single man. Good luck in your quest but you wont like me be everyones cup of tea.
bcause so many of them can't reply. If they are just basic members, they can't reply to mail. Once again I say...would be an idea to have an icon....so we know who is fully fledged member and who is not !!
kaz n kev it is much easier when you know people in chat as you can consentrate on them and they will look for your post. i on the other hand dont know anyone and my 1 fingure typing usually means theyve gone before i can post. lol