I have it on my profile that Im a straight single male,who,s looking to meet up with couple,s and female,s so why is it that you get message,s from bloke,s that want to say hello or "do you fancy a meet"!!!for f-c-k,sake, I know there are some strange fish swiming out there but ff,s enough is enough,on some site,s you can stop mail coming to you from male,s if you wish but on here unless I,ve missed it there don,t seem to be anyway to stop it on here,.....and then why do they put in there adds Im a male looking for a gay male,,, bi male,, and then put in also ,,,straight male,(have a word with yourself,ff,s)if I was bi or gay Id say so, just geting well pissed off with it,,,,normaly it dose,nt realy bother me but but after awhile it start,s, to be a pain,,,
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WHY don,t they read,,,,,,ff,s
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even stranger are the guys who say their straight in the profile but then put ads in the men seeking men section saying they are looking for a nice big cock to suck. they dont want to scare off the women so they bend the truth.
As a bi guy ive had plenty of mails from guys saying they are straight......
As a bi guy ive had plenty of mails from guys saying they are straight......
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true stormwalker, some are even lazier and think a wink is an invitation for sex with no communication required.
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Quote by easyease
true stormwalker, some are even lazier and think a wink is an invitation for sex with no communication required.
you can put an auto wink thing on so you never actually receive them, the sender gets a message back saying thatnks but reply with more details etc
also beware free members can only send winks so unless you know for sure dont knock wink senders as they may be a free member
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I have it on my profile that Im a straight single male,who,s looking to meet up with couple,s and female,s so why is it that you get message,s from bloke,s that want to say hello or "do you fancy a meet"!!!for f-c-k,sake, I know there are some strange fish swiming out there but ff,s enough is enough,on some site,s you can stop mail coming to you from male,s if you wish but on here unless I,ve missed it there don,t seem to be anyway to stop it on here,.....and then why do they put in there adds Im a male looking for a gay male,,, bi male,, and then put in also ,,,straight male,(have a word with yourself,ff,s)if I was bi or gay Id say so, just geting well pissed off with it,,,,normaly it dose,nt realy bother me but but after awhile it start,s, to be a pain,,,
Funny you should say that as i get this too,
Can i ask you though, whats more annoying the bi/gay males sending you messages or the straight males sending you messages?
Personaly i don't mind the bi/gay males emailing me and its kind of flattering in a funny kind of way, i would actualy go out of my way to mail back politely saying its not my thing.
Its the straight guys that i ignore, call them what you want but these are the reasons the the bi/gay males email you because the majority of straight males lie and the bi/gay males don't even know themselves whos straight, ask any bi/gay male and most will tell you that most contact is from supposedly straight males, Its actualy the genuine bi/gay men i feel sorry for as they don't know whos bi/gay as a huge majority of men lie for whatever reasons.
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you do right just to take it as a compliment solofun, any reasonable bi bloke who does try his luck with a straight guy wouldnt need telling no twice. most wouldnt expect a reply anyway because they are aware of just how cheeky they are being in the first place.
The problem here is as you describe, a lot of the times the guys who profess to being straight are gayer than the ones who admit they are bi or curious.
If i had a penny for every ad i have seen by a "straight" guy saying he wants to recieve anal I'd be very rich, whereas I'm bi but dont want to go near another blokes bum.
You just have to laugh sometimes.
The problem here is as you describe, a lot of the times the guys who profess to being straight are gayer than the ones who admit they are bi or curious.
If i had a penny for every ad i have seen by a "straight" guy saying he wants to recieve anal I'd be very rich, whereas I'm bi but dont want to go near another blokes bum.
You just have to laugh sometimes.
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Go to "My settings" and see the section "My mail settings" . You can block single males there.
But be aware that this will block all who have a single male account.
Welcome to the forums, by the way :thumbup:
I must be a bit thick, but why would a non-single male have a single male account
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Quote by Plimboy
Go to "My settings" and see the section "My mail settings" . You can block single males there.
But be aware that this will block all who have a single male account.
Welcome to the forums, by the way :thumbup:
I must be a bit thick, but why would a non-single male have a single male account
: Plim :?
I meant, if he blocks all single males, he won't be able to receive pms from any single males, including those who he may befriend in a non-sexual way.
Quote by easyease
even stranger are the guys who say their straight in the profile but then put ads in the men seeking men section saying they are looking for a nice big cock to suck. they dont want to scare off the women so they bend the truth.
As a bi guy ive had plenty of mails from guys saying they are straight......
Quote by easyease
you do right just to take it as a compliment solofun, any reasonable bi bloke who does try his luck with a straight guy wouldnt need telling no twice. most wouldnt expect a reply anyway because they are aware of just how cheeky they are being in the first place.
So straight guys looking for a BJ are strange...but bi guys trying their luck with a straight guy are just cheeky and paying a compliment?
Sounds like a bit of a double standard doesn't it?
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even stranger are the guys who say their straight in the profile but then put ads in the men seeking men section saying they are looking for a nice big cock to suck. they dont want to scare off the women so they bend the truth.
As a bi guy ive had plenty of mails from guys saying they are straight......
Quote by easyease
you do right just to take it as a compliment solofun, any reasonable bi bloke who does try his luck with a straight guy wouldnt need telling no twice. most wouldnt expect a reply anyway because they are aware of just how cheeky they are being in the first place.
So straight guys looking for a BJ are strange...but bi guys trying their luck with a straight guy are just cheeky and paying a compliment?
Sounds like a bit of a double standard doesn't it?
hmmm yeah i take your point, but at least the bi guy is honest to himself about who he really is. A straight guy who wants to suck a cock should at least consider himself "bi-curious". labels are a pretty crap thing regarding a flexible thing such as sexuality but straight guys dont like other mens dicks. Though some straight guys arent fussy who gets them off when times are hard and pussy is scarce. :lol: Quote by easyease
hmmm yeah i take your point, but at least the bi guy is honest to himself about who he really is. A straight guy who wants to suck a cock should at least consider himself "bi-curious". labels are a pretty crap thing regarding a flexible thing such as sexuality but straight guys dont like other mens dicks. Though some straight guys arent fussy who gets them off when times are hard and pussy is scarce.
My profile says I'm straight, that's not entirely correct as I do play with women from time to time, but I don't actively pursue sex with women anywhere near as much as I do with men so I don't choose the bi label. I'm not being dishonest with myself or anyone else though by saying I'm straight. Maybe it's the same for some of those straight men too, bi when the mood takes them.
Like you said, sexuality is a flexible thing, so a small number of labels don't work for all of us. If I have the option to type in my own term, I usually opt for bi dabbler which is much more accurate (for me) - I'm not bi curious, as the generic understanding of that terms seems to be "inexperienced but thinking about it".
Just another point of view to consider EE, not everyone is easily categorised
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very true, thats why if someone finds somebody else attractive they should let them know, fortune favours the brave, hehe.
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Quote by Serendipity
very true, thats why if someone finds somebody else attractive they should let them know, fortune favours the brave, hehe.
Including straight guys who fancy a change then eh?
oh bloody hell, ok i stand as charged. i did mail a local straight guy once on the off chance. 
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true stormwalker, some are even lazier and think a wink is an invitation for sex with no communication required.
you can put an auto wink thing on so you never actually receive them, the sender gets a message back saying thatnks but reply with more details etc
also beware free members can only send winks so unless you know for sure dont knock wink senders as they may be a free member
I switched off my auto-response as it seemed to show them I was actually interested and then encouraged them to come back with a crappy one liner.
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